Do you think god will forgive me if I have to get a divorce? It is not for selfish reasons, it's because I'm afraid for myself and my one year old daughter. He has anger and drinking issues and is going to Iraq, and I'm afraid when he gets back they will be worse. I'm afraid of how bad things might get, since they are pretty bad now and he does not want to take our problems to a counselor, which makes me think he doesn't want to change and wants to keep me at home where he can keep his thumb on me. Actually, he's said he doesn't care - pretty much every time I tell him he's hurt me, or if something bothers me, or if I tell him he needs to get himself under control and stop cursing at me in front of our daughter. Do I really have a reason to be afraid or am I just sensitive? Oh jeeze listen to me I sound like a battered wife. I'm also afraid of how to go about leaving him if I have to, because I'm afraid of what he will do. Any advice?
2007-01-29
04:44:08
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