reputation as a player?

Question

lets say you are good looking. lots of girls give you attention but youre not a player. lets say these same girls go around spreading the word that youre a player and not dateable even when you are not even one. is there any way out of this. are some people assumed to be players because people think they are cute.

Answer 1

1. better become a player

Answer 2

yes.it's called profiling. people automatically base their opinion about someone within 3 to 5 seconds. If you are attractive it is known for everyone to assume that you have high self asteem and are probably stuck up and can get anything you want...including chicks. Anyway, we all know thats not true in all cases but that's the way the cookie crumbles. hope that helps

Answer 3

Start being a player then maybe things will change. Stop trying to impress the girls or worry about what they say just be yourself and there will be a girl who sees you for who you are

Answer 4

I think there right, you do talk like one. Plus if a hundred different people say that they saw the same thing thin maybe what ever they saw was real.duh!!!!

Answer 5

I think getting out of high school and oh, I don't know, becoming an adult would get you away from this sort of childish bunk.

Answer 6

Settling down with one girl and being faithful to her would prove them wrong.

Answer 7

If a girl really likes you; she will find out for herself

Answer 8

You cannot control what others think or say...
You can only control yourself...
Ignore the clammer of the ignorant mob...