when i say make him i don't mean force him. but what r the things that when guys see or feel that make them to want to commit. And guys what are your ideas about sex/early sex/no sex and marriage/engaged.?
2007-01-31 17:44:27 · 5 answers · asked by blue5349 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most guys are not going to be ready to commit until they feel comfortable in their career. I don't mean about to retire, but secure in having a job and knowing they will have a means of supporting a family. Most of us don't think out loud like that, but looking back at myself and my friends, that was when we were finally ready. Hey, I'm a guy, I've gotta take care of my girl - make sense? As for sex, I always remember the few girls that waited with the best memories. I didn't like having to wait, but I honestly did and still do highly respect a good girl. It really did make the relationship better - deeper.
2007-01-31 18:01:53 · answer #1 · answered by boogie2510 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a necessary human drive, in order to keep the line of DNA alive. As soon as puberty has reared its' ugly head, a male child has the need for release. He may try and supress that drive for a female, but it's futile and will only make him act like a nut!
There are 3 things that make a guy commit:
1.) Lack of viable choices, you're his last chance
2.) Jealousy, because he doesn't want anyone else to have her
3.) Insanity, or facing a long prison sentence
Any other reason is either a lie or does not compute!
2007-02-01 01:51:19 · answer #2 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That he' s ready to settle down to one person, (you) and if he doesn't commit after a certain time (if you have let him know you are ready) then walk away! Two things can happen he'll wake up and realize he can't live with out you, or he is'nt ready to commit and you are better off without him.
2007-02-01 02:01:50 · answer #3 · answered by seven-11 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well im not a guy but im gonna speek any how.......one thing I hear is that guys look for a girl they think they can support...for ex: if you're rich and they are poor they might think you're great but not want you 'cause thay feel they can'nt do for you want you havent already done for yourself....they would feel like less of a man...which is not true but thats how some think.....alot of men like to see independence and confidence in a woman..no petty 'do it for me im spoiled' type of chics...well actually some guys like that too but i dount think that's solid grounds for commitment.............their need to be a connection between the two of you thats different from the rest...maturity is a big one......ummmm.........fun girls, not 'easy girls, share alot of the same interest.......ok im done im not a guy so im gonna leave it to them now...~good luck~
2007-02-01 02:03:25 · answer #4 · answered by panda303 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not have a problem with pre-marital sex...
Do not invest more than 2 - 3 yrs in a relationship without marriage
and he should understand this...make it clear to him....
If he loves you and wants to keep you, he is going to have to marry you...
2007-02-01 01:50:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋