My wife and I have been separated for a little over a year. I left our home early last year because I was in a crisis (I had lots of personal/professional setbacks). To add to this, our relationship had hit a low and I wasnt sure if it was going to get any better (our sex life was at its worst). I think my leaving was a somewhat twisted cry for help, as I wanted my wife to want me back. After a few months, we started speaking again and pursued counseling. It is very clear that we both love each other dearly, but the years of unacknowledged neglect seemed somewhat insurmountable. Ultimately, it looked like a textbook example of "Sometimes love is not enough."
The problem I'm having is whether or not to let it all go. I constantly think of my wife and miss her. To make matters worse, I was recently offered an employment opportunity cross country that's a somewhat dream job for me. Now I don't know whether to stay and try working on us, or to leave and let go...
2007-01-29
04:33:01
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Fred M.
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Marriage & Divorce