Okay I am 19 years old, and my girlfriend is 20, we both work the same job at a retail store, I do dock work and she works in the mens clothing department. my girlfriend always laughs at other guys even when something isnt funny she may just look at them and laugh and smile even when I'm there,she's also 5 months pregnant with my baby, and I know she love me, and I love her, but I always find her smiling and laughing with other co-workers, and theres this one guy she says she on't like, and she doesn't talk to him, but I dont know how sure she is about that, because she always laughs at him, but she says she doesnt like him, how can I tell if my girlfriend is attracted to another guy? what details should I look for? she don't touch them she just always laugh and smile at them, she say their funny to her but she laughs a lot!
2007-01-31 19:15:29 · 5 answers · asked by GRS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude, you need to chill. What do you want her to do? Become a nun because you're her boyfriend? Even that won't do, because nuns smile.
She can be attracted to lots of guys and that doesn't mean a thing. Are you attracted to other women? Be honest now. If
Don't get upset over laughing. If she starts flirting with them, THEN you have an issue. Until then remember: cool.
2007-01-31 19:23:25 · answer #1 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like she's got a good sense of humor and enjoys laughing. Stop being so paranoid, just because a woman laughs with other men doesn't mean she's interested in them in any way other than the obcvious, if she thinks something is funny, she laughs! Also, it sounds like she's just a nice person, if she smiles at people a lot. Don't take it to mean she's on the prowl. Give her the benefit of doubt. Unless you see something that leaves no question, rest your mind and enjoy your beautiful, pregnant girlfriend. Maybe her hormones is causing her to find life more fun, who knows?!
GL!
2007-02-01 03:26:22 · answer #2 · answered by Renny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is a destroyer my friend. The moment you start to accuse her of anything is when she will either dump your butt for not trusting her, or she will start acting out the things you are accusing her of.
Seriously? If you treat a woman right, trust me, she isn't looking elsewhere. Stop focusing on how she might be treating you and try to look at how you are treating her.
Have you tried to have a conversation with her? Tell her you feel nervous about the relationship? Talking actually does work, and I mean talking, not screaming and yelling and throwing accusations around.
Just talk to her, and try to stay calm and rational. If all else fails, get a book on lesbian sex and take some notes.
2007-02-01 03:24:31 · answer #3 · answered by dbmack13 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop being so jealous. Are you guilty of flirting with others? Is that why you think she is? Just being someone is friendly doesn't mean she wants to jump someone bones.
What do you really expect her to do. Stand in a corner and not speak to anyone or smile at anyone? Look sad and pitiful?
She is just being a normal person.
2007-02-01 03:24:22 · answer #4 · answered by darlin 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
honestly, it sounds like i used to be! haha, well, id say its her innocent way of flirting, but she would NEVER do anything, she just likes the attention! i wouldnt worry too much, but id say to her what my man told me : "if you love me, it means you respect me, and if you respect me, then please watch how you present yourself, because it makes me look like a chump!"
that fixed my ways right up.... mostly!
2007-02-01 03:22:13 · answer #5 · answered by julie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋