developing hatred for men.................?

Question

i dont know if its a hatred but definatly losing intrest. No im not gaining intrest in women but i just feel that i am sick of men. I find myself thinking more and more about a life alone than dealing with dating and stuff any more. im 25 and its been one bad relationship after another. I mean my current one hes a nice guy and sweet but kind of ignorant. I dont know whats wrong with me. I use to love sex and i thought bout it alot i mean more than normal. Now id rather not be touched. I use to love dating now I could care less. Im not sure whats going on. Its werid. Anyone have any ideas?

yeah i forgot to mention i work two jobs and go to school i guess this could be why im sick of dealin wit dudes like this. who knows. I am thinking maybe a break would do me good just conentrate on school till summer and then go from there. Thanks everyone! appricieate it!

Answer 1

I think we've all been there where you are at.....it's very frustrating but don't give up too soon. If you look hard enough you may still find guy you can look up to and respect......some of them make it very tough though.................

Answer 2

I've had that happen before..it's just some hormonal thing that we women have to deal with.
I too have had bad relationships in the past and could really care less if I had another and i'm not much older than you (28) but I do not ever lose interest in sex unless I've been really busy and have not had time to think about it.
You may just be really busy with other things and don't want to waste your time on relationships that are futile.
I would listen to yourself and just take sometime to be you. Good luck!

Answer 3

I think you need to be alone for some time. Have a break for all these relationships, men etc. You will be ready to start over again, in the right time with the right person. It seems that till now you had the wrong people by your side. Take as much time as you need.

Take care.

Answer 4

You may need hormone therepy or you may just be grossed out by reality, at 25 you realize it is not a game and men are completely occupied by lust at all times and seeing them almost drool spontaniously at any exposure to a female anatomy or hearing sexual conversations, seeing this tends to be disgusting after a time, as it has nothing to do with careing about you. Seeing faces that look mindless and all flushed red-- Some are on talk lines or in front of the monitor going gaga over porn it's well--takes alot of denial to cope with.

Answer 5

Well...the way you started out was wrong. Guess you know that by now. You can't just give up though. Plan you're relationship with a man carefully.
Don't just jump into bed with him. That just stops the romance abruptly. He's gotten what he was out to get in the first place. No need to go to a movie or out to dinner. he got the desert without spending the time to get it.
Every woman that I went out with I had sexually the first time. Married most of them but there was no time for romance. I really never "dated". Had the cherry pie and didn't have to pay for dinner.

You do know what I'm saying. Sometimes it's best to play hard to get. Then you can study his personality and have time to decide for yourself whether you want to be with him or not.

Good luck with the one you got now...especially if you gave "it' up already!

Answer 6

I think it's because of the type of guys you have dated made you sour about men. Don't give up. Stay single for awhile and enjoy your freedom. When the time is right and you will know when your ready to date again. That's life, meeting all sorts of types of men and some aren't just made for you. You bound to find a special man one day. Good come to those who wait! good luck!

Answer 7

So lay off for a while. Something's out of whack for you; maybe some "time off" can help you identify it.

Could be as simple as you've got wa-a-ay too much going on in your life--job, BF, family, responsibilities, whatever.

Could be that you need to reevaluate your values and priorities.

Could be sex-without-a-meaningful-relationship burnout.

Drop out for a while, before this does turn into an unjustified hatred of men. It might be a hatred misdirected.

Answer 8

I think it is perfectly normal to get fed up with men every once in awhile. Sometimes it seems we encounter one loser after another. Enjoy some time to yourself but don't give up on them all together! If you feel this way for too long tho or you find that you are isolating yourself go see a doctor. You could have depression.

Answer 9

it's a possibility that you're depressed or beginning to experience reality......

If your interests have dramatically changed like this then talk with your family doctor or seek some professional counselling.....it's likely that yeah, you're simply tired of the runaround with loser guys....but you're still young so you deserve to be happy! Please look inside yourself and check your options....figure out what you really want in life, it probably would benefit you greatly to have some single alone time.....no use living the rest of your life with some dude who can never make you happy until you can make yourself happy! Best of luck, I've had similar experiences...it's just hard to tell for sure where you're at.....

Answer 10

You need to take a break for awhile. Take care of yourself have fun with the girls dont think about guys for awhile and it will all come back. It sounds to me like you are worry about it to much just leave it alone for a bit and see what happens. Good Luck

Answer 11

i think your probably just burned out of all the idiots in the world... I definately know where you're coming from...just go on ahead and take a break from the dating scene and just take of yourself...when the time is right for you to go on a date or a lil booty call here or there, you'll know....the right someone will come your way.....Until then, just enjoy that you're alive and that you can take care of yourself...have fun and be happy...