Family & Relationships - 29 January 2007

I am a 24 yr old woman into a yr old relationship.V r committed n hope to get married.However recently he has plabnned to go for a professional course for 2 yrs.he plans telling his parents abt us before going.HOwever i have had a failed relationship before this when the guy ditched me.I am scared again. I really love this guy..shud i wait for him to come back..wil he break my trust... the main problem is that my parents want me to get married soon...what do u suggest!

2007-01-29 06:08:40 · 19 answers · asked by niks 3 in Singles & Dating

lately i have been messing my life up a little more ive gotten high, cut myself and then got drunk and ahd sex with one of my on and off friends...i know this is messed up stuff to do but im not a total mess up she cant trust what can i do to prover that to her and that im still someone she can be proud of?

2007-01-29 06:08:14 · 15 answers · asked by punkrockerchick_89 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know a friend I used to love him much but he said he likes me – after some time he asked me to be his girl friend. and he said y cant we enjoy each other and see what happens- really like u.
What could that mean i am confused ?!!! what to do

2007-01-29 06:07:49 · 2 answers · asked by Rachel 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know a friend I used to love him much but he said he likes me – after some time he asked me to be his girl friend. and he said y cant we enjoy each other and see what happens- really like u.
What could that mean i am confused ?!!! what to do

2007-01-29 06:07:35 · 2 answers · asked by Rachel 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

How many people are at work right now playing on here. ????

2007-01-29 06:07:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, so here's the deal. I met this girl in college about a year ago and we dated for 8 months, i fell in love with her and sadly i still am in love with her.She said that she was in "love" too. Shes 27 , im 24 and she has a daughter with some random guy i dont know. But seriously i dont care about the dad, i love them both very much. Now, after 7 months dating she started acting strange and she said she needed some space, and i wasnt very helpful in this regard i know that. I called her like 6-7 times a day and she got mad...really mad at me for that.Long story short, 2 months after we broke up she called me one day and said she felt bad for the whole breakup and that she wanted to be freinds with me. I accepted her offer and we now go out and eat and just hang around, but she cuddles a lot with me and says she misses me very much but doesnt want a relationship, we even had sex!.its confusing she says she wants me to find a girl but shes with me all the time, what is up with her? help!

2007-01-29 06:06:36 · 1 answers · asked by supercronos 1 in Singles & Dating

my guy doesn't like making out and will only give me a peck on the lips. I want more than just a peck. I wanna make out. Also, hes not that into sex. Are some guys like this because of their libido or what? I always seem to be the one to intiate it.

2007-01-29 06:06:31 · 3 answers · asked by Wendy G 4 in Singles & Dating

We are planning to get married by the church.

2007-01-29 06:05:53 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Did it make you wonder why s/he needed a blind date? Did you ask the same question about yourself, too?

2007-01-29 06:04:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I live in the US and am doin a 6 page research project on Punjab and the backround history of it aswell can anybody who lives there willin to help me finish this project please I would truly appreciate it..

2007-01-29 06:04:09 · 10 answers · asked by Jasmeen 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

tell me have it ever happened to you?

2007-01-29 06:03:58 · 12 answers · asked by songbyrd2012 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife wants me to move out for a while. She would like us to be apart so I can work on some of the issues I've been trying to deal with in my life. She says she can't love me the way I am anymore because I keep letting her down and by not being supportive enough. I lover her dearly and think she's the most awesome person I've ever known. I want our marriage to work out because of that and because we have two awesome teenage boys. Is the separation a way for her to tell me that she's not willing to work things out? She keeps saying, "let's take this step and just see what happens". I feel that she's hoping that once I get out on my own that I'll quit loving her or something. I do know that I've been in the wrong and everything she's been telling me is true. I am working with a counselor and now realize that I need a change in order to be happy with myself. I just hope it's not too late, I can't stand the thought of loosing her and the 15+ years we've had together.

2007-01-29 06:03:51 · 17 answers · asked by daremn 1 in Marriage & Divorce

to snare the man of your dreams ?

2007-01-29 06:03:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hes just 12 i donno why he hate blacks..what s the best punishment for this kid?

2007-01-29 06:03:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

well i have someone i am in a relationship with this person but i want the relationship to work but for some reason i feel he don't trust me and aslo i think he spying on me from the computer and i think the phone is tap cause when ask me question that basically none of his business he would say something out of the wall to see i am telling the truth but i don't know what to do cause i don't he like i think he is just saying that to make me feel good and i feel that he going to dump me even thought he said he wouldn't so what should i do cause he know computer real good and i don't to much about it but internet and email's and i feel that i am beening watch by him and aslo spyed on and for some reason he always use my past against me all the time so what should i do about us cause i don't feel wanted and aslo i feel i am beening use and played off my feelings and intellegenic

2007-01-29 06:03:06 · 7 answers · asked by MRS DEE 2 U 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 06:02:54 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 06:02:29 · 5 answers · asked by amandarling 1 in Singles & Dating

ok im not having a good day but what would you do to cheer me up ?

2007-01-29 06:02:05 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

want my wife to sleep with other women???

2007-01-29 06:02:02 · 21 answers · asked by a.c 3 in Singles & Dating

i have recently recovered from a heartbreak a month and and a bit ago and today i went on a college trip and saw a really good looking boy, however i failed to say anything to him because i was waiting for him to say something, we go to the same college yet this was the first time i had seen him,did i mess up by not saying anything? we even sat next to each other but i was shy and didn't know what to say, has the moment passed? should i try talking to him if i see him around? what do i say?? please help!!!

2007-01-29 06:02:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

yo watup....

My freind is new at drinkin....he got real wasted at a party last time....and i wna help him out....

pls guys...yall knw ne drink dat is not very strong but is kinda cool to have wit ur buddies and such drinks dat chiks cn admire.....caz he is hvin a real hard time at gettin chiks :P ........

ne ideas.....??

jus wna knw sum cool drinks dat he cn chill wit his freinds....

thankx guys...waitin for ur ansas

PEACE

2007-01-29 06:01:26 · 7 answers · asked by Osman b 1 in Singles & Dating

I have looked at examples and so far the only thing that I have found that I had left out of my notes was that the husband cannot bring girlfriends, concubines or the new wife (or males filling those roles, if that is the case) to any events for the children, i.e., weddings, graduation, school plays, sporting events, recitals, demonstrations, plays, etc. There will be no birthday celebrations except those held at either his home or hers (e.g., no Chucky Cheese's) unless both parties consent and neither party will take the chikdren out of town on their birthdays.

2007-01-29 06:00:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My heart is breaking. How do you prove to a man you have true to him?
I love this man with all my heart, I do not want to throw away five years. He has this paranoid delusion that I have not been true to him, I have told him nothing but the truth. I don't believe in cheating, that's a very hurtful thing to do. But it hurts so much knowing he doesn't trust me and I have done nothing to break this trust. Help! I love this man sooo much. He inflicts emotional pain every time he accuses me. I know I have done nothing, how do I prove this too him? I'm at my wits end.


I don't want to throw away 5 years, he was never like this before. This just started 7 months ago, I am trying to have faith that things will go back to normal...

2007-01-29 06:00:23 · 12 answers · asked by sxy_tang 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know 1 girl for 9 years and now we are in same class and we are best friends but i crush on her and i don't know what to do now.I need advice quick?!

2007-01-29 05:59:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's a long sorted story, but here goes...

Wife and I have been together for 14+ years. 8 of which as husband and wife. After the tragic loss of her mother, she slipped into depression and the weight of carrying the marriage and supporting our children and the household fell on my shoulders. After a while, with all the hurt I had to let my love for her go (It just hurt too bad for me to love her when I got hurt at every turn) just to get by in my day to day life and do what I needed to do to support our family. I've made my share of mistakes so she's not entirely at fault either. We've since sought counseling and have dealt with her depression, but my problem is this... How can you learn to love someone again after so much hurt? I've let go of the resentment and the anger, but I still don't love her the way I should. I care for her deeply, but I don't think that's enough. So what do you do when you reach this point?

2007-01-29 05:59:13 · 13 answers · asked by genetic_traitor 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 27 years old, and a single mother of 3 kids. Back in May of 06, I allowed my mother to move in with me to help her out, (she was staying with my aunt) I have started dating a guy with whom I am really serious about and she is also dating a man about a week now) I have seen numours times, on her instant messages with her boyfriend. she talks about how lazy i am and that i am worthless and all kinds of other crap, she also says she would take my kids away from me, but she is mentally unstable to raise kids! The situation in the house is I do EVERYTHING, plus work, I work 40 plus hours a week, the come home and take care of the children, cook and clean. If i rest one day, its the end of the world.she told her boyfriend that the only reason why she stays is because of the kids, if it was just me, she would be gone!! SHOULD I TAKE MATTERS IN TO MY HANDS AND TELL HER TO GET OUT OR WHAT? Among talking trash to the boyfriend of hers, she acts like she dont want mine around!!

2007-01-29 05:58:46 · 12 answers · asked by merrittmom03 2 in Family

He says I pushed him into it as I was asking him where he was going; what time he would be home; searching his mobile etc. I have suspected for a while and when I have confronted him he has always found an excuse to make it sound OK, but this time he admitted it. He had been seeing this female for over a year, she is now pregnant but she has now broken off the relationship.

I still love him and don't want to bring our 4 week old daughter up on my own, should I try and work it out or kick him out?

2007-01-29 05:58:43 · 40 answers · asked by Lynn J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

r the ppl who say this have always been single??

2007-01-29 05:58:37 · 4 answers · asked by Angad 4 in Singles & Dating

And "Please get your things and go." I own the house, and pay all the bills, do all of the housework. I don't understand what my problem is. The sex isn't that great, and I can get that anywhere. Why am I doing this to myself? We do not have children together. I have two kids who are moderatly attached, but he really isn't that close to them. Has anyone else out there continued to do and do and do for someone not getting anything in return and at the same time wish they would just leave? We have only been married for 1 yr 7 mos, but I think he has continued to not be a partner for so long that I don't want him to do things right now. I just want to chalk it up to bad choices and move on. We went to counseling last year and it didn't change anything.

2007-01-29 05:58:35 · 7 answers · asked by browneyedgirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My Boyfriend & I have been together 4 going on 2 years now... It seem like now out of all this time that we have been together we are starting to have arguments... Its like once we've done somethin wrong we get mad and get over it... But lately it's jus been commin up and getting worse... Its jus sickin because after we have finish talkin about it and we get over it like a week later we are on the subject again... Its really tearing us apart & i would keep tellin him that if its really hurting him that bad then maybe we should move on but all he would say is he is sorry 4 getting upset and he dont want it 2 come between us. I always give in and try 2 make him feel better ((later we both would be back on track)) but its starting 2 get on my nerves and now i'm askin ya'll wat should i do?

2007-01-29 05:57:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating