Family & Relationships - 3 February 2007

when a pretty, sweet girl that never has a bf before, she is always hanging out with her gf, then she is really hard to get? because i heard girls like that are usually picky....

2007-02-03 16:35:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Over the years, He's wasted me down but says its all me. I figured he is probably right, that it's a guy thing...that alot of guys might do it. Here's an example:one night I stayed home with my infant son, he told me he was going to drop someone off at their house, never came back. Never answered the phone. 3:30 a.m. I get a txt message telling me to drive to a bar in our town to pick him up. I got the baby ready, went to the bar, he wasn't there. So I txtd him. He said he is actually in a hotel room 5 towns away and that he missed me and that he promises to never do it again, it was a mistake, but he couldnt take being bored at home. I get there, and his friend is there"thanks for the ride back because those two bitches left us in the room." I said "what girls" He tells me a 19 yr old. and a 21 yr old and that he didnt feel right being there w/o me. Actually, they left him. When I confront him, he denies lies, where he's been, ect.He is 41 yrs. old, addicted to ALL drugs and alcohol

2007-02-03 16:35:39 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

After he's been on the computer half the day Ive been finding... the "history" has been deleted, along with the temporary internet files,cookies,ect. Is there some way to review computer activity without having to fork out the big bucks? I live on a tight budget. Ive asked him why he deletes these things and he has responded to my question, with another question. Thats unlike him. Just thought it might not be a bad idea to look into it.

2007-02-03 16:35:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

HELP ME!!! My best friend and I we're mad at my friend so we wern't her friend for about 1 month but now my best friend is friends with her and I can't stand it!!!!!!!! My BFF thinks there's something wrong with me. She dosn't understand how it makes me feel, 2 days ago she played with her at resses and ignored me and all of our other friends. She didn't even say she was going to. I'm worried about our friend-ship. Is there something wrong with me?

2007-02-03 16:33:59 · 16 answers · asked by curiouss 2 in Friends

Do guys find it attractive when girls ask for their numbers?...kinda like a cute outgoing thing.......or is it always better when guys ask the girls that?

2007-02-03 16:33:37 · 17 answers · asked by Bethyboo 3 in Singles & Dating

when he talks to you (his feet facing you..i heard on here before thats a sign he likes you) and he stands very close, does it mean he might like me?

2007-02-03 16:33:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok..get this, this guy im working with that ive been sort of dating..we have gone out on three dates and im really starting to like him. well for the story...today was his day off but i had to work, he came in though looking mighty cute if i had to say so..with his sister who he introduced me to well it was a crazy day at work so he left pretty fast but didn't check out through my line but i noticed his dad (which i recongized from pics) was watching me. and then he got some more bags for me from another register with out me asking..but when he left he didnt' say goodbye...and i wont' see him again until saturday..so does that mean he likes me or its just friends?

2007-02-03 16:33:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-03 16:32:16 · 8 answers · asked by martin3 1 in Singles & Dating

Outside of church I need a marriage mentor. I need someone with experience. I have been married for 8 years and I need someone with experience to help me through email an im. Is there such a place or person. I need tons of advice but I don’t need a doctor to tell me how to do things. I need someone with REAL experience in marriage and possibly child rearing. Thanks.

2007-02-03 16:31:01 · 14 answers · asked by momof3 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend mother has custody of her two girls.The mother has stayed with my friend for the last three yrs.About 3 days ago my friend filed her taxes and was told the next day to come back in because someone has already claimed the girls.(It was her mom).So my question is who has the right to claim the girls my friend because or her mom?Don't forget the mom resides with her although she has custody of the girls.

2007-02-03 16:30:46 · 4 answers · asked by dccuttie75 6 in Family

his face, is he being nice or sarcastic? He also said he has a girlfriend.

Just wondering if he really want to go out with me but can't because of his situation.

2007-02-03 16:28:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay me and my ex havent even talked or nothing for like already 5mon and im still in love with him and i cry over him all the time do think im just stupid for still being in love? And if it was you would you call him and tell him how you feel?

2007-02-03 16:28:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this guy i like is a baller & listens to hip hop & rap
& i'm the total opposite.
i'm indie-ish & i listen to screamo/indie music.

we both like eachother...but i'm afraid that there isn't gonna be much to talk about!
help me!

2007-02-03 16:28:33 · 3 answers · asked by Spongebob ") 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-03 16:28:17 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband won't let anyone help him to stop smoking. We get into stupid fights because I ask him not to have his next cigarette so I won't feel like puking when I kiss him, or nauseaus when I'm in the car with him smoking or turned off when he hugs me.

I am so turned off when he smells like a drunk trucker in a bar!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Any advice please?

Thank you so much!

; )

Stella!

2007-02-03 16:27:43 · 3 answers · asked by Reading and Answering Your Q' 3 in Family

I had my shirt on , but I had slept over his house and taken off my bra underneath. Well I was in his room in the morninglaying on his bed while he was at his computer and I was playing with my bra in ym hand and his mom didn't knock, and she just walked in. She saw me on the bed and was embarassed so i trie dto put the bra to the side and she goes"oh sorry I didn't know you were here"

Now I am SO embarassed. SO much so, I told my bf I can't stay over his house that way anymore, because I don't want his parents to think I am unladylike, because I am a lady. I told him at the beginning I didin't think it was right to be over his house at night, but he said his parents don't care, and I know they don't, but I want to be seen as a decent girl . He said he understood and that I was right that it may be inappropriate ,but I think he is kind of offended that I said i don't want to sleep over there anymore.

Am i right? What do I do to remedy this embarassment?

2007-02-03 16:27:39 · 28 answers · asked by coochie1 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-03 16:27:26 · 8 answers · asked by dancingwiththestars 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-03 16:26:48 · 1 answers · asked by dancingwiththestars 4 in Singles & Dating

This evening I was at a bar to hear some music. I sneaked in early so I didn't have to pay cover charge. I lurked about and finally sat down in the back to hear some music. I made small talk with a musician and with the bartender (I bought two beers, and I tipped her too). I left peacefully. Was this behavior acceptable? Am I doing something wrong by not networking (or more bluntly trying to get a girl's phone number)?

2007-02-03 16:26:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband never has any extra time to spend with me. However he enjoys spending time with our kids, but is seems like he spends more time with our 15yr old daughter and her friends doing things like going to the movies, shopping, going for ice cream, concerts ect. We also have younger boys and he don't spend more time with them or their friends. He says he spend more time with her because she is older than the boys and when they are older he will do the same. If I ask him to go out for dinner, he comes up with excuses, he might say "we have food at home" or "its too expensive"...ect. If I invite him to a movie I'll just end up going alone because its a "chick flick" and he'll say " I have tons of DVDs we can watch at home." If we attend a function together he always wants to leave early, if he even goes at all. Bottom line he wont do anything that includeds me. On day he took the kids to "chuck E cheese" and said if I (me) go he won't go so I stayed home. What would you do?

2007-02-03 16:26:18 · 22 answers · asked by starr5 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The thing is I'm afraid of being rejected plus we are friends and I don't want to mess up that connection with her. I just get the feeling that it won't never go back the way it was before. She keeps on saying I'm a sweet guy and she is a very sweet girl. Its just that I don't want to hurt her if I get rejected by her and I don't want to ignore her because of that. So what can I do to keep that part from happening?

2007-02-03 16:26:11 · 11 answers · asked by Berties 3 in Singles & Dating

We just had our 5th wedding anniversary (my husband knew it was coming), but he didn't even acknowledge it... no "happy anniversary", no kiss, no card, nothing! He says he only wants to celebrate the "important ones" like our 25th, 50th, etc. How do I get him to understand that each year is special, and his attitude hurts my feelings & makes me question his love for me? (it's been getting progressively worse each year)

2007-02-03 16:25:34 · 6 answers · asked by Danielle S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay i have a baby girl she will be 2 months on the 6th but the thing is my husband want's to go out with his friends everynight i think he should spend time with her he gos out everything then comes home drunk and wakes her up i am a full time mother its not easy , i love my husband but i dont think he should go out everything night i would not let him go out tonight he got very mad at me can you ladys he lp me out plz thank you.

2007-02-03 16:25:11 · 9 answers · asked by lori7642 3 in Family

"I think we should take things slow, I really like you but we are also really good friends and I don't want that to get ruined." Is this the classic i just wanna be friends line...or is it the friendship that marriages are built on?

2007-02-03 16:24:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I know he likes me. I suppose I'm trying to get a reaction. I've already tried talking to him. He says he needs time, so that's what I'm giving him. What reaction does this provoke in guys?

2007-02-03 16:24:47 · 3 answers · asked by ms_n_flyte 2 in Singles & Dating

ok im 20 years old on ssi i live in a pretty crappy house on my moms land i wanna fix it up but im scared shell sell it and she wont give me the title because shes sccared ILL sell it. i dont have water on the house im living in and shes giving me 4700 dollars she owes me but shes making me use it on my water it costs 5000 dollars. im having problems making my decision because thats way to much to spend on something i will never own and also she is a very big contributor for anxiety and depression for me it will be hard for me to leave here because i will get scared and im afraid that ill just move back here but thing is she sais if i spend the money on anything else but the water i caant come back then also think i mean i gotta get over not being near her shes the only person i feel safewith except my gf but shes also a little evil lol i can move into low income housing and keep the 4700 what should i do? ssi reason (panick attack anxiety depression agorophobia bipolar depression?

2007-02-03 16:24:28 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

you see i have braces and i wear glasses would a guy want to go out with me?

2007-02-03 16:24:11 · 10 answers · asked by fashgurl 4 in Friends

2007-02-03 16:23:52 · 6 answers · asked by frank 1 in Family

i liked this guy and i kind of like someone else right now. tonight, the first guy called me and he was talking about how he was sober which after calling him back, he def. wasn't. he said he'd call me back and he never did and i never called him back either. i just dont know what to do because i think the first guy likes me now even though he has a girlfriend. tonight was their anniversary and he spent it talking to me on the phone [drunk]. saying he wanted to pick me up but i wouldnt let him. ahh just please give me some advice for this situation.

ps- he also texts me all the time when he is SOBER.

2007-02-03 16:23:35 · 13 answers · asked by xidontwanttotalkaboutitx 2 in Singles & Dating

should i be afraid to ask him out because of rejection? im in high school, help me!

2007-02-03 16:22:16 · 13 answers · asked by nina del barrio fino 516~Fo Sho~ 2 in Singles & Dating