She's a great student, but things are starting to look bad. No drugs (that I'm aware of, but she's trying to mess around with boys {she's too young} and she lies about it.)
2007-01-29 04:48:17 · 17 answers · asked by Karate Kid 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Well that is how we all are starting out and getting older..... you have younger siblings who are going to hide things from you and act as of they are not doing anything and you know that they are.... the best thing for you to do as an older sibling is talk to her and let her know that you know what is going on and you would like for her to talk to you about things that are going that she feels that she can not talk to mom and dad (or guardian) about....make her feel safe and maybe she will confide in you and you may be able to make a difference in her life. Let me know how things go...I am interested to find out! Good Luck!
2007-01-29 04:54:45 · answer #1 · answered by Mye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my...I would give a heads-up to the parents (of both parties). If she's too young, then case closed - it needs to be put to a stop. I would express my concerns to your parent(s) and if that didn't work, I would take matters in to my own hands.
I couldn't help but notice you are a karate student...you might want to brush up if you're rusty in case things get crazy. Take care.
2007-01-29 04:53:23 · answer #2 · answered by polishedamethyst 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her yourself. Tell her that your worried about her and you don't want to see her end up with the wrong croud. Whatever you tell her DONT let it become an argument. Talk to her about it in a sincere tone and she might just open up to you and listen to what you have to say. I wouldn't go to the parents just yet because she would just get mad and then she wouldn't listen to what you or your parents had to say. I hope you can help her realize what she's doing. Best of luck.
2007-01-29 04:54:32 · answer #3 · answered by CrazyInLove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately, she wont change for anyone but all you can do is just be there for her when she needs someone.
have a chat to her about being able to study when in college and being able to date lads on weekends. she will resent you if you tell her what to do and she wont come to you for help if she ever needs it.
just tell her that if she wants to acheive nice things in life she has to get good qualifications for a good job. if she messes it up for lads, she will have nothing and wont be able to do things in life. she has pleanty of years to date lads and these years especially are the most important ones to get good qualifications.
she wont understand but at least you have had a chat with her and just be there for her when she needs you.
2007-01-29 04:59:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure how old she is. Perhaps she could be exploring outside herself. Good that she is not on drug. Start a friendly chat with her and give her as much encouragement especially in her study.
2007-01-29 04:57:05 · answer #5 · answered by Protector 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit down and talk with her. And if she is sexually active, stress the importance of BIRTH CONTROL!
2007-01-29 04:53:55 · answer #6 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront her yourself first, and warn her that if things don't change you may feel the need to discuss the problems with your parents.
2007-01-29 04:51:16 · answer #7 · answered by brown_iyed_grrl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In a round-about way, let your parents know!
2007-01-29 04:51:12 · answer #8 · answered by wish I were 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents and let them deal with her.
2007-01-29 04:51:26 · answer #9 · answered by true blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say nothing it's not your buisness, you aint her mum or dad, but talk to your mum and dad about it so they can do there job, if they have not already noticed!
2007-01-29 04:51:46 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋