Suppose you occupy a managerial position at work. One day you meet a girl ( young and attractive) at one of your company functions.She who works as a journalist and is there to cover the event. You exchange numbers and the next day she calls you and you go to your place & have sex (After struggling a while to get into her pants). You dont call for a few days but later on decide to call her again(this time she's menstruating) & you cant chow her if thats what you had in mind. she upsets you by receiving a strange phone call and you suddenly stop calling her. She calls you but you only promise to see her but never do. She really likes you & you know it but you just keep ignoring her. This is me, what should I do people it really hurts.
2007-01-31 17:53:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
as a guy i can say this with some authority, as much as men want to have sex on the first date and sometimes really believe that we will still be interested afterwards, we lose all respect for a woman after, we dont always plan it sometimes it just happens. really it is better to wait to have sex till at the very earliest, the third date. no sooner, or you run a serious risk of the same thing happening again.
2007-01-31 18:18:50 · answer #1 · answered by big_john_719 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby, 1st of all am sorry for what am about to tell u. It's called brutal honesty. The guy is not interested in the person. He is interested in the body. He don't think he is treating bad b'cuz u called him first so anything that happens is ur fault in his head. Advice: Let him do the hunting we like it better that way after all we were always hunters. Just try forget him & move on. Sorry babe.
2007-01-31 18:14:19 · answer #2 · answered by nocirpac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just gonna have to move on. You can't make him feel bad or change his mind. Just accept it sucks, but that you've learned an important lesson from it. (I've learned this the hard way too) if your feelings are involved, which they always are no matter how much we kid ourselves...you should avoid having sex with anyone until they've earned your trust. You'll avoid a lot of heart ache if you don't put your guard down too fast.
2007-01-31 18:01:36 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well ummm, he only wants sex from you.
I don't see it working out anyhow. Move on sister there is someone way better out there to treat you a hell of alot better!
You deserve only the best!! Right?
2007-01-31 17:58:36 · answer #4 · answered by Danielle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
GUY: #1 B #2 A #3 A #4 B #5 B
2016-05-24 01:01:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not have sex on the first date - this is the rule. if u obey this rule u will be much less hurt in the future. this guy used u and now he is gone. no need to cry a river he ain't coming back
2007-01-31 17:56:47 · answer #6 · answered by jacky 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
DUDE DONT BE SO SERIOUS
YOU MENT TO HAVE SOME SUPER SEX AND U HAD IT.JUST 4GET IT GO ATTEND ANOTHER PARTY TO FIND ANOTHER SEX AMCHINE OR GO ON FOR A DATING SITE TO FIND SEXY MAMAS
OR IF U R VERY SERIOUS ABT HER IT MEANS U R IN LOVE WITH HER SO , YOU GUYS MEET UP SOMEDAY AND JUST EXPRESS YOUR LOV PROMISE HER THAT YOU WILL BE HER BOY
2007-01-31 18:03:31 · answer #7 · answered by NAUGHTY HOTTIE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First mistake, sex on the first night. One night stand. Move on
2007-01-31 18:03:22 · answer #8 · answered by blue2blnde 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call her!! Explain things to her. Tell her to get on with her life.......don't let things just keep dangling out there. It gives her hope.
2007-01-31 18:01:49 · answer #9 · answered by Roxie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you the girl or the guy, the girl deserves better and the guy should just tell the girl that he is not interested and let her move on
2007-01-31 17:59:47 · answer #10 · answered by ntu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋