i just dont' understand guys!?

Question

ok..get this, this guy im working with that ive been sort of dating..we have gone out on three dates and im really starting to like him. well for the story...today was his day off but i had to work, he came in though looking mighty cute if i had to say so..with his sister who he introduced me to well it was a crazy day at work so he left pretty fast but didn't check out through my line but i noticed his dad (which i recongized from pics) was watching me. and then he got some more bags for me from another register with out me asking..but when he left he didnt' say goodbye...and i wont' see him again until saturday..so does that mean he likes me or its just friends?

Answer 1

just a friend. nothing more.dont take it seriously even u have gone out 3 times on a dates with him. you are too easily be infatuated.

Answer 2

Genetically all men are geared to hunt and provide for their family. Now days we don't hunt, but we work. When you ask an adult male to talk about himself the first thing they usually say is what they do for a living. So to us the job is very important. If you were working hard on a busy day and he could tell. Then it would only be natural for him to not want to bother you and risk getting you fired.

The fact that he brought in his sister could just mean that he and his sister were out for the day. However, that isn't likely, it is more likely that he wanted her opinion of you. What ever reason he and his sister came into the store; after she has met you then he is going to ask her opinion. That could be important. A friend might want to do something like that, a boy friend WOULD MOST DIFFENETLY want to do that.

If his father was looking at you then it is clear that someone has pointed out to him that you and he are dating. So once again someone in his family is developing an opinion about you. He probably thinks you are a potential, if not already, his son's girlfriend.

Men don't usually have a lot of alterative motives and answer their questions pretty straightforward. They also appreciate honesty and clarity in a relationship. You should CASUALLY ask him if he family approved, "So your family came in to the store does this mean you want to get serious?" If you get him in casual conservation and surprise him with this then you are going to get one of three answers. First, something similar to, "Uh should we?" Second, "I don't know?" Third "No not really." If he says no then keep the relationship casual.

If he doesn't know or asks "should we?" Then you need to have an answer ready before hand. If you want the relationship to remain casual then give him a noncommittal answer, "That's nice," or “Um, okay.” If you want the relationship to grow then you need to have a better answer, “Well, if you sister and dad gave you a favorable report then we should.” Or “Why don’t we try it.” What ever you say, you need to be direct and clear, he is unsure enough, males are very afraid of rejection, and he may feel that it isn’t right to pressure you.

If you take control of the relationship then you can set the pace. All you have to do is to make a clear signal when you want to move to the next level, then let him take the lead.

Another hint: Men think of each first time as more of a goal than an event. The big thing is the road to get there. But, the woman wants the event to be special. If you want it to be special then you need to set the stage and the mood. If you want your first kiss to be something special then you need to do the work. Once it happens you will both enjoy the event, but the male may not think about creating the proper mood. Once you do though, he will enjoy it as well.

Answer 3

Sometimes guys can be shy. He may like you he may not show it know. He also may get in a different line because he's with his dad and sometimes you shy away when your around parents. It's hard to say without knowing the person. Personally, but I'm atypical, I'd tend to shy away, even if I was close friends with you etc. I wouldn't put too much stock in his dad looking your way...your probably over-analyzing the situation because your caught up in it. Just take it at your own pace and see where it goes. You never know

Answer 4

If he is a timid/caring person,then he might think you'll get in trouble if he hangs around.On the hand,if he is a player,he might do that too.Just watch his actions.He might just want to be friends or something else.Be careful.

Answer 5

May be he do that carelessly so take it cool and with time you will know what it is!

Answer 6

JUST STAY FRIENDS UNTIL THERE IS MORE TO IT. DONT LET THEM RUN YOU . YOU MEET AND HAVE FUN WITH NICE PEOPLE