HELP ME!!! My best friend and I we're mad at my friend so we wern't her friend for about 1 month but now my best friend is friends with her and I can't stand it!!!!!!!! My BFF thinks there's something wrong with me. She dosn't understand how it makes me feel, 2 days ago she played with her at resses and ignored me and all of our other friends. She didn't even say she was going to. I'm worried about our friend-ship. Is there something wrong with me?
2007-02-03 16:33:59 · 16 answers · asked by curiouss 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
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Edit: I've talk to her about it but it dosn't seem like she feels strong about what I said.
2007-02-03 16:49:06 · update #1
Things like this happen in life. It's apart of growing pains. Maybe you need to move on and just be with your other friends.
Don't worry about what other people think of you. Be more concerned with how you are with others and mostly start caring about yourself.
If you can't seem to work this out with this friend or yours then perhaps she was never a real friend at all?
I don't know but what I do know is that your real friends will stand by you and those who weren't your real friends won't.
Try not to focuss too much on the past because you cannot undo your past but you can move on in the present and deal with that.
Your young enjoy your youth while you have it now and just remember that real true friends are hard to find. A real friend will like you no matter what.
2007-02-10 11:10:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen i dont know how old are you but im guessing ive been there too. The best thing is talk over problems instead of getting away. It only makes the problem bigger and bigger and will be no fixing later. Ask why she did what she did, and what you did to make her change her mind, and i would also talk to the first one too and try to be polite if not friends , you will show more maturity than them if you let it cool down. Dont make my mistakes...
2007-02-04 00:39:09 · answer #2 · answered by Alex P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, there is nothing wrong with u. What you should do is talk to your friend and tell her that even if u can't stand her hanging out with the other one, you would like here to hang out a bit more with you because you feel ignored
2007-02-04 00:46:43 · answer #3 · answered by Krisss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this truly is a good friend, you should be able to talk about this and how it makes you feel.
Perhaps your friend has learned that sometimes you have to learn to forgive and forget or run the risk of missing out on alot of fun things because of a silly dispute!
2007-02-04 00:37:47 · answer #4 · answered by Marsha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you. She obviously wants to make you upset. To make you mad. So don't let her succeed! You can either forget her and don't let her bother you, or you can tell her how you feel. I remember when this used to happen to me all the time. I know it's hard but try not to worry about it too much.
2007-02-04 02:31:05 · answer #5 · answered by Beth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby;
i have a 14 year old daughter and i tell her everyday,that you should never be mad at /or/with no-one;because we have enough Emmies in this world as it is. you should find out why you are mad at your friend and then ask yourself,is it really worth losing your friendship over? i am sure that you can work this out,but if you don't talk-than you will never work it out...
2007-02-11 21:23:29 · answer #6 · answered by kidslovedawna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You friend is just trying to make other friends and she probably doesn't want you or your friend your mad at to get hurt. So she plays with both of you!
2007-02-11 23:55:43 · answer #7 · answered by whateva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't even tell the origin of the problem. What caused the trouble in the first place? I've got to know facts.
2007-02-09 00:13:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there is nothing wrong with you. Just move on and make new friends that you can trust! Good luck!
2007-02-04 00:37:51 · answer #9 · answered by ILOVELUCYFAN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what the girl u feel out wiv did but personal i think ur just jealous that ur best friend has other friends
2007-02-11 20:02:10 · answer #10 · answered by dawnmercedas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋