The relationship with my bf of a month.... It's either his way or no way. For an example, lately he's been having some issues at his work and he said he is not ready to talk to me about it. I respect that and told him that I'm here if he's ever ready to talk about it. Meanwhile, I got sick. It's nothing major so I didn't want to worry him, especially since he was having his own issues. But he was extremely upset when I told him I didn't want to tell him what I had since it's really nothing and he already got enough problem. Now, I assume that I won't hear from him unless I call him up and apologize for my "misbehavior."
Things like this happens all the time between us. Am I not being reasonable? Does he really love me like he said he does?
2007-01-31 16:01:59 · 3 answers · asked by Sweetie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LOVE IS RESPECT. RESPECT IS A TWO WAY STREET..............................
not calling you because you were being thoughtful of him.if you can respect him then why is hard for him to give that. if you apologize for this then he will own your self respect!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-31 16:13:18 · answer #1 · answered by evelyn a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm... it's obviously not love since it has only been a month (no brainer), but what really SCREAMS "not love" is his attitude towards you. He seems very immature with his actions. It seems like he, nor you are ready to be in a relationship where the words "I love you" should be involved.
I may be wrong, or this may not be what you wanted to read, but it is what it seems from your explanation. This "misbehavior" of yours is just him showing off his egotistical, manliness which is the first thing a dude should drop when he enters into any relationship, but he hasn't and from your reaction to his attitude, it seems like he won't stop being this way.
He probably cares for you, but that shouldn't be confused with love. If love is what you are looking for, look elsewhere.
2007-02-01 00:10:11 · answer #2 · answered by melloncollieromance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he doesn't love you. He controls you. Get the hell out of this now!! Controlling people have a tendency to turn violent, his next step could be to take a swing at you for "misbehaving". Is this relationship making you happy? How does it feel to have to grovel? This isn't love, it's a sick circle for him. Again....get the hell out now!
2007-02-01 00:08:50 · answer #3 · answered by Justlookin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋