Family & Relationships - 31 January 2007

I've met this guy from internet,we chatted for 4 mos.before he decided to visit me..He went back to his country and after 5mos.he visit me and proposed but before he proposed,he admit he's married but I accept despite of that,I am in love!Besides,he said they're not staying together anymore.I only believe in him and trust him so much but I had the feeling that he's hiding something and I waited for him to open it up to me so we can discuss it in very smooth and calm way.He came back again after 3 mos..and go back home and after 6 mos.he came and visit me,,I found out he still with his wife..His wife called me and telling me they're not doing anything..I got hurt because,I use to believe that they're not staying together anymore..As of now,after he went back home..I always think of them.I am waiting for him to divorce but he said he doesnt know till when and the girl will stay there while the divorce is on process.I love him so much and I dont know what to do?Do I still have to wait?

2007-01-31 16:16:15 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

there is this girl i like and she likes me and i have been wating to ask her out but couldent find the moment so i thought i would ask her to the valentines dance but i need the perfect way to do it i want it to be kinda specal

2007-01-31 16:15:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what is it about them that guys so much love?

2007-01-31 16:15:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am paying child support for 2 children, one of which isn't even mine. I am too broke to afford a lawyer. My ex-wife won't seek child support from the real father, because he only works part time, and she knows she'll get more money from me. I live in Ontario, and I can't find an Ontario web-site anywhere that helps me!

2007-01-31 16:14:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My daughter just turned 17 I wrote this in regards to that




On this day 17 years ago I had the most thrilling event to be had It was the most exciting day I shared with your dad
You were so easily admired by our family and friends as well.
When Daddy first held you I saw his heart swell.
His love was apparent and instantly shared.
New roles and worries were also declared.
Your infancy went by in a flash and toddler years flew.
I’m scared if I turn my head you’ll be out of view
I used to fuss about you wearing shoes when you’d go play.
I couldn’t wait to hear your stories at the end of the day
Those things seem silly when I reflect on the past
The rest of tomorrow I hope is not as fast.
It’s all so different now that I am this age that my parents were seems like Just the other day
Your future is Right now please make certain you don’t piss it away




Thats it thanks for reading it.

2007-01-31 16:14:23 · 4 answers · asked by unbeatensnailhere 2 in Family

I was living with a woman for 4yrs (still keeping my apartment for us to use incase family came to town. She made out the will for me to get everything. She came down with cancer and passed away. But 3 days before she died she changed the will ( while on massive painkillers). Does this leave me without anything? Who can help me I gave my soul to this lady and tried my best to do everything she asked. I feel like I did what she wanted and someone must have convinced her to change the will. Help Please!!!

2007-01-31 16:13:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok so I am going on my first ever blind date, I have talked to the guy through emails and stuff but never met him and so just cause I am kinda scared I thought maybe we should go to a public place like the bar to hang out and talk, what if I dont like him and he acts like he likes me what should I do?

2007-01-31 16:13:44 · 8 answers · asked by hilo 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a great job where my boss lets me work from home. However my work piles up if I even take a day away from the job. I also have to be constantly visiting schools. Latley, since my mother has left to Puerto Rico I have not been able to get ANY work done at home. I have to wait until my husband gets home so he can watch our six month old daughter. I have been thinking about hiring a babysitter so that I can go back to the office. Should I? I would hate to leave my daughter with someone outside of my family. What should I do?

2007-01-31 16:13:03 · 10 answers · asked by Gitana 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i want sex and she never does anymore can it ruin our relationship i feel like i have to go out and cheat to satisfy my sexual needs my hand is not enough anymore....what do i do? i try talking to her about it and she says she just is not in the mood i am a 24 year old in my sexual prime and i feel i have to beg to get it? she is only 25

2007-01-31 16:12:51 · 21 answers · asked by lizandmike2005 1 in Singles & Dating

valentines day.or any tome soon would be great.!!thanks a million.

2007-01-31 16:12:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-31 16:11:40 · 18 answers · asked by Lizzie(hannah) 2 in Singles & Dating

her ex boyfriend, we talked about our ex's and this really stuck in my mind, and I end up never having sex with her because of this, What should I do? (keep in mind that I really love her)

2007-01-31 16:09:44 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-31 16:08:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a really dumb question.. If someone has been married for 8 years, but the husband left after about a week & a half, is the marriage still legal? or is it wiped off the books??

2007-01-31 16:08:25 · 12 answers · asked by Brandy Wine 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we've known eachother for 2 1/2 years and ive loved him ever since i saw him. He's usually really comfortable around girls (most of his friends are girls) but it's always been kind of awkward between us -> not much conversation and when ever i ask him something personal, he gives sort of a grunt answer and doesnt continue the conversation. is this just a guy signal for feelings or does he just not like me, even as a friend? i SO know i love him but im not sure how he feels back. what can i do to find out his feelings for me? and if there are none, how can i get him to like me? i know i love him but am i just imagining his feelings for me?

2007-01-31 16:07:35 · 8 answers · asked by Sarah-> RelientK rox my sox!! 1 in Singles & Dating

i have to stay where im staying 30 days then my ex husband & me are moving into a house. i woke up anxious. is it the wait?

2007-01-31 16:06:06 · 7 answers · asked by sassy2u2 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This is part of a research for school that I'm working on. Please indicate your gender. Please answer all five questions.

1.) Do you prefer to enter a common-law relationship or a contract of marriage? Why?

2.) What are your views on divorce?

3.) It is usually said that a woman suffers more than a man in divorce proceedings. What are your views on this?

4.) In some cultures, marriages are arranged. What are some negative disadvantages of this?

5.) Would you prefer to be single or be married? Why?

Thank you so much for your time.

2007-01-31 16:05:45 · 13 answers · asked by aa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

there is this girl ive just met
she always is asking my name
and stuff that interests me
question 1: does she have a crush on me?
if yes
-since i only see her at track and field where we run 5 miles off campus-
question2: what would be the best way to talk to her

2007-01-31 16:05:08 · 12 answers · asked by John 1 in Singles & Dating

I am trying to find my sister there are 5 of us and I have found 4 out of 5 I was hoping to find the 5th. She is really hard and I need a really good website perferably free since I don't have alot of money to find her. Thanks for all your help!!

2007-01-31 16:04:25 · 2 answers · asked by christin k 2 in Family

i'm 15 and was thinking abou just giving my g/f 100 bucks instead of buying her somthing or what could i get her if thats too tacky? and i know this sounds stupidbut wut dateis valentines day on? lol thanks tons

2007-01-31 16:04:22 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The guy was horrible to me yet I still love him

2007-01-31 16:03:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is almost 17 and her exboyfriend is threatening her and verbally abusing both her and her new boyfriend. This is the third time it has been taken to the school and they dont want to do anything about it. My sister is even afraid to go to school now because of him. He is one of the only colored kids in the school so the school doesnt want to take a stand and risk it coming out as a racial issue of some sort which it is not. He treated her like crap and called her names when they were together. Our parents are getting a restrait against him, but his friends are also threatening her. She is so scared of him, and I dont know how to help her.

2007-01-31 16:03:28 · 8 answers · asked by Mrs Baker 3 in Family

2007-01-31 16:03:11 · 2 answers · asked by charlietrueheart 1 in Singles & Dating

how do i ask a girl out. the girl i like has asked me to a dance and after the dance i am thinking about asking her out. i am 14 with no car and 2 years till im street legal. how should i ask her out

2007-01-31 16:02:27 · 15 answers · asked by acdc70444 1 in Singles & Dating

how do i prove myself to a girl that i really like........... she says that shes not ready but i proposed an idea and it was to start slow as a couple and then after we met and get together if she likes me we can stay together and than after a while get into a more serious relationship....... she said i dont really know so i said well if i prove myself ...she said ok i guess..........

so my question is....how do i prove myself to a girl showinf her how much i care about her and im willing to do everything it takes for her to be happy?

2007-01-31 16:01:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The relationship with my bf of a month.... It's either his way or no way. For an example, lately he's been having some issues at his work and he said he is not ready to talk to me about it. I respect that and told him that I'm here if he's ever ready to talk about it. Meanwhile, I got sick. It's nothing major so I didn't want to worry him, especially since he was having his own issues. But he was extremely upset when I told him I didn't want to tell him what I had since it's really nothing and he already got enough problem. Now, I assume that I won't hear from him unless I call him up and apologize for my "misbehavior."

Things like this happens all the time between us. Am I not being reasonable? Does he really love me like he said he does?

2007-01-31 16:01:59 · 3 answers · asked by Sweetie 3 in Singles & Dating

Either with your bf/gf or just a friend..

2007-01-31 16:00:58 · 7 answers · asked by CheVy BAbY daTZ wut IT iZ 1 in Friends

As well as a Valentine's Card

2007-01-31 16:00:24 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so my boyfriend and i have been together for quit awhile now and lately he's been asking wut do i think of his last name at the end of my name and what not and asking me do i see myself marrying him...is he trying to tell me sumthing....

2007-01-31 15:59:10 · 19 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Just wondering if people still belived in that kind of thing

2007-01-31 15:58:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships