I've known this girl since i was 6 years old , we were always great friends , i used to go round her house alot and we alwyas went to each others birthday party's..but it never went any furver. Then when we were both 10 years old she moved school...i dont think ive ever been so upset in my whole life. The day she left was the only day she ever hugged me and i can remeber that moment so clearly. Since she left ive never had a crush on another girl ( which is really worrying me as its been 4 1/2 years) and i think about her every day.
Yesterday,i managed to find he msn addy and we had a great conversation about old times..and now thats just made things worse.
This sounds really corny but i just feel empty and lost without having her near me,even if it is just friendship.
Please help me..what should i do ?!
P.S I know where she lives and her phone number but im afraid of what will happen if i just turn up!
2007-01-29 05:53:26 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
trust me u may feel that way now but Ur young give it time and you'll realize its impossible to love women u just have to learn to deal with them.
2007-01-29 05:58:03 · answer #1 · answered by That Kid Zinc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my calculations are correct, you are somewhere around the age of 14 1/2 years. This would make you a freshman I think. I remember all too well when I was that age and now I have kids your age too. Knowone really can say if you are in-love or not. Only you know how you really feel when you think of her.
I've had a best friend since I was 11 and I am now 41. He will always be my friend but we have never been anything more than just that. We have been thru so much together, and we have a love for each other but it is the kind of love you feel when you love your brother or sister, mom or dad.
Time will tell you what you have with her. If its an endearing friendship or a first love. If it's a first love then its going to be a feeling that you might not know how to control because you've never felt it before.
Just take it slow....pick up the phone and call her....ask her if she wants to hang out with you and go from there!
Hope this helps!
2007-01-29 14:10:44 · answer #2 · answered by HDlovinggal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes I wonder WHY people sound soooooo odd with such circumstances...
I eally wonder WHAT stops you from taking one step towards a good life...
You have been so close to her....You were both innocent, and this is the very best thing about it....
Then she moved and took a piece of your heart with her...isn't that ROMANTIC....
She has always been in your thoughts, and this is really BEAUTIFUL...
You have lived a LOVE STORY since you were kids, and it is being repeated while you are adults,,,,
There is so much of beauty in this whole thing and you do not see it....
What more could anyone ask KNOWING HIS POTENTIAL OTHER HALF IS AVAILABLE....
Why not take these moments of innocence along with you for the life you both will carry ahead if you were meant to be for one another...
Why should you dump this opportunity and seek a venture which could result in total failure, where as the ULTIMATE CHOICE is right between your hands...
Ask yourself one question....WHAT IF YOU COME TO KNOW SOME OF THEM IS APPROACHING HER FOR A MARRIAGE PROPOSAL.....
How did it feel ...???
You ask your heart, and forget all the BULL S H I T about reason when it comes to your REAL SOUL MATE MAN......
To me...U R SOOOOOOOOO N LUV with her, so why loose her...
I promise you it will be really much of a successful relationship with a look into the future for the rest of both your lives...
Maybe it takes a HEART OF A POET to understand these things the way I see it, but your heart tells you what you must do, and you wish to resent it for a reason or another, and I DO NOT UNDERSTAND YOU....
Don't loose this chance....you will not always find REAL LOVE KNOCKING YOUR LIFE................................
2007-01-29 14:14:16 · answer #3 · answered by FOREVER AUTUMN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definitely have a crush on her, and you've made her into this ideal woman... you feel it's safe to love her because you don't really know her, she stays the same in your mind every day, and can't change or let you down like the women in your day-to-day life.
So I think it would healthy for you to meet her in person, and find out if the fantasy matches the reality. Maybe you'll be disappointed, find out she's not like she used to be, and then you can get on with your life and get interested in other girls. Maybe you'll hve some Dawson'sCreek relationship where you stay best friends forever but marry other people. Or maybe she'll be perfect and you'll have a great story to tell your kids someday. But you should meet her and find out.
Do NOT just show up on her doorstep like some crazy stalker. Call her and arrange a time and place to meet her and hang out. Try to find out more about her before professing your love.
2007-01-29 14:01:43 · answer #4 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say if you lost it and it comes back to you ya know it's for real. I'd say give it a shot and find out if she is the same person you remember cuz ppl do change, but it's definitely worth it if you had that closed of a relationship back then and you still miss it. Give her a call and say you'd really love to catch up in person .
2007-01-29 14:01:06 · answer #5 · answered by happily married ( : 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please...dont just show up...start with a courtesy call. talk to her on the phone...tell her how you feel.9 outta 10 chances, she is feeling the same way...she will probably invite you over...time has passed and IF you just show up and she happened to move on...it will only hurt you more. sounds like a fantastic woman...wish you luck... hoping you have had contact since she left??? i'm sure you heard the expression...absence makes the heart grow fonder? well the ending of it is...fonder of someone else... again...good luck
2007-01-29 14:06:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't juss turn up on anyone's doorstep. If you have her number call her and ask her out to dinner invite her over to your place if it's convenient. However if yesterday was the last time you guys spoke in forever......just showing up on her doorstep may not be such a smart idea
As to if ur in love only you know that
2007-01-29 13:59:13 · answer #7 · answered by SP 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing beats a failure but a try. Call her please! Don't be that person a yr from now or more asking yourself what if. Take a chance on life, it might be beneficial to you, but you will never know until you take that step forward. Good luck sweetie, you sound like a winner.
2007-01-29 14:23:13 · answer #8 · answered by ILoveMe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok i don't really see how that made it worse but anyway if your worried about just showing up at her house then just give her a call try not to worry about it to much i know how hard it is tolet someone go that you hold dear to your heart but if you want we can talk somtime e-mail me if you want so we can talk about each others problems. My e-mail is punkified_princess.
2007-01-29 14:00:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just turn up. you never know what will happen. maybe she has felt the same way about you... you gotta take chances or you just might live with the regret of not taking the chance you have now. give her a call. tell her to meet you somewhere and go out to get smoothies and go for a walk. talk. see what happens!
2007-01-29 13:58:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You obviously care for this person. You should call her because I am pretty sure she cared about you too. You spent lots of time together. Dont be a chicken and call. You will regret it if u dont. She probably wants to hear from you too.
2007-01-29 13:58:17 · answer #11 · answered by alwaysperfec237 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋