Ok we were togerther for 6 years and she had been less affectionate whe hanging out and a few times we fought and she said she is unhappy and doesn't know why.
Yesterday she finalized it saying i love you so much and i like you so much I miss you during the week but for some reason when i come over you house i am depressed and i am fine where ever else i go. She said she is not holding any grudges and has absolutely no idea why she feels this way. So we broke up. She called me a few times last night finaly i answered and joked for a little she said im going to go i said ok bye. She calls back again and says it''s not a joke im serious i said i know what do you want me to do mope around? Then she said your not going to forget about me, i hope if i come back you'll take me back and when i do marry me right away. I said i dont know how ill feel. Then she said dont to get to serious with anyone else. I said ill see what happens. Should i wait or move on?
2007-01-29 05:27:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She said she would let me know when she i ready to come back or move on. But she is definitly not going with any guys until then. She kept saying i don't know what i want to do my heart says stay but my head says go.
2007-01-29 05:33:35 · update #1
She wants to move on and play the field yet she wants you to hold on. You need to give her the same ultimatum. Stand firm. Make her know by not talking to her that you mean what you say. If you let her get by with this she will disrespect you further. Frankly I would say goodbye and move on. She has hurt you enough already.
2007-01-29 05:37:04 · answer #1 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being together that long would take me sometime to over, but i don't think you should have to wait for her unless you really care & want to be with her. if you really love her then you will wait b/c girl need their own time sometimes. if not then move on. i hope i helped. good luck!
2007-01-29 13:35:53 · answer #2 · answered by manda2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on
2007-01-29 13:31:42 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IVE SEEN THIS BEFORE --- SHE DOSNT WANT YOU BUT SHE WANTS YOU TO BE HER SAFE GUY THE GUT WHO STAYS AROUND IN CASE SHE NEEDS. WHAT ABOUT WHAT WHAT YOU NEED AND WANT YOU HAVE TO LOOK OUT FOR YOURSELF ALSO. SHES BEING SELFISH. MOVE ON.
ALL PAIN GOES AWAY WITH TIME. YOUR DREAM GIRL MAY BE WAITING FOR YOU. TRY IT OUT AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS. BUT THIS ONE IS ALREADY GONE.
2007-01-29 13:35:50 · answer #4 · answered by TS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since she's always depressed around you,she'll never be happy with you.move on,cause she will never come back to stay.she'll always be looking for something you can't give her"HAPPINESS".you deserve to be with someone who'll never get enough of you.sometimes love alone is not enough.
2007-01-29 13:51:26 · answer #5 · answered by sexylove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she wants her own way 2 c if she has a better time but in the mean time doesntwant you 2 have anyone! thecase of[dont want u but dont want neone else 2 have you!] i may be wrong but that wat it sounds like! id do wat u think is write! if she knows that she can get you back weneve shel do it time n time again! ?
2007-01-29 13:36:05 · answer #6 · answered by laura h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to feel what your heart tells you, are you will to do that....
2007-01-29 13:33:48 · answer #7 · answered by *Cutie* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋