how do you get rid of a stalking ex?

Question

i was married for one year, my husband decided he needed space and thats what i've given him now he wont stop calling or bothering me

Answer 1

I also had a stalker(an ex) and no matter what I tired..he just wouldn't stop.I got a restraining order(which don't work half the time) and I changed my number(he conned someone in my family and got my new number).I tried to ignore him but that just made him angrier. I can't count how many times I have called the police.He would always be gone when they got there.My mother was afraid that the next call would be to the coroner.Stalkers can be dangerous.

I had to move away.I am finally at peace.

Good luck.

Answer 2

Get a restraining order on him that restricts him from calling or coming within 1000 yards of you. Then if he continues to bother you call the police and he will be arrested for violating the restraining order. To get a restraining order just go to your local courthouse, they are normally free to file, once you get it you have to pay a small about, around $25, to have him served with the papers. They will issue a temporay order until you go in front of a judge and he will decide on the final order.

Answer 3

Guess he figures he has had his space and you should be welcoming him with open arms. After One year only of marriage your husband needed "space"...WoW..........well...... If you've told him to STOP calling and bothering you and he's not listening* ....I would change your phone number...if he starts coming to your place, get a restraining order against him* File for divorce* SOunds like you don't want him in your life and have moved on with yours...He needs to grasp that Reality Check* and check on out*~GOODLUCK*

Answer 4

Restraigning order is all you need! Go to the court house today and fill out the papers to the judge to grant you with the temporary r.o. till the hearing for the permanent one. Make sure someone serves him with the papers as soon as possible. Dont be afraid to protect yourself cause he might get worst.
No need to change numbers or addresses, if he breaks the r.o. he will get in trouble!

Answer 5

I had a hard time with my ex when I left him. He called at least ten times a day and sent at least 15 text messages a day. SO I threatened to change my number if he didn't leave me alone and I didn't answer any of the calls or reply to any of the text messages and he finally gave up and left me alone. Good Luck!

Answer 6

You may have to get a restraining order.
You may have to move.
He needs to seek help.
A woman in your situation just got shot in the head here by her stalking ex right before he killed himself.
I would take it serious and take action to protect myself in any way I needed to. Really.

Answer 7

Be clam and have an open dialogue with this guy.Request him to bypass away you on my own, or ask him what he genuinely needs..do no longer choose for a combat, attempt to clean up it patiently, and peacefully.Plan on assembly him along with your sister and her boyfriend.the two you bypass on my own or you're taking ur sister and her bf with you, or atleast tell them to be close to you and have a watch on the two one in each and every of u,whether you communicate with that guy on my own.that's only a pre-warning and not the rest..do no longer concern, wish each and every thing will finally end up superb.Take care.

Answer 8

The best thing for you to do is go to your local police dept. and let them know what is going on and ask for advice on what to do. Take Care

Answer 9

change the number, email address, restraining order.

Answer 10

Did you tell him to stop? It worked for me.