My boyfriend is 2 years younger than me,his parents are not accepting this.My parents will never accept the relationship,they don't know the age difference,but for many other reasons.They have high expectation about my marriage,so I have stopped convincing them.Whatever we have to do, that has to be done against my family members.I'm mentally prepared for
it.Earlier,he was also very determined and desperate to go against his parents,but now he wants their approval & blessings.His mother always applies emotions on him to convince him.Still he is trying his best.Both of us are doing jobs & financially independent & happy with our jobs.But, now he fears that, if he marries me withour his parent's approval, then he'd lose them forever,which he doesn't want to.But, I love him deeply & we have a bit of physical relationship which has made me more emotional & I have started considering him as my husband.At any cost, I don't wanna lose him.Now he needs some time.Can he marry me ever?
2007-02-16 01:15:02 · 10 answers · asked by ani d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
yeah he will if he really loves you,he will only do whats good for both of u.so hold on and believe and pray
2007-02-16 01:39:12 · answer #1 · answered by o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just drop the whole marriage thing and enjoy being boyfriend and girlfriend for awhile. It seems like your driving him away with all the marriage junk. Even if your thinking about it, just don't talk about it. You shouldn't ask him to choose between you and his family. Which marriage would do right now. He'll prob. pick them. I would give it more time and maybe his parents will eventually approve. Also if your under 25 when you get married the rate of divorce is much higher. Let him ask you when the time is right for him. Until then the words marriage, wedding, husband, wife, etc... are off limits.
2016-03-28 22:29:16 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get married under Special Marriage Act before the Marriage Registrar or at any temple. Does the parents want their children to roam, love, enjoy and live together for years, but to marry at parents' wish and cheat their spouses. Never marry anybody else and convince the parents.
2007-02-16 08:33:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents, if they really truly love their offspring, will accept them as individuals. He can't live trying to please his parents for ever, well with major decisions. Then again, sometimes parents know what's best. Could you give it a few months or years? Maybe once both of your parents realise how much you love eachother, they'll come around. Sometimes though, we just have to go against what our parents want and sometimes parents have to accept their offsprings mistakes.
2007-02-16 01:27:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are going to fast! Make sure first that you do not want to marry its other because they are pressing you not to! Then if you really want each other, get married the to of you. Doing such things under pressure is a bad thing. Deal with the pressure first! Relax and take your time.
2007-02-16 01:22:17 · answer #5 · answered by filip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am 12 years older than my husband----at first his parents freaked out! but as they saw that i truly cared for him and love him they are fine now. i think too much is put on age difference if you were a guy and he was a girl who would care? if i was a guy ---who would care? we have been married for over 10 years and are very very happy
good luck to you
2007-02-16 01:38:57 · answer #6 · answered by shana b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
his parents will come round to the idea, its not their life its yours and life is too short to make other people happy and sacrifice your own happiness. He should explain how he feels to his parents and say he is going to marry you anyway but would much prefer them to be there and have their blessing and if they wont agree go ahead anyway, they cant rule his life or yours.
2007-02-16 01:20:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH I THINK U BOTH WILL HAVE A LONG PROSPEROUS MARRIED LIFE.
IF HE IS CARING ENOUGH NOT TO LOSE HIS PARENTS' LOVE FOR YOU..U CAN TRUST HE WONT LOSE U'RS FOR ANYBODY ELSES EITHER.
GOD BLESS YOU
2007-02-16 01:32:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the end it is upto yourselves not yours or his parents.... good luck and hope it works out... eventually they will accept whatever you do.
2007-02-16 01:23:22 · answer #9 · answered by mags_brfc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh thats terrible
2007-02-16 01:18:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋