Should I leave my wife to be with the one I love or stay with the one I'm with....been married 32 years and I've been pineing over this lost love most of my married life, now what should I do?
2007-01-29 04:32:54 · 16 answers · asked by airhead 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wow, you have been married 32yrs and still think about leaving for an old g/f? Are you crazy? First off you should feel horrible about thinking about this you are betraying your wife and after 32yrs thats the last thing she deserves. You have to be at least 50 years old and your thinking about what just leaving for a g/f that you can't possibly know? Besides what kind of woman would take you away from a wife of over 32yrs? think about it.... and DO NOT CHEAT
2007-01-29 05:39:50 · answer #1 · answered by Tamra 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Question, why did you marry your wife if you were still pining over this lost love? That means that those 32 years were a lie?
I suggest you stick your marriage out. Also, your fantasy about how your love with be with the old gf may not live up to reality. Don't be foolish.
2007-01-29 12:46:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think if you leave your current wife you would eventually regret it. Everybody romanticizes over what they have lost or what they cant have. You have been with your wife for 32 years for a reason. Don't you think you would want her back when you affair ends. Which it inevitably will. Then it will be to late. Stay with your wife who has stuck by you for so long. Do you think it is fair to her? I'm 100% positive she has had the same feelings, and where is she? Still by your side!
2007-01-29 12:39:25 · answer #3 · answered by misty j 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm...
This whole thing sounds like a real load of caca. If you really were married 32 years, you should be old enough to realize that Y/A is a bad place to help you figure out what to do. To support the idea you are not who or what you say you are, you have ZERO Y/A history. It occures to me your just another kid.
Maybe you are a kid and your father is doing this to your mother.
If you want to talk, you can email me but you better be able to make me believe your story and you better be honest. Otherwise, quit wasting our time.
I am/have been in a situation like you describe. I would not think I am the only one.
2007-01-29 13:46:14 · answer #4 · answered by Bill G 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it was fair that you married your wife knowing that she did not have 100% of you heart. You made the last 32 yers of her life a lie.
2007-01-29 12:48:44 · answer #5 · answered by DKNY 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding?
Trust me you might think you may be better off leaving your wife for this old love...DON"T....The grass is not always greener on the other side...you have 32 years invested in your marriage, what happened to "for better or for worst" you should work on your marriage and if it cannor be fixed...then move on....just don't play with your wife's emotions....and if you have an affair...be prepared to explain when she finds out...women know...women know....
2007-01-29 12:46:24 · answer #6 · answered by lazykat 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
are you really willing to throw away 32 years a life that you have made with someone just becuase you ran into someone? the grass is not always greener on the other side.
think long and hard before you dump 32 years away like trash.
2007-01-29 12:36:12 · answer #7 · answered by Mimi 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
She seems to have a way of disappearing. She already disappeared once for 32 years. Are you sure you want to give up a stable marriage for a fantasy that comes and goes?
2007-01-29 12:37:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I just feel sorry for your wife, to think she's put up with an AS S like you for 32 yrs!!!
2007-01-29 12:37:17 · answer #9 · answered by wish I were 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should not leave your wife at all... You need to let the old flame go out and move on with your life and stick with your wife and marriage.....
2007-01-29 12:49:49 · answer #10 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋