In any relationship where there is a disagreement the outcome is not to determine who is right or wrong but to come to some kind of compromise, otherwise the issues at hand become a power struggle. you have to be able to communicate your feelings and he should feel free to also communicate his feelings also. This does not mean you nor he will not be entitled to his own perspective of things. We are different people with different points of views, and we all individually are entitled to how we feel and think as long as we are not being deliberately disrespectful towards anyone. If your boyfriend is being difficult with you is it because you demand he admits he is wrong? Just say this to him "I know we are not in agreement right now, but hopefully we can both at least come to respect and validate the other's point of view so that we both come off with at least feeling as if we were understood". Tell him this and see what he says. Good luck to you both!
2007-01-29 05:02:45
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answered by pictureshygirl 7
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Depends on what is so difficult.
State what he did that was offensive.
Tell him why you feel that way.
Tell him what you would have preferred that he do or ask for input from him on possible resolutions.
Scrape up some evidence to show him that you are right and what he did or said was not wrong.
tie it all together and explain how it made you feel and how you want to feel about the situation
if he still persists with the undesired behavior then you should lay down an ultimatum and either take control of your relationship or come to an agreement about decision making and confrontations.
and if none of that works and he is still being stubborn go find a guy more open minded to you and your feelings we are out here and we do care enough to keep our women happy...
2007-01-29 12:53:20
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answered by Anonymous
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If a person is too good to admit they are wrong, there will be not submitting and admitting. I don't know the situation but sometimes there isn't a right and wrong, just differences of opinion. Sometimes you just have to agree to disagree.
2007-01-29 12:48:40
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answered by Stephanie 2
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The only way he will is if he can admit he is wrong.
Some people will go to the ends of the earth even if they are wrong.
2007-01-29 23:07:48
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answered by zen522 7
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Speak the "truth" to him. Tell him, why it was wrong. If he is reasonable and able to break down his pride, he will agree with you and accept that he was wrong.
2007-01-29 12:49:52
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answered by Rachel 1
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tie him up and whip him until he concedes defeat.
2007-01-29 14:02:52
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answered by Alex 5
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men are very stubborn just let it be.
2007-01-29 12:48:12
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answered by lasondraperry-graham 3
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