because it would embarrass him. And i know that the next time i see him i won't be able to look at him the same way. i still like him alot but i don' t know what to do. I feel like a chicken with my head cut off. please help me
2007-02-16 02:26:16 · 20 answers · asked by autumn donn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like you really care about him and you aren’t sure how he’d react if he finds out that you know his big secret. However, the question is how is he going to react if he finds out that you’ve known but never said anything. I think you should try talking to him about it and reassure him that whatever this secret is, it’s safe with you. If you don’t bring it up, he’s going to figure out that something is up anyways considering you’ve admitted that you won’t be able to look at him the same. If this is a feeling that you have and it’s a strong feeling perhaps you should walk away from your relationship before someone is hurt by the secrets. Before you do, just try talking to him. At this point what do you have to loose? Either way, he’s going to end up some what heart. Hope for the best but always be prepared for the worse.
2007-02-16 02:41:32 · answer #1 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It must be pretty embarassing! If it has to do with another guy or a serious crime, I don't blame you for not being able to look at him the same way, I wouldn't either, you have a right to be curious but if you are really a caring girlfriend you could look beyond his past and if he is your boyfriend he should be able to tell you anything
2007-02-16 02:40:57 · answer #2 · answered by runzwsizorz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-17 11:21:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What in the hell is it? lol...to me, that can make a big difference in whether or not you should tell him or just let it slide. In your case it sounds kind of severe...is it that bad? If it bothers you that much, then maybe you should tell him you know about it. I really can't help you without knowing what it is and be able to tell him you know about it, because it depends.
2007-02-16 02:30:52 · answer #4 · answered by Southern Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him. If you know a secret about him, then just tell him! If he breaks up with you because of it, than he's an idiot for doing so or he was planning to break up with you to begin with.
Just tell him. What if you guys are meant to be and 45 years from now, you still haven't told him?
2007-02-16 02:32:02 · answer #5 · answered by Joseph B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If what you claim to know is something that will embarrass him it would be better for you to let him know than for you to use this tidbit in the middle of an argument.
2007-02-16 02:29:45 · answer #6 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, my advice is just pretend you don't know, unless you feel the subject has to be brought up. Don't you feel you can talk to him about it, and he will go in a mood if he finds out you know??
Is it a bad thing??
2007-02-16 02:32:25 · answer #7 · answered by fraz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hard to say without knowing what you know. if it's something criminal, then you should stay away. if it's something silly that happens to alot of people, then you should just forget it and move on- maybe he will tell you about it eventually when you've built a stronger relationship.
2007-02-16 02:31:10 · answer #8 · answered by 1912 Hudson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got me dead curious now......
Can't help you though, I would just recommend you either forgetting about it, or coming clean and admitting the fact that you know. Dishonesty can ruin a relationship.
2007-02-16 02:31:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't feel the same way about him...it's better for both of you if you end it.
I would never tell him what I know...let him keep his dignity.
2007-02-16 02:29:55 · answer #10 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋