Family & Relationships - 31 January 2007

Say I'm having lunch with a woman that I don't know too well, maybe a work colleague and she says something negative about herself (weight for example), is it a good idea to disagree? What I mean is, do woman actually get annoyed if someone says 'you don't have any weight to lose'.

Just curious.

2007-01-31 19:28:37 · 5 answers · asked by Maggs 1 in Friends

2007-01-31 19:28:21 · 16 answers · asked by ◄Hercules► 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-31 19:27:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i have a friend that just foujnd out that her boyfriend for 9 years was cheating and he said it was because of her not showing enough love and respect but on his brithday she buys him anything he could ever want and more .He told her that things like that happens when men dont get the love and respect that need ,that they'll find another women that will.now thats just down right DISSRESPECTFUL

2007-01-31 19:26:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-31 19:25:23 · 22 answers · asked by risk99 1 in Friends

ok when shy girls like a guy, how do they act when hes around? do they always make it obvious?

2007-01-31 19:24:09 · 16 answers · asked by Regular Guy 1 in Singles & Dating

What is the best way to get a girl's attention?

2007-01-31 19:23:21 · 21 answers · asked by zipperfish567 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-31 19:20:39 · 6 answers · asked by sam 1 in Friends

ok i have a guy friend, he flirts with me..but he knows im taken and he just went thro a break up (a long realtionship) tells me all about it, i give him advise etc. io saw a poem or flow he wrote on his page i read it messaged him told him i liked it etc. then he tells me to call him on his cell so i can hear is voice mail (cause he says him and his ex are talking again) do you think it's just a excuse for me to call him so he can talk to me on the phone???

his ex is with someone else. we talk and messaged each other i unno why he would want me to call.

2007-01-31 19:20:39 · 11 answers · asked by ♥!BabyDoLL!♥ 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-31 19:20:30 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok guys.....if you like a girl,but you dont know she likes you.If you move on and get a g/f,but you and your g/f dont work out,and the other girl you liked asked you out,what would you say?

2007-01-31 19:20:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-31 19:19:40 · 35 answers · asked by knight of darkness 1 in Singles & Dating

Now my mind swings on various points that my wife made after marriage, one is this-My wife to me: “I like one Mr.X very much but not more than you”. I can’t imagine loving a girl other than my wife in my life. I know my wife also loves me. But what disturbs me is this - Her first love will always stay in her mind. How can she lov me 100% when der is still residues of her first love inher mind. Why did she not tell me dis when I was so open to her saying anything I did and I do. Hard to express how I feel now. Imagine when u learn that ur wife has offered her whole heart to someone already and she still has good name for him (by the above statement). In such deep love she wud have considered him as her husband and lived with him in dreams. She was longing for that guy, spoke to him at mid night getting too much disturbued by his thinking etc. I am collapsed. I started smokin, drinkin but nothing cud comfort me & I can’t stop or hide my love for her bcoz I gave my wholeheart to her......

2007-01-31 19:19:28 · 22 answers · asked by Neena 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my kids told me she was going to their friends house and drinking with them and playing a game and she let this 18 yr old suck on her breast and then my kids found a letter from him to her saying how much fun they had in the back seat and behind his house, and to have as much fun as she can before i get out, then my daughters boyfriend told me that kid told him that my wife gave him a ********, well she denies everything, what can i do to get her to tell the truth, and keep us togather, we have been married 21 yrs, and now it is almost over, she even kisses differant and does other sexual things she never did before

2007-01-31 19:19:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She is always asking the same question time and time again I answered the first few times very sincerely but as she has asked this same question so many times a couple of times I have joked and put down things that was funny not only to me other people have agreed but she can't see the funny side.

Anyway my question is why do people leave themselves open to ridicule do they like to be insulted or is it a cry for attention or is it because they are so insecure they are in constant need of reassurance because this is what this girl is in need of and that is why she keeps asking exactly the same question

2007-01-31 19:18:57 · 17 answers · asked by Peachy Girl 4 in Singles & Dating

He's into games, but all the new game systems are too expensive and I already bought him a Xbox 360. He likes clothes but I'm not sure if thats a good choice for a gift.

2007-01-31 19:18:29 · 11 answers · asked by luvbby6 1 in Friends

2007-01-31 19:15:38 · 1 answers · asked by Moo Sayers >:( 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay I am 19 years old, and my girlfriend is 20, we both work the same job at a retail store, I do dock work and she works in the mens clothing department. my girlfriend always laughs at other guys even when something isnt funny she may just look at them and laugh and smile even when I'm there,she's also 5 months pregnant with my baby, and I know she love me, and I love her, but I always find her smiling and laughing with other co-workers, and theres this one guy she says she on't like, and she doesn't talk to him, but I dont know how sure she is about that, because she always laughs at him, but she says she doesnt like him, how can I tell if my girlfriend is attracted to another guy? what details should I look for? she don't touch them she just always laugh and smile at them, she say their funny to her but she laughs a lot!

2007-01-31 19:15:29 · 5 answers · asked by GRS 1 in Singles & Dating

And if the past doesn't matter then why do people write history books. I think it's just a convenient excuse to say "oh, never mind my past lovers what we have right now is what is special".

So what makes sex so special to a spouse especially if it has been given away to previous partners so easily.

2007-01-31 19:15:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

please reply soon,I know ahmedabad very close,cause I m belongs to a'bad,it's a nice city.
but i faced so many quotes when i shift in Mumbai - surat now.
people couleeg told me 'ahmedabadi' girsl r not as much as faithful as life partner,they more asked that girls from ahemdabad were found more 'bold' and that's why the chances of 'crisis' are more than other choosing as partner.
please reply me soon.
ash

2007-01-31 19:14:21 · 9 answers · asked by ashwin s 1 in Weddings

4months ago My ex left me after 5 years...she never really gave me a good excuse...some of them were I was 19 and you were 24 when we met...I'm changing now and that I'm not around a lot because of my job
any how, I knew she stopped loving me and I cant force any one to love me so I let her go and told my self it wasn't meant to be. I tried as hard as I could to get her out of my head. I succeed for the most part but sometimes she will pup into my head and when I start thinking how she broke it off it brings tears to my eyes...
why is this happening to me....am i no over her yet?
I'm a grown man for crying out loud and should be able to handle this like one to and not like a high school freshman

I'm kind of seeing this women right now, I like her a lot but not sure if I'll ever be able to love another women on a level that I did...had my hart broken one too many times.....
I'm almost 30 and I 75% sure that I do not want to get married ever and kids scare me too.....am I damaged goods?

2007-01-31 19:13:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-31 19:11:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I dont understand why so many women are so surprised and shocked when they learn their husbands are cheating or have cheated in the past. I mean they are men what does these women expect..I have been married 14 yrs and my husband has had many affairs but i dont sit around whining about it or feeling sorry for myself like other wives cause i know how men are they have very high sex drives and will always find other women attractive..They cant help themselves and its only human nature that if they have a chance with an attractive woman they will go for it and it doesnt mean they dont love their wives.My husband has a VERY high sex drive and there are many times that i didnt wanna bother with sex like months so i couldnt expect him to go without and as long as he practices safe sex im fine with this and i know he loves me and thats all that matters and if other wives would just accept this then maybe there wouldnt be so many divorces.

2007-01-31 19:11:32 · 28 answers · asked by gina l 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-31 19:10:42 · 30 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family

2007-01-31 19:10:41 · 6 answers · asked by Vadevadehuu 1 in Weddings

Is it okay to ask out someone to be their boyfriend?
is it okay to ask out someone to be their boyfriend without actually knowing each other well.
i mean it's risky but see it's much easier to get to know him and now he would have a reason to hang and talk to me?!
i mean checking each other out would be great except that we are both shy soo what do yoo think?

2007-01-31 19:08:33 · 13 answers · asked by LanaL0V3 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 38 years of age and single, people around me compel me to get married but I dont feel comfortable to get married as long or soon as I find sme right match for me. Even some time people around me suspect about my character, it is very frustrating some time. why So?

2007-01-31 19:07:03 · 12 answers · asked by Rajesh 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok i realy want to give my bf a bj but im afraid that im gona do sonmething wrong i only did it once before so i dont have the necesary experience, and i know that my bf will enjoy it.

2007-01-31 19:05:03 · 9 answers · asked by SAgirl 5 in Singles & Dating

He is happily married for 14 years and came to India to take his family back to US. He was a classmate of my wife who has two great kids and they had been in email contact for one year and I found a passionate love letter written by my wife to him but not sent. She says how she felt security love and affetion when they met in a resort on her suggestion. This letter was written 3 days before his departure at 4AM. He even visited us with his family and I was introduced to him. I wonder what he could have done to make my wife write such a passionate loveletter which says how she loves and needs him a lot and begs him not to forget her. That guy is a family man and god fearing as I understand it from my wife. She says she wrote it in a fit of fantacy. Do women write love letters to every classmate they happen to meet or whoever offers emotional support? Could he have done something to get her while she has been so nice to me all the while. What is it he gains by it as I don't see any?

2007-01-31 19:03:59 · 7 answers · asked by havah 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok guys.....if you like a girl,but you dont know she likes you.If you move on and get a g/f,but you and your g/f dont work out,and the other girl you liked asked you out,what would you say?

2007-01-31 19:02:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating