Family & Relationships - 29 January 2007

i have been a bad husband and putting my through hell with my temper and she has been scared of me for a while so she had an affair slthough i never hurt my wife im gonna get help and we are gonna try but i love her so much that im crying while i type we goona go to a counselor and see what happens she said she wanted to try but all i keep thinking asbout is this other guy ......i do forgive her for what she did and it was probably because of me ....i love my wife more than anything in the world and i just wanna forget what she did ....please if someone has some help for me this is tearing me apart and makin me wanna hurt myself for what i did someone out there please help me i dont wanna lose my wife i love her so much

2007-01-29 05:33:31 · 20 answers · asked by Brian W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend says he's: "attached" to me, he says "i hope you don't mind me being attached to you", what does he mean by that?

2007-01-29 05:33:08 · 4 answers · asked by US 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend knows that I am a virgin he wants me to go to his place for a candle lit dinner on valentines day then play games in my red underware and braw he said first he was ganna give me a lap dance he said it would be the best night of my life I am excited but I have never done this befor

2007-01-29 05:32:55 · 5 answers · asked by Maddie C 1 in Singles & Dating

keep thinking of my wife with another woman :)

2007-01-29 05:31:44 · 15 answers · asked by a.c 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-29 05:31:36 · 6 answers · asked by Erin A 1 in Weddings

3 or 4 years ago, when I was a jr in High School, I started to get feelings for a friend... He was dorky, and not what I normally go for, but after becoming good friends, I started to realize that I liked him. Well eventually he asked me out and we were officially a couple. He was my first love at the age of 16. He took me out on dates and we shared so much together, talked on the phone all night even. There were days when we'd be on the phone from 7pm at night until school the next day, and we'd go to school tired as hell. We loved eachother, we both felt it.
We were together from Nov 28 2003 to Mar 6 2003.in January, things started going kinda sour, his best friend (that happened to be a girl) didnt like me, and basically wanted us 2 breakup. After so much drama, my bf broke up with me, and it was the hardest thing ever, I remember everything. Since then, I dated a guy for almost 2 years(we brokeup 4 mo ago)but it seems like I cant get over the 1st guy? Whats wrong with me? HELP!

2007-01-29 05:30:38 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so I'm 15 and I've never had a boyfriend. I don't even know how you're supposed to go about getting one. Is this normal?

2007-01-29 05:30:32 · 27 answers · asked by Leeni 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you think about other men?

2007-01-29 05:29:46 · 33 answers · asked by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Ex-boyfriend and I bought a house and are no longer together. He told me to leave and he will pay the mortgage. Now, he wants to get roommates (2 to be exact). However, he told me that I was not allowed to get roommates if he left. Whatever, I can't afford the place even with 2 roommates (and neither can he but you can't tell him that). I want him to sell but he won't because we will have to come out of pocket to sell (we just refinanced over 100% of the value of the home so there is no equity). Here's my questions: 1. Do I allow him to get roommates? 2. Once the house gets value on it (maybe 2 years) I know I can force him to sell, will I still be entitled to the sale proceeds? 3. Should I make him sign a paper stating I can leave (I know it will do nothing with the bank but it may help. HELP!!

2007-01-29 05:29:31 · 11 answers · asked by lissabell99 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Not being in love with the person just for benificial reasons.

2007-01-29 05:28:59 · 6 answers · asked by Jaming 2 in Weddings

Or are you just happy to get someone to either ask you out or to accept your invitation?

2007-01-29 05:28:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In a trailer park? What did you find? Anything unique? I found lots of truck parts and beer openers.

2007-01-29 05:28:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i sometimes dream that i cant help or that i cant reach quite far enough to save some one

2007-01-29 05:27:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

it was 31st night. we were best friends since college days, but that night we were out for a party, he was a bit high and i also had a small peg. i dont know why he took me closer and kissed me, carressed me, he had never ever expressed his feelings before. however the very next morning he said he didnt remember anything. i m not sure if he does. cause he has broken his friendship with his so called friend. i am a bit confused is he hinting that he wants some time to get on his feet i mean financially, or that he does not remember anyhting and i shoukld forget. he is my best friend i dont want to loose him. please help me

2007-01-29 05:27:22 · 8 answers · asked by Armaan 1 in Friends

Why does my boyfriend wants a lot of sex when he is feeling down or upset, for example, about his job? He did not get promoted and lately, most of his messages are all about how much he wants me and how upset he is as I am far. We are in a long-distance relationship. We are planning to be near each other in a few months. I don't want to make him feel rejected or unwanted by giving him a wrong reaction, but he seems to be quite down. He says to me how tired he is of waiting to see me each time. I am starting to worry. Please explain to me? And what should I do? We are meeting 2 weeks later, he is coming to visit but his messages seem full of frustruation?

2007-01-29 05:27:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok we were togerther for 6 years and she had been less affectionate whe hanging out and a few times we fought and she said she is unhappy and doesn't know why.

Yesterday she finalized it saying i love you so much and i like you so much I miss you during the week but for some reason when i come over you house i am depressed and i am fine where ever else i go. She said she is not holding any grudges and has absolutely no idea why she feels this way. So we broke up. She called me a few times last night finaly i answered and joked for a little she said im going to go i said ok bye. She calls back again and says it''s not a joke im serious i said i know what do you want me to do mope around? Then she said your not going to forget about me, i hope if i come back you'll take me back and when i do marry me right away. I said i dont know how ill feel. Then she said dont to get to serious with anyone else. I said ill see what happens. Should i wait or move on?

2007-01-29 05:27:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi,
ya see theres this boy at school and i like him and want to go out with him soooooooo much, iv asked my friends to ask him out for me and he said No.
But i dont get it he likes me in the same way, every one says so and he pulls his top up in front of me IN CLASS
I dont wanna give him flowers or chocolates or nothing like that i need some tips please. Thank You

2007-01-29 05:26:42 · 7 answers · asked by Lacadema (Role-player) 4 in Friends

When you subtract out factors like wishing to be looked upon as normal, and basic economic survival/prosperity, and also the desire to procreate.

Pease don't respond if you're very concerned about what other's may think of your answer. You are anonymous.

2007-01-29 05:26:23 · 15 answers · asked by chiguy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Guys what does that mean
I know a friend I used to love him much but he said he likes me – after some time he asked me to be his girl friend. and he said y cant we enjoy each other and see what happens- really like u.
What could that mean i am confused ?!!!

2007-01-29 05:26:17 · 9 answers · asked by Rachel 3 in Friends

I need a good recommendation for wedding invites with a good price. Thanks.

2007-01-29 05:25:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Plain an simple question. I don't show my sensitivity alot, but I figure that if I get to know someone they'd see it.

I've gone on one date ever (I'm 20)

2007-01-29 05:24:29 · 17 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Singles & Dating

We talked for about 1/2 hr while he was hooking up my cable, Should I consider him a perv and ignore him or should I take him up on his offer?
He was kind of cute. I wonder if he does this to other women. What do you think?

2007-01-29 05:24:09 · 48 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Singles & Dating

Im getting married next Spring & want to know some good stores or web sites to find me the perfect dress.

2007-01-29 05:24:08 · 2 answers · asked by She is Beautiful! 6 in Weddings

i am 23 year old and likes girls but my problem is that i like to dress up as a girl sometimes. it is called transvestism. i had a girlfriend few years back but she left me as soon as she came 2 know about my liking. its very frustrating how can i approach girls for a relationship. need help especially from girls out there

2007-01-29 05:23:52 · 21 answers · asked by mona c 1 in Singles & Dating

my friend recently had his nipples pierced ???
Just for his own drunken benefit... now he finds them a source of entertainment at parties...

Is this type of piercing really in style?

2007-01-29 05:23:27 · 3 answers · asked by coffeegirl 3 in Singles & Dating

I love this man with all my heart, I do not want to throw away five years. He has this paranoid delusion that I have not been true to him, I have told him nothing but the truth. I don't believe in cheating, that's a very hurtful thing to do. But it hurts so much knowing he doesn't trust me and I have done nothing to break this trust. Help! I love this man sooo much. He inflicts emotional pain every time he accuses me. I know I have done nothing, how do I prove this too him? I'm at my wits end.

2007-01-29 05:22:59 · 2 answers · asked by sxy_tang 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband is inconsitant on just about everything. He would go to work get his paycheck and would give me half of it. Then he would make excuses as of why he doesn't have enought money in the middle of the week. He would sleep for long hours, not take a shower and would eat candy and drink lots of soda. He complains that he is sick and yet he wont go to the doctors. Are these signs of him doing drugs? Should I leave him? Should I tell his dad to take care of him? I am stuck and undecided on what to do. HELP!

2007-01-29 05:21:12 · 7 answers · asked by Deyla C 1 in Friends

I live in Florida, I am waiter who makes $3/hr plus tips and she makes $9.50/hr, We are going to split verything 50-50
does this means that she have to support me?
Do I have to pay child support?

2007-01-29 05:21:11 · 18 answers · asked by Ray C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

a dating site such as eHarmony or Match.com? If so, what was your experience? I have tried both, but although I have gained a new male friend, I haven't been successful at finding love.

2007-01-29 05:19:43 · 5 answers · asked by ceegt 6 in Singles & Dating

Guys what does that mean
I know a friend I used to love him much but he said he likes me – after some time he asked me to be his girl friend.
I said but u do not love me.
He said: y cant we enjoy each other and see what happens- really like u.
What could a girl friend means to him?!!!

2007-01-29 05:19:21 · 1 answers · asked by Rachel 3 in Singles & Dating