Today, I found a whole bunch of car magazines (the kind with half-naked women in them) and inserts of girls in skimpy bikinis underneath the sink in my boyfriend's bathroom. I think it's pretty safe to assume that he uses these to masturbate with. I can't get over the thought of my guy fantasizing about another woman and getting off with the thought...for some reason, I don't mind the thought of him just watching porn, but the thought of him actually jacking off over another woman's body is incredibly upsetting to me.
I might find other men attractive...but I would never masturbate over another guy's photograph. To me it would feel like mental cheating. Should I tell my boyfriend what I discovered, not in a personal attack kind-of-way, or to make him stop looking at it, but just as a way to possibly find some reassurance over the whole matter? I honestly feel like I've been cheated on in some kind of form...and please, no "you're just insecure, just give him more sex, etc" lines...
2007-01-31 17:39:15 · 2 answers · asked by Fruit Smoothie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most men look at magazines with attractive women in it. Masturbating while looking at these women is perfectly normal for most malesa. You're being overly sensitive over nothing.
2007-02-01 04:21:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him about it
my bf used to have them around i ask him about it and he just said that he thinks of me when he looks at the pics, it is rather complicated but i understand it after a while so i told i dont like it so he through it all away saying im all he needs (i gave him 'n pic of me in return)
2007-02-01 06:11:44 · answer #2 · answered by SAgirl 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋