how come guy's act like he's interest in you for one moment and the next day doesn't even talk to u??

Question

He just confuse me so much. I really like him alot but I never dare to tell him that and I think that he has feeling for me too or am I wrong. There's this one day we hung out together and everythig went perfectly...we talked, laugh together, smile to each other alot...we sit close to each other with his hand on my shoulder and sometimes keeping me warm when it's cold. Our heads touches each other and he sometimes rest his head on my shoulder. He even pay attention to small detail about me...I thought that everything was alright that day...but then the next day when I talked to him online...it doesn't seem like he wanted to talk much...he's respond was like "yeah, lol, oh" etc...he told me that i never talk to him online and now i did but his respond was like that. I started to get a feeling that he doens't like me or something. He's so confusing. What is he thinking? Is he playing hard to get? he's making me think and wonder about it all day. I'm so confuse...any advice? thanks

Answer 1

First thing is when people talk on line it could be completely different then in person. I say this cuz some people talk the same either way (like me for example) but some people don't. This would include any form of communication. Some people don't like email or IM chatting or even phones. Or some do better with these vs face to face contact.

If there was a connection...I don't think it has changed. It's possible but in this case...I don' t think so.

Big thing though...I would totally think about tellin him cuz you never know what could happen if you don't. I am not saying call him now or even tomorrow...but feel it out and think about it! I had the same feelings for someone and I never spoke of it til it was too late. I always wonder what if...I would have told him in the beginning.

Best wishes with your situation!

Answer 2

I used to face the similar situation like you. Untill now, I do not understand why he is behaving that way and I'm puzzled till today. For your situation, perhaps he's tired or moody while talking to you online. There's a reason on why he is reacting that way. I don't think he doesnt like you looking at the way you explained earlier. The best way is to talk him out. If he refused to give you a gd answer, then let it be. Leave him for a while and see if he comes after you. Gd Luck!

Answer 3

Stop being a wimp and just ask him. How would total strangers answer better then the guy your talking about. I know it might be hard to do but you can find out if your wasdting your time or not. Life is short don't waste it.