Family & Relationships - 31 January 2007

Dont understand her! She broke off with her Bf 7mths ago. Last few weeks i make known to her that i like her.

She told me right now she is not willing to commit any relationship but she wont deny in futre she wont. However she did not reject me. During her down period, we become close friend. We communicate with each other frequently. Nowaday it gone less.. especially after i declare my love for her.

I still call her daily to wake her up to work. Nowaday we went cold with each other. In my heart i know she is still there but i assume she wanted she want us to remain as friend. as whenever i text her. she would reply short unlike last time and sometime nvr reply.

The strange things is she would text me only when she is tipsy... other then that she seldom text me. What is she thinking? I m trying to move on and she keep holding me back.

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2007-01-31 17:58:36 · 8 answers · asked by Eddy W 1 in Singles & Dating

we want that to have a bridesmaid and flower girl,, just like in church.. is that possible

2007-01-31 17:58:16 · 10 answers · asked by ahnnee 1 in Weddings

2007-01-31 17:55:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My batchmate who I have not for the last 14 years had lent me emotional support when I needed it most. He is committed to his family as much as I am to mine. I met him once in a resort and we only shared few things about my life. I had been through hell with my husband and and inspite of my parents warnings I have been with him with the hope that he would change.I even introduced my friend to my husband when their family visited us.The letter I wrote may have some emotional outpourings but I did not send it as I sensed I am crossing my line. My parents and my sister feel as if I had done something very grave. My husband who even suggested divorce only few days before he found the letter feels as if I cheated on him. I told him that the letter is only a fantacy and the content is quite different from reality. I always worried about my husband and I even planned to take him and my kids to US along with me once I get there? How can I get over this as the pain in his eyes hurts me much.

2007-01-31 17:55:39 · 9 answers · asked by venus 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-31 17:54:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Suppose you occupy a managerial position at work. One day you meet a girl ( young and attractive) at one of your company functions.She who works as a journalist and is there to cover the event. You exchange numbers and the next day she calls you and you go to your place & have sex (After struggling a while to get into her pants). You dont call for a few days but later on decide to call her again(this time she's menstruating) & you cant chow her if thats what you had in mind. she upsets you by receiving a strange phone call and you suddenly stop calling her. She calls you but you only promise to see her but never do. She really likes you & you know it but you just keep ignoring her. This is me, what should I do people it really hurts.

2007-01-31 17:53:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-31 17:53:36 · 13 answers · asked by ail 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm dating a student from France. He's eventually going to return to France after he's done with his school stint here in the States. I know our relationship is kind of doomed based on this fact, so why the hell am I partaking in a relationship with an expiration date?

I'm confused. I want to break up with him to save myself the hurt later. What's the point of it all?

2007-01-31 17:52:41 · 5 answers · asked by Tangent Lines 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-31 17:51:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So there are X good looking hot chicks that all put their name in a hat... you pull the name out, and you get to have sex with that person. BUT there is also a guy who put his name in a hat... No matter what, you have to have sex with whoever you pick, even if its the guy. Just a random gay guy. How would "X" have to be before you agreed to take your chance with the game? (If you're a woman or gay just switch the guy with the women.)

2007-01-31 17:51:04 · 9 answers · asked by Eric G 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 13 and he dumped me and is going out with my ex best friend. Please help!!!!!!!

2007-01-31 17:50:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The person that I like sent me a text message and what he said was "Do not feel sad I am looking inside for answers." I am not sure how to interpret this, he hasn't called in a week but he also sent me another text message saying that he wasn't mad so I don't get it why hasn't he called? All I know is that he's got emotional conflicts and that he is a very stubborn guy. Could u help me plz?

2007-01-31 17:50:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This question may not be specific at all, or even explain what I'm trying to say but I'ma give it a shot anyway.

I'm a mixed dude(black and white) but when it comes to my penis I didn't inherit my black people's pimp stick. However, my question here really is about women.

Now I have not studied this in any books or anything it just came to me as I sat here looking for something to do online. I've seemed to notice that black girls (and white girls who have sex with black guys) will laugh in the face of a guy w/ a small pimp stick whereas white girls who rarely have sex w/ black guys don't seem to care that much.

This is based on personal experience because all the white girls I have slept w/ didn't mind that I only had 4 inches whereas all the black/mixed girls I was getting ready to sleep with will change their mind at the last second and laugh at me lol

Anyways my question is here is: Do white and black girls differ when it comes to having sex w/ diff size penis's?

2007-01-31 17:49:19 · 17 answers · asked by cjh4n32n 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-31 17:48:06 · 11 answers · asked by hairy pouter 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

He just confuse me so much. I really like him alot but I never dare to tell him that and I think that he has feeling for me too or am I wrong. There's this one day we hung out together and everythig went perfectly...we talked, laugh together, smile to each other alot...we sit close to each other with his hand on my shoulder and sometimes keeping me warm when it's cold. Our heads touches each other and he sometimes rest his head on my shoulder. He even pay attention to small detail about me...I thought that everything was alright that day...but then the next day when I talked to him online...it doesn't seem like he wanted to talk much...he's respond was like "yeah, lol, oh" etc...he told me that i never talk to him online and now i did but his respond was like that. I started to get a feeling that he doens't like me or something. He's so confusing. What is he thinking? Is he playing hard to get? he's making me think and wonder about it all day. I'm so confuse...any advice? thanks

2007-01-31 17:46:52 · 3 answers · asked by ceec 4 in Singles & Dating

he's awesome, intelligent, everyone loves him, reliable and has a very bright future. both of us are in the same college taking the same major. but the thing is, i feel extremely inferior to him. he's been getting offers for exchange programmes, some firms (we're taking architecture) have asked him to design logos, websites and presentation boards. he's basically an all rounder and can do anything. he really stands out. while im over shadowed by his achievements. its not easy for me to catch up with him. i dont think i ever can. and im under pressure because of this. i really need help. a solution of some kind. thanks.

2007-01-31 17:45:45 · 20 answers · asked by Prevent Animal Cruelty 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend (as she says) is in love with this guy. But I have a big problem with him. They have a little age difference..say four/five years. He won't date her because of this, but he finds the time to say I love you very much..or you're so beautiful. And these statements just make her feel so great.

Then the next day he forgets what he says to her. Like maybe he doesn't care.. or doesn't bother to remember what he's said.

He likes around 3 girls. But then says he will always love Lily. In the back of my mind I think he's just playing with her. And Im scared that he's going to hurt her. I dont want that

so the question is, should I confront her about my feelings about her situation and try to prevent her from getting hurt?

2007-01-31 17:45:01 · 5 answers · asked by Iggy 1 in Singles & Dating

when i say make him i don't mean force him. but what r the things that when guys see or feel that make them to want to commit. And guys what are your ideas about sex/early sex/no sex and marriage/engaged.?

2007-01-31 17:44:27 · 5 answers · asked by blue5349 1 in Singles & Dating

You know, how they always say boys are just using girls during the teenage years, girls just wanna have fun. etc. Is there any hope for true love here?

2007-01-31 17:44:08 · 17 answers · asked by thenightsky_isblack 1 in Singles & Dating

My huband is very sneaky! He buys porn and locks it up in his bag in his truck, lock on the bag, When he leaves he claims to be going to the store, but comes back 2-3 hours later with hardly nothing and claims he was visiting his friends. I actully have no proof at all he is cheating, but his answers are so good, that it honestly confuses me. Like I had said, he hides everything from me untill I have to be snoopy and find out for myself. There is alot more to this, but I dont have enough space to write everything. Please tell me what you think and what would you do if you were me, or contact me via e-mail or messanger. Thank You.

2007-01-31 17:43:44 · 2 answers · asked by sneekygirl69 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think there is a danger in loving someone to much.

2007-01-31 17:43:29 · 7 answers · asked by majstevenfusmc 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-31 17:43:16 · 21 answers · asked by fizadora 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-31 17:43:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

she isnt the sexiest girl i know, she's decent looking. also when it comes down to a choice between her or another girl......she wins hands down.................why do i love her so much

2007-01-31 17:42:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i plan to have a civil wedding but i want to be memorable.. me and my fiance were planning to get married but just civil wedd. since we cant married on church cuz there alot requirements to do and my fiance cant make it ..

2007-01-31 17:42:00 · 2 answers · asked by ahnnee 1 in Weddings

Hi guys i just wanted to know if anyone knew what it fells like to find thier soul mate . i have been with my boyfriend for a while i love him dearly with all my heart he makes me so happy but when do u truly know when they r your soul mate.

2007-01-31 17:41:44 · 5 answers · asked by amanda s 1 in Singles & Dating

I love him and i know he loves me but i know he is kind of afraid of losing his singleness and scared of change. He hangs out with friend a lot and stays late but i know he is a great person and cares about me a lot. I love him very much and want to find ways to make him to want to be around me and want to make him happy as much as i can. Please advise me about how to treat him and how to be direct about my intetions without pushing him since it's not like i am all despared about marriage but i want us to at least talk about it and think about it. I am not rushing about marriage but i am not 16 years old anymore and i am not looking for a date.. woanna build the relationship i always wanted.

2007-01-31 17:40:25 · 3 answers · asked by blue5349 1 in Singles & Dating

Today, I found a whole bunch of car magazines (the kind with half-naked women in them) and inserts of girls in skimpy bikinis underneath the sink in my boyfriend's bathroom. I think it's pretty safe to assume that he uses these to masturbate with. I can't get over the thought of my guy fantasizing about another woman and getting off with the thought...for some reason, I don't mind the thought of him just watching porn, but the thought of him actually jacking off over another woman's body is incredibly upsetting to me.

I might find other men attractive...but I would never masturbate over another guy's photograph. To me it would feel like mental cheating. Should I tell my boyfriend what I discovered, not in a personal attack kind-of-way, or to make him stop looking at it, but just as a way to possibly find some reassurance over the whole matter? I honestly feel like I've been cheated on in some kind of form...and please, no "you're just insecure, just give him more sex, etc" lines...

2007-01-31 17:39:15 · 2 answers · asked by Fruit Smoothie 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been seein this guy for 3yrs now and we have a 1yr old son i think we moved 2 fast everything was good in the begining, then after baby things started changing. First he started telling that he didn't want me to go out side, then he didn't want to work, then he didn't want to hang out with my friends unless he was there, it seems like he doesn't want to help me very much when it comes to baby or help clean up the house, last year he got mad a couple and through his alarm clock at me. he never hit me or the baby, and when we had to move back with mom i thought he was lighting up sum, now he's becoming his own way again he wouldn't even let me go to a family dinner with my mom and grandma. it seems like nothing is makin him happy, unless he wants sex and gets it.i don't want 2 do that, i see that he's asking girls out on the pc, he works during the day and home i'm not sure what 2 do affraid to tell him 2 his face so i wrote a letter 2 his inbox what should i do? should i stay?

2007-01-31 17:39:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-31 17:38:58 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships