my friend is a junior in college and we have been friends for 15 years and over the month of january he has changed several things in his life that has lead to us spending less time together. 1st he started taking driving lessons every night after work, instead of me meeting him at work and getting something to eat and now this week he has gone back to college for 2nd semester and we used to walk together and get lunch and then he goes to work, but now he has said he is going from school straight to work, thus cutting me out of his afternoon. my problem with this is, his schedule is not new, he always came home from school, spent an hour home then went to work. but now he goes straight to work. i enjoy hanging out with him for this little time and it makes my day long not to see him. does anyone think this is just temporary, and once he gets settled in to college he will come home or what? i asked him if we will spend less time together and he said maybe. any opinions are appreciated.
2007-01-29 04:46:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
in my opinion he is not your friend now.you should also stop chasing hm instead of being upset.you r a sincere person and may be you get more deserving person who need your sincerity.He will definitely come to you when he will start thinking like you.
2007-01-29 05:24:34 · answer #1 · answered by elegant l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really want what's best for your friendship right? Well sometimes that means you have to not just think about what you want but what your friend whats. Even if that means during the college years you don't see each other as much as you would like. It sound to like your friendship is a strong one, and if you can wait this out you will spend time together. True friends never give up on each other. And I don't think you guys will.
2007-01-29 12:57:10 · answer #2 · answered by Katie F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As people grow up their lives change and their schedules change too. It sounds a bit like you have more than friendly feelings about this person, otherwise not seeing them every single day wouldnt upset you this much. You should focus on ways to fill up your day on your own and with other people and then schedule fun specific things to do with your friend instead of missing the few hours you got to spend with him during his breaks. Fill up your schedule and then fit him into it instead of arranging your schedul around him and then feeling ditched when his life changes.
2007-01-29 12:51:54 · answer #3 · answered by imnotachickenyoureaturkey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like it maybe temporary. Maybe you should find ways to fill your schedule so you don't feel so lonely missing him. He sounds very busy right now. You should be very understanding of that. Then once he finishes up school, your time together will be great.
2007-01-29 13:07:44 · answer #4 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is just busy and not trying to avoid you. So try and keep your mind off of him while he finishes up college. Then I'm sure you'll have plenty of time to spend together!
2007-01-29 12:51:42 · answer #5 · answered by rockingirl247 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that you want him to be more than a friend! And he is change is good!!! He's bettering himself! You should support him and when yall spend time together make it a great moment.
2007-01-29 12:53:21 · answer #6 · answered by Walter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋