2007-01-31 16:11:40 · 18 answers · asked by Lizzie(hannah) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah, I guess....
2007-01-31 16:14:16 · answer #1 · answered by Hideaki Takizawa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would take some serious time away from him to think about the quality of the relationship first and decide that without any pressure from him. I would not go back if I was uncertain. Actually, after having had that happen to me in a past relationship and giving it "one more chance" many times, I have to say I wouldn't go back period. I wont speak for everyone, but the lesson I learned for myself is, "once a cheater, always a cheater." It sucked sitting on the edge of my seat, not feeling the trust, feeling resentful because he just expected me to trust him and not question him, feeling like a fool, contracting an incurable STD from his lame cheating azz, etc... So get away and think about it. Respect yourself enough to make him earn your trust back. If he really wants it, he'll find a way. If not, you're a step ahead. Don't settle. You don't have to.
2007-02-01 00:23:20 · answer #2 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Need some more info.
It all depends on the circumstance it all happened, was it after a fight, was he drunk etc
But from experience old habits die hard
But if he is willing to change then give him a chance
I used to cheat on every bf i had, they never know but i have chosen to stop and it is going really well i haven't cheated on my new bf (we've been going out now for a 8months) and I'm not going to cheat on him he is giving me everything i need and more i don't even look at other guys any more
So what I'm trying to say is look at the situation in which he had cheated on you and what kind of person he is and you will know if you need to give him a second chance(we all deserve that)
2007-02-01 00:19:20 · answer #3 · answered by SAgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. the minute you do not feel complete trust or a lot of trust even, for the guy, more then likely you won't rtust him ever again... especially since he CHEATED on you.
it sounds real harsh but you should end it because you will not trust him the same ever again, and more than likely it will be the start of many future fights between the both of you. Mistrust is strong, especially when infidelity occurs.
2007-02-01 00:16:14 · answer #4 · answered by melloncollieromance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is a very delicate entitity that needs to be handled with care. Once it gets a crack, anything no matter how small contributes to the growth of the crack until it falls into shambles.
Its your life. He messed up his chances. Give yourself a chance at happiness. Above all follow your instincts.
Good luck
2007-02-01 00:23:14 · answer #5 · answered by LadyK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here are some words of advice. HE DOES NOT DESERVE YOU. You should not give him another chance. Obviously you don't trust him now, and I can tell you... you never will. He just doesn't care enough to stay faithful so why bother when there are plenty of guys out there that won't cheat.
2007-02-01 00:17:20 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey, no------ the best way I can put this into words is think of your relationship as a foundation-- if he cheats on you, there is a crack in the foundation, you don't fully trust him, you can build a house on a rocky foundation, but eventually it will fall, and make a very large mess, it is much easier to abandon a faulty foundation then repair an entire structure.
Deep down you don't trust him, and if you can't trust him how can you build a relationship? You deserve someone who you can trust and build a solid relationship with.
2007-02-01 00:16:41 · answer #7 · answered by cooling1981 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, but not because he cheats, that is his issue, but because you deserve to treat yourself with respect and not accept that type of behavior from anyone.
Respect, honesty, loyalty are qualities that one should have in their relationship. Without those the relationship will take more work than it's worth.
2007-02-01 00:16:15 · answer #8 · answered by T esira 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally i think if he cheated once he'll do it again...don't take the chance and find yourself something better..some one that will respect you and love you and not find the need to go chasing after some one else..Good luck!
2007-02-01 00:19:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's understandable. He DID cheat on you, that destroyed all trust in the relationship. You really need to ask yourself "Is our relationship worth fighting for?" If yes, hold on and fight for ya man! lol, but if not, then let him go. Obviously, since he cheated on you, you can def. do better than him.
2007-02-01 13:16:05 · answer #10 · answered by laangel464 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He had his chance, why demote yourself staying with a cheater? Are you some kind of worthless person who absolutely could not do any better?
2007-02-01 00:14:31 · answer #11 · answered by nemesyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋