Family & Relationships - 31 January 2007

Tell me about your mood, location and partner when you have coffee...

2007-01-31 17:21:03 · 4 answers · asked by logan 1 in Singles & Dating

Do guys like it when the girl takes the initiative to ask a guy out, or is it a turn off? Do they want to be in control and ask her first. There is a guy I'm interested in and I'm not sure if I should call him, I got his cell number from a mutual friend.

2007-01-31 17:20:46 · 9 answers · asked by Sunny 2 in Singles & Dating

Tonight my husband call me nosey, because I spy in my 15 year old son profile on myspace, I was hurt what he had said, but he is right. what do u think about the whole thing? and why? I dont want him to think I look at his, because I really would'nt. I love him to much. I'm just scared for my son. I really feel bad about this. How would you act?

2007-01-31 17:19:45 · 20 answers · asked by katherinebrown628 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i hate my M.I.L cus she at every point tries to gas her sons head up into making him think im no good when she's not around he's totally ok she's the main problem and she promised me she will have me kicked out of his life she hates me just being there sometimes i get mad and want to leave then i think about how happy she would be and how sad i would be without my husband and he would be sad without me meanwhile she would be jumping for joy, i grew up and my dad is not a guy i would want around he always has negative comments and in his situation he doesn't have to lie to my mom so she can hate me but in this matter(the similarity to my M.IL) is he says im going to call your husband and tell him x.yz and im always quiet i never argue i just ask why me first him and i get married and now her i have gotten depressed due to this sometimes i think im going to die cuz im so sad i just want my husband and my kid to live our life,

2007-01-31 17:18:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am single guy looking to make a better life for myself and was just wondering if there are any females out there that would marry a guy like me so that I can get into the US to study and start my career. Money might also be involved.

2007-01-31 17:18:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im just wondering, cause i kind of like this girl and she IM's me atleast once a day maybe less some days but i want to know..Should I message her too and comment her on mysapce and stuff or is that too easy for her like, you know what i mean should i just always let her start the conversation or should i sometimes start it when she hasnt talked to me in a bit? Or will that make me too much of a "friend" to her?

2007-01-31 17:17:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was wondering what you woman think when you're sitting on your b/f's lap and you notices he gets an erection? Are you grossed out at the moment or think nothing of it or ?

2007-01-31 17:17:06 · 10 answers · asked by Steven 2 in Singles & Dating

lets say you are good looking. lots of girls give you attention but youre not a player. lets say these same girls go around spreading the word that youre a player and not dateable even when you are not even one. is there any way out of this. are some people assumed to be players because people think they are cute.

2007-01-31 17:13:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why people trust love

2007-01-31 17:13:13 · 11 answers · asked by anshya s 1 in Singles & Dating

dont worry i am unmarried

2007-01-31 17:11:34 · 22 answers · asked by spicy 1 in Singles & Dating

She is one of my best frieds but too much of a good person and hot =] for me to not have developed feelings for her. She always wonders why i get mad when she has a boyfriend but she either just doesn't get it or is trying to say someting. Also she cannot seem to stay with one guy for too long. Should i ask her or not or would it just ruin our fabulous friendship forever?

2007-01-31 17:11:16 · 9 answers · asked by Fitch 1 in Singles & Dating

I am married for 14 years and have two kids who my husband and me love very much.I had been in email(5/6 mails) contact with a friend for one year and met him in a resort when he came here to take his wife and kids with him. Later,I had written a love letter to my classmate which I did not send but my husband found it. I had gone through lot of harassment in my marriage and we once even thought of divorce. But I always wanted my husband to change and never had plans of leaving him since he is broke. I am leaving for US in a couple of months and I wish to take my family with me. I told my husband that I never committed any wrong and that both of us only discussed our family problems and that the letter is nothing but a fantacy. I feel the pain when I see the hurt in his face. What I liked about the other guy is his commitment to his family and how he loves and respects his wife. In the letter I had written how I love him and need him a lot which my husband finds hard to digest.

2007-01-31 17:10:45 · 22 answers · asked by venus 1 in Marriage & Divorce

...what is it?
i would say i love my boyfriend...i really care about him and want to be with him...but i wouldnt say im in love...
??

2007-01-31 17:08:49 · 11 answers · asked by LaLaLaa♥ 5 in Singles & Dating

I mean, African-American women have style, attitude, and just down & out beauty. White girls sooo booring.

2007-01-31 17:08:45 · 18 answers · asked by nanlwart 5 in Singles & Dating

This weekend I've made plans with my boyfriend to spend the weekend together, we might be doing something on saturday and on sunday we have to wake up really early to go to the lake with my brother. Just a couple of days ago, my boyfriend was asked by his mate to go to this Drunken cricket thing, and my boyfriend chose what I wanted to do over his friend, which is quite flattering he told me not so long ago that if he had to choose between me and his mates, he'd choose me :-) Now the thing is my mate has asked me to go to this modelling party with her on saturday evening coz she has a free ticket for me, my boyfriend couldn't afford to come and neither would I afford to pay for him. I think it would be harsh for me to go, coz I don't want him thinking my friends come before him and that I'm just gonna leave him behind whilest I go partying, my mate said she could drop me in the morning by his before we go to the lake, the lake which I wanted to do and he chose over his friend!

2007-01-31 17:08:00 · 3 answers · asked by Sheepless 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, well I have had a crush on this guy for a long time but I never told anyone. Then my best friend says that she likes him. I wanted to be a good friend so i let her take him and know He keeps asking me about her! It makes me want to say, " I have liked you longer than she has and you didnt even notice and then the first hint that she drops means true love!" Iwant to be honest with her but I dont know how!

2007-01-31 17:07:39 · 16 answers · asked by Lizzie(hannah) 2 in Friends

my neighbour hood aunty call me 15 days back to help his son in some project work after then she tries to meet me everyday ,call me everyday and even sms me everyday (the sms she sents r d ones which is generally non veg),she crossed her limits 2 hrs before when she suddenly changed her clothes infront of me ,however she was not facing me but then who wud do this infront of a boy who is 10-12 yrs younger than her ,plz tell how shud i gnore or avoid her if my my parents came to know abt this then it spoil my image infront of me plz help( above ALL THIS HIS HUSBAND IS A POLICE OFFICER) IAM SCARED

2007-01-31 17:06:58 · 17 answers · asked by asd 1 in Singles & Dating

i dont know if its a hatred but definatly losing intrest. No im not gaining intrest in women but i just feel that i am sick of men. I find myself thinking more and more about a life alone than dealing with dating and stuff any more. im 25 and its been one bad relationship after another. I mean my current one hes a nice guy and sweet but kind of ignorant. I dont know whats wrong with me. I use to love sex and i thought bout it alot i mean more than normal. Now id rather not be touched. I use to love dating now I could care less. Im not sure whats going on. Its werid. Anyone have any ideas?

2007-01-31 17:06:36 · 18 answers · asked by fine_ass_fatty21 4 in Singles & Dating

I have such strong feelings for this guy but all he does is give me the cold shoulder each time he sees me. I know he probably doesnt care about me but I cant help but have these feelings for him. We've slept 2gether twice but I don't think that's what's makin him to be so ignorant of me, I seriously need help.

2007-01-31 17:05:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can someone please talk to me, I need serious help and there is too much to write to get it all on here and Im desperate. This is not the 1st time its happened and I dont know what to do. I want to leave but there is ice on the roads and I have 2 children to think about. briefly its: he got mad cuz son wouldnt lay down. blames me. yells at me. starts telling me im worthless. I do my best to get the house clean and everything done everyday and if i dont, he yells. tells me he hates me. i go sleep on the pull out. son follws me and i start trying to get him to sleep. he comes in yanks him out of my arms LITERALLY. im the one that always gets him to sleep everynight, hes usually asleep already....cusses at me, threatens to hit me (he did along time ago) i want to leave RIGHT NOW but there is ice on the road. how can i sneak out of here anyways? Im really scared now. Ive been sick all day and he thinks im faking, ive been throwing up and had 103 temp...theres more...lilyfrog2003@yahoo.com

2007-01-31 17:02:00 · 27 answers · asked by Koozie 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend is caring, loving and he gives me a lot of reassurance. However, there are times when for example, he needs focus on his job or he gets a litte distant and distracted and if I express my insecurities and worries to him, he gets upset with me? A friend of mine told me that her boyfriend reacts exactly the same way. I don't understand why. Can you explain to me what he is feeling and why he gets so upset with me for that?

2007-01-31 17:01:34 · 16 answers · asked by violet b 1 in Singles & Dating

I just want to know what the hell the guys are thinking???
Do they want more sag bags? or experience?
Isn't it better for them to go with a young, "non-wrinkly", "non-sagging", and not so "used" up girl???
I personally don't get it.....

And I don't mean like 5 years apart or so, I mean 25 years apart and so on.

2007-01-31 17:00:54 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i told a good female friend i have feelings for her. she said she dosnt want to 'risk our friendship'. i really have some strong feelings for her, is there any way to re-assure her that ill always be here for her no matter what? is there any way to get out of the 'friend zone'?
FYI ive known her about 3 years, the whole time we worked togeather, but not for the past few weeks. she says she can tell im a really good guy and she hasnt had good luck w/ guys id like a chance to change that.

2007-01-31 17:00:16 · 5 answers · asked by somedude 2 in Singles & Dating

my ex bf is getting married this year, hia in fiji.he told me that he's not sure wether to get married or not,because he still love's me and there is apart of me that still with him,i told him that i can't cause i got a bf now,and i love him.i told him that we can only be best friends forever not more than that.

2007-01-31 16:53:32 · 12 answers · asked by fiji wannababe 1 in Weddings

I'm 19 years old and have a 17 year old sister. This year for christmas my parents told me they were having a baby. Now i'm very happy for my parents and happy that i'm going to have a new sibling but at the same time i feel weird about it too. I keep thinking how this baby will change our lives and how everyone else will change as well. Also i come from and indian family where there is always a push for a boy. Now my parents don't beleive this way but my grandparetns who live with us do. They don't treat me and my sister well and i fear that if the baby is a boy that this view of favoring the boy will carry to my parents. Also a 19 year age difference makesme seem as if ppl will see me as a second mother or aunt to this child and not a sister and that becuase of the age difference i won't be able to have a proper sibling relationship with him or her...maybe thats why i feel weird. Does feeling this way make me a bad older sister.

2007-01-31 16:52:53 · 9 answers · asked by K. 1 in Family

I want to be out of a forbidden affair. I am already married with one kid. But I want to end it formally, in a way that the person will accept it too. So that, i can be completely free of this person.

I tried to do it, by e-mail several times. But this person seemed to neglect what I say. Even implying that it's not what I want. The more this person do this, the more I'm emotionally bonded to the person.

I don't really know what this person feel for me... But i feel emotional connection even this person is in the opposite side of the world, and haven't seen each other for 3 years.

Any advice?

2007-01-31 16:52:14 · 19 answers · asked by pesticide 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if we got a divorce all of her family lives in california which is where she would go...im from iowa by the way. is their a way that i can ensure that my daughter stays with me?

2007-01-31 16:52:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anarchy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i do chores around the house.but everytime they see me doing this stuffs they always shake their head and say things, specially my dad.

2007-01-31 16:52:03 · 9 answers · asked by lancer92 4 in Family

I met this girl around the beginning of the school year around August. She flirted with me a lot (kissed me once in my hand...) and poked my stomach all the time. Me and her used to get along really well, thing was she had a boyfriend. They broke up, but I wasn't ready to be in a relationship. So she got a new boyfriend, but she kept flirting with me. Her boyfriend was/is my friend, so I decided to ignore her. I ignored for about 3 months, she would still call me telling me things to bother me, like how my acting sucked and how *gay* I was, it was all said in a playful manner though. Also come up to me grab by the waist and say " hello love" and always calling me to say hi, which I would only answer with ignoration. Sadly, my mother passed away, and it just wanted to get something off my chest. I talked to ger for the first time in a long time by AIM about it, she told me she "was gonna help me get thorugh it" and "hang out with me and only me in lunch. She spanked me in the butt!

2007-01-31 16:50:59 · 9 answers · asked by Dathletez 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-31 16:50:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating