What would you think if this was u and your husband?

Question

My huband is very sneaky! He buys porn and locks it up in his bag in his truck, lock on the bag, When he leaves he claims to be going to the store, but comes back 2-3 hours later with hardly nothing and claims he was visiting his friends. I actully have no proof at all he is cheating, but his answers are so good, that it honestly confuses me. Like I had said, he hides everything from me untill I have to be snoopy and find out for myself. There is alot more to this, but I dont have enough space to write everything. Please tell me what you think and what would you do if you were me, or contact me via e-mail or messanger. Thank You.

Answer 1

why would u want to be in a marriage that u had to snoop? u know in your heart all is not well in spite of his lies. if he is viewing porn it most likely is now an addiction, once they begin porn it changes the way they look at their wives. those who have nothing to hide hide nothing. i wouldn't rule out cheating either. if it were me, i would divorce him and move on if at all possible. he insults you by lying, to avoid confrontation, so if it never happened one can never take any measures to get help for it.

Answer 2

Hey, that crap about porn isn't at all true having to be an addiction. There are a lot of reasons for looking at porn, some good, some bad, some could be addiction.

There are ways to be sneaky and to be positive about it....When he gets home and you suspect he's been cheating, suck him off....If he tastes like soap, he showered, trying to hide it, and is cheating. If he tastes like latex, he's cheating. If he tastes like another woman, he's cheating.

If you accuse him of cheating and he is, he'll deny it, and you'll have no idea. If you accuse him of cheating and he isn't, he'll be hurt, and that will damage your relationship.

Marriage is a game, you gotta learn how to play it. I've been looking for work as a mediator, maybe for 5$ a problem I can work with you two via email or messenger and help you come to amicable solutions if you can't afford a counselor or a mediator for 60$ an hour.

I instant messaged earlier and spoke with your sister for a little bit, instant message me back if you're interested.