I have broken up with and asked my boyfriend to move out . I have given him a month but he "acts" as though he is not going anywhere. Financially I know it might be hard for him because he has a felony and only a part time job but I want him out. I gave him a month originally how can I get him out within my set times (he has two weeks left) . I have been with him 6 half years and I am fed up with him not acting like a man, father or role model to our child (my children) and the fact that he has allowed me to support him financially with out minimal effort on his part to contrubite in anyway. On top of that he is accussatory of me seeing others, has been physically abusive once, and mentally abusive all the time to me and the kids. Please no smart answers, only helpful, serious answers! Although he is not on the lease the law is not on my side here with making him leave unless he does somethinf physcial and financially I cannot take the kids and leave.
2007-01-29 05:48:21 · 7 answers · asked by nene 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would check into having him evicted. Even though he isn't on the lease. Otherwise I would call the landlord and have the locks changed and pack up all his things and set them outside. Maybe when you do that you might want to stay the night at a family or friends house. I know what your going through. I am married and in the same situation. He won't leave but I shouldn't just give him what is mine. I had to go to court to get him out. Im just surprised that the officers in your town won't help you with this. Its a terrible thing. My heart goes out to you. Becareful.
2007-01-29 05:56:36 · answer #1 · answered by beaches 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know yesterday ,i called the police for my husband and guess what his name isn't on the lease,the cops can't do nothing about that.he physically abuse me once and he tried yesterday ,you gave one month i gave him 1 week but there is two things that you can do: go to the court and ask question or try to make a deal with him, try to tell him ,you won't file for child support if he just live you alone ,try do give him what he wants or likes the best, because it's a tough situation you need to play smart something else don't cook,don't do the laundry act like you're tired all the time ,for what i know he doesn't love you ,he wants to abuse you .Remember there's a lot of good men outside waiting for so don't waist your time ,life it's so sort.......those men are so selfish in they know no woman will accept to live with a man like
2007-01-29 14:23:49 · answer #2 · answered by BOOKEY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be good to talk to an attorney. In some situations, you can change the locks while they're gone. Then, leave their belongings outside, or somewhere else, so that they can get them.
Since he has been physically and mentally abusive, you might also check about a restraining order. In some areas, you can go to the local judge and apply for that.
2007-01-29 13:58:46 · answer #3 · answered by Faith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know where you live, but usually you can go to family court and have him booted for free. Call one of the women's shelters for direction on how to get him out. I think with his actions, you can file a PFA (Protection from abuse order) with family court and that will be that. Then file for Child support too. He needs to step up to the play. Send him to the YMCA for a place to stay or his family. He needs to get out. Be careful. Be safe. Look in your yellow pages under Social Services or community pages of your local phone book for someone in your area to help you. You're doing the right thing. I wish you the best.
2007-01-29 14:20:40 · answer #4 · answered by whereRyou? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's very little you can do.
You'll seriously have to consider moving when your lease is up. Your options are almost zero at this point. if he gets physically abusive, call the police, press charges and have his things packed and out of the house while he's in jail, and change your locks.
2007-01-29 13:53:24 · answer #5 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
http://www.ndvh.org/
since i don't know where you live...check out the above website for more help to your situation. depending on how close you are to the end of your lease...you can find another place without him so that he will be forced to find anothr place to live. but you should have been calling the police in regards to the abuse honey. but start with the above website. that is a nationally (united states) domestic abuse hotline who can direct you to more help than yahoo answers can provide.
2007-01-29 16:05:10 · answer #6 · answered by cfalways 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is not on lease call the cops.
2007-01-29 13:52:52 · answer #7 · answered by Jacuzzi Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋