This weekend I've made plans with my boyfriend to spend the weekend together, we might be doing something on saturday and on sunday we have to wake up really early to go to the lake with my brother. Just a couple of days ago, my boyfriend was asked by his mate to go to this Drunken cricket thing, and my boyfriend chose what I wanted to do over his friend, which is quite flattering he told me not so long ago that if he had to choose between me and his mates, he'd choose me :-) Now the thing is my mate has asked me to go to this modelling party with her on saturday evening coz she has a free ticket for me, my boyfriend couldn't afford to come and neither would I afford to pay for him. I think it would be harsh for me to go, coz I don't want him thinking my friends come before him and that I'm just gonna leave him behind whilest I go partying, my mate said she could drop me in the morning by his before we go to the lake, the lake which I wanted to do and he chose over his friend!
2007-01-31 17:08:00 · 3 answers · asked by Sheepless 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. how pity
2007-01-31 17:47:04 · answer #1 · answered by prabhakar_ace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Timing is everything and it looks like this time you have only one choice to make. Choose being with your BF. It is clear that he JUST showed his dedication to you over his friends, shouldn't you show him how much you are dedicated to him? I know that the modeling party is something that maybe you have wanted to do for a while...but what is the best that could happen there? Would you rather be at the modeling party with your friend or jeopardize your BF's feelings? Besides if you are really in love with your BF, you would probably end up wondering where he was and thinking about him the entire night anyway, right?
I know that the modeling party may be important to you... but is it more important than your BF? You have to think that there will be other modeling parties in the future, maybe at a time that is not so crucial in your relationship, but right now what is more important one night of fun or causing feelings in your BF's mind that might foreshadow the rest of your relationship?
Follow your heart...
2007-02-01 01:25:32 · answer #2 · answered by Jared 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you should have told your mate when she told you about the free ticket was, "Oh, I'm sorry, but I promised my boyfriend that I would go to the lake with him. We had planned this farther in advance. I'll be there next time, but thanks for the offer."
2007-02-01 01:15:33 · answer #3 · answered by Jay S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋