Family & Relationships - 29 January 2007

My mother and I have never really gotten along, she kicked my brother and I out a long time ago to be with this loser. Any ways they have since broken up, and we have started to kind of "get along", but she moved into an apartment just down the road from me, and never stops calling me to do stuff, and if I am busy (i have a 2 year old) she gives me a guilt trip, and is always saying she is lonely, even if i am taking my truck in for an oil change she wants to come,what do you think an I being mean or is it wrong for her to expect me to be her constant companion after the way she treated me in the past??

2007-01-29 05:57:02 · 13 answers · asked by Stuck in the middle of nowhere 7 in Friends

okay i'm 17 soon to turn 18....my boyfriend wants to have a baby and we've only been going out for 4 months going for 5....i really love him...but he wants to have a kid i do to but i want to wait til' a graduate and i already told him...but i don't know i'm really confused please give me advise HELP!! write back

2007-01-29 05:56:52 · 22 answers · asked by ♥ i L0VE U S0 MUCH ♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

I wrote this poem, so could you guys read it and see if it is ok.

Thanks!!!!

(PS. first time i've written poetry so dont blame me if its crap)


I think of you each morning,
And dream of you each night,
There is no-one I more desire,
With endless beauty and a soul of fire,
Never have I fallen,
Down this path before,
I am blinded by your love,
And desperately want more,
I don’t know what to do,
Since I have never felt this way,
You are in someone else’s heart,
That will never be given away,
Even though you can never be mine,
I will always love you till the end of time.

2007-01-29 05:56:47 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My bf broke up with me 2 days ago, because he wants to be closer to god. But how do I compete against him? I dont want him to be closer to god. He wants to be cristian and be a better person, so he left me, to be closer to him. He says he dosent love me like I do, and that's what makes him be a bad person, and he wants to be good, so that he is close to god. How do I make him change?

2007-01-29 05:56:39 · 17 answers · asked by Una nena mas 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a big problem which I don't know what to do. Theree are two girls that I like, one I asked out and she told me that she wanted to get to know me first, but since then we haven't really talked, pretty much when we run into each other or when were both working on the same shift at our job. The other girl I pretty much want to take her out instead of the first one, and this second girl also works at my job. Now the problem is that I'm not doing anything about it because I don't know if the second girl likes me, and I'm pretty sure she doesn't have a Boyfriend. So what should I do to let down the first one easy, and find out if the second one likes me or not and doesn't have a boyfriend?
BD

2007-01-29 05:56:17 · 10 answers · asked by Black Dragon 2 in Singles & Dating

I was molested at a younger age by my step dad and my mom doesn't want to come with realization that it has happened. I have tried to get this out in the open with her many times but it just doesn't work. I want a relationship with her .... a mother-daughter relationship but it just won't work unless she realizes this because its not fair to me. If anyone has gone through a similiar situation please write. I need advice and help on how to deal with this.

2007-01-29 05:55:37 · 9 answers · asked by girliegirl2483 2 in Family

having sex? if so where? outside, thru a window or door? and who was it a friend or someone you didn't know?

2007-01-29 05:55:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've known this girl since i was 6 years old , we were always great friends , i used to go round her house alot and we alwyas went to each others birthday party's..but it never went any furver. Then when we were both 10 years old she moved school...i dont think ive ever been so upset in my whole life. The day she left was the only day she ever hugged me and i can remeber that moment so clearly. Since she left ive never had a crush on another girl ( which is really worrying me as its been 4 1/2 years) and i think about her every day.

Yesterday,i managed to find he msn addy and we had a great conversation about old times..and now thats just made things worse.

This sounds really corny but i just feel empty and lost without having her near me,even if it is just friendship.

Please help me..what should i do ?!
P.S I know where she lives and her phone number but im afraid of what will happen if i just turn up!

2007-01-29 05:53:26 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I will admit i get a little jealous sometimes but my fiance told me that her ex boyfriend had been fired from the company they work at. Then a couple of weeks later i find out that he still works there. She said that she was told he didnt work there anymore. When i asked her about it then she changed her story to they only use him for installes occasionally but im not sure. I finally got her to admit she lied and she said she did it because she thought i would get mad. Also i went with her on a business call to deliver a part one time and when we get there i noticed her ex's truck and i looked at her phone and she had called her ex's nuber on the way there. When i asked her about it she said it was her ex's friend that was borrowing his truck and cell phone. I dont know what her ex looks like so im not sure. I just dont know what to do i love her but she seems like she is hiding things. Any advise would be greatly appreciated

2007-01-29 05:53:20 · 23 answers · asked by bob 2 in Singles & Dating

She dumped me

I loved her
I missed her
But she dumped me

I cared for her
I changed for her
But she dumped me

I dreamed about her
I thought about her
But she dumped me

I prayed for her
I stayed up for her
But she dumped me

I smiled for her
I cried for her
But she dumped me

I lived for her
I was ready to die for her
But she dumped me

I joked with her
If laughed with her
But she dumped me

I flirted with her
I left every one for her
But she dumped me


Maybe I was not good enough for her
Maybe she found some one better for her
Coz she dumped me

Maybe it was god’s wish
Maybe it was fate
Coz she dumped me

I still love her
I still miss her
I still care for her

2007-01-29 05:53:04 · 18 answers · asked by Angad 4 in Singles & Dating

...and just concentrate on my main girfriend?

It seems like it would be very difficult to have two dates on Valentines Day. Should I cut one of them loose?

I wrote a blog dedicated to this topic to elaborate on my thoughts.

If you are curious check out my profile for the link.

2007-01-29 05:52:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

After many years of marriage, we have decided that it would be in the best interest for our family if we were to separate and get a divorce. We are planning on sitting down with the kids (ages 11 and 15) and explaining to them that we love them, but mommy and daddy are getting a divorce. Does anyone have any insight on what would be the best way to break the news to them in a way that will minimize their pain? We are also going to have to tell them that we will be putting the house up for sale as well. Thank you in advance for any advice.

2007-01-29 05:52:42 · 11 answers · asked by Royalhinney 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I told my Best Friend that i like this guy now shes saying she likes him 2 last night they talked and he asked her out and tryed kissing her she didnt let him kiss her but she never gave him an answer to be his gf should i be happy or am i being the bad guy wanting her to say no to him???

2007-01-29 05:52:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Is there a waiting period to get a marriage license in Atlantic City and how long is it if there is one?

2007-01-29 05:52:11 · 5 answers · asked by Perplexed 7 in Weddings

I procrasitnate (spelling* sorry) so bad that it interferes with my life! I have a very flexable job, but I leave all of my work to the very last minute and then have tons of work to do, and wear myself out in the process. I am pregnant and going to be even more busier. I do the same thing at home as well, leave everything to the very last minute. It is really annoying! Please any tips or advice would be wonderful!

2007-01-29 05:52:02 · 7 answers · asked by wondering 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been dating for a year now, but when we first met we talked about serious past relationships.He is a bit older than me (5 years).He has had alot more experience than me. I told him I had a bf for about 6 months (LIE- i have never had a serious bf and had only been on a few dates before we went out)but that was it and then later as our realtionship progressed,we talked about the sexual side of things. I told him the truth about me being a virgin, but I told him I did "other" things, that I never really did (So another LIE) well anyway he keeps asking me questions about this BF and i feel guilty for not just telling him the truth, especially a year later.I never expect us to last this long! I have told him since that I lied about all the sexual stuff, but he still doesnt know that this "bf" is fake and never existed. Sometimes i feel guilty but besides that is there any point to telling him the truth or should I just stay quiet and forget it? Thanks.

2007-01-29 05:51:46 · 12 answers · asked by HlpMePlz 2 in Singles & Dating

thankyou , for answering my question here is 2 points.

2007-01-29 05:50:57 · 8 answers · asked by tiara_bridges 1 in Singles & Dating

I know a friend I used to love him much but he said he likes me – after some time he asked me to be his girl friend.
I said but u do not love me.
He said: y cant we enjoy each other and see what happens- really like u.
What could a girl friend means to him?!!!

2007-01-29 05:50:26 · 9 answers · asked by Rachel 3 in Singles & Dating

I have nothing in common with her, and I've been avoiding her. I know my husband doesn't like the situation, I've tried to be with her, but she makes no sense. I work full time & she doesn't work, I go to university & she never finished her school, I have kids & she doesn't, I'm always on time & she is always late, I always do things in timely manner & she procrastinates, I'm more logical and act upon what makes sense & she is emotional and she acts with her emotions. It is very painful for us to be in the same room.

2007-01-29 05:49:50 · 15 answers · asked by Pluto 3 in Family

Help me please! I am in love with someone, and our love is responsible love leading to marriage...He has been so fond of me, he always talks but about 5 weeks ago he became silent...I thought something is wrong, or that he wanted suddenly to break our relationship...even if there is no reason I had this in mind...I tried to call him, but I couldn't...then I caught him and he just said he is busy...it was a week ago...I can't imagine that he is slipping away for no reason, and I know that he ios the type of person who gonna tell me if he will. What do you think is this?? What does it mean if a man is silent. We are adults, not teenagers. Thanks

2007-01-29 05:48:40 · 15 answers · asked by LaRoseJaune 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have broken up with and asked my boyfriend to move out . I have given him a month but he "acts" as though he is not going anywhere. Financially I know it might be hard for him because he has a felony and only a part time job but I want him out. I gave him a month originally how can I get him out within my set times (he has two weeks left) . I have been with him 6 half years and I am fed up with him not acting like a man, father or role model to our child (my children) and the fact that he has allowed me to support him financially with out minimal effort on his part to contrubite in anyway. On top of that he is accussatory of me seeing others, has been physically abusive once, and mentally abusive all the time to me and the kids. Please no smart answers, only helpful, serious answers! Although he is not on the lease the law is not on my side here with making him leave unless he does somethinf physcial and financially I cannot take the kids and leave.

2007-01-29 05:48:21 · 7 answers · asked by nene 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-29 05:48:20 · 6 answers · asked by lilmisstexas13 1 in Friends

well, i haven't gotten a violation notice email since saturday. Could it mean i'm ill...?

2007-01-29 05:48:19 · 6 answers · asked by dianabarff 3 in Singles & Dating

I am in MA.

2007-01-29 05:48:14 · 3 answers · asked by In Luv w/ 2 B, 1 G + 1 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend (Who's a girl) came over to my house a few days ago for a project. I was bores, and I told her if she wanted to help me scare my brother. She didn't want to, but she kept olding my hands, telling me how comfortable she feels when she holds them. Next thing you know, she leans in and kisses my lips, and tells me the next day that she liked it. Does she have feelings for me, or was it some sort of tension that pushed her to do that?

2007-01-29 05:47:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I got another question for the day. Hey ladies would a guy my height who's five foot five or five six. Also would you date a taller guy who looks like Homer Simpson with a gutt, bald, and bad hygiene. Maybe you date a guy who is between five eight or five nine and looks like Lorenz Tate?

2007-01-29 05:46:58 · 3 answers · asked by ken31pop 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 05:46:43 · 14 answers · asked by smilingthru_life 2 in Weddings

girl playing the same game guys play..such as playing with our hearts and acting like they dont care abt everything and tryin to be players ..i mean if guys are playing the game why not play it to ??

2007-01-29 05:46:29 · 3 answers · asked by A-Trip 1 in Singles & Dating

Uglyman was setup on a date last weekend and this woman never showed up. This server told me that maybe she left after she saw me waiting. Uglyman told server not to be jealous of my good looks. Uglyman is confused why that blind date never showed up?

2007-01-29 05:46:25 · 3 answers · asked by lol 1 in Singles & Dating

Im being serious.......

2007-01-29 05:46:01 · 17 answers · asked by comotoast 1 in Singles & Dating