Okay so, I always let me bff used my check card to order stuff online b/c she doesn't have a check card....she puts the money in my account before she uses the card!! Well now it's becoming a problem b/c not once, twice or three times has she over spent or the place where she's ordering from messes up and charges me 2 or 3 times! But now she's affecting my rent money and when i tell her she has a shopping problem she's like no i don't and i told her not to use my card she does anyway b/c she has my card info...What am i to do?
2007-01-29 04:50:08 · 15 answers · asked by mns0869 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Oh!! I did cancell my card and getting a new one....but how do i get her help is what i wanna know!
2007-01-29 05:03:01 · update #1
I lost a lot of stuff because of a friend like yours.
Cancel the check card, if you mess up your checking account no other bank will let you open a new checking account for 3 years (It happened to me).
Cancel the card and get a new card, do not give your card to anyone because they can use the numbers on the card to shop even without the card.
This girl has serious problems and that is why she does not have a credit or a check card. Check cards are the easiest thing to get and if the banks won't let you have one there is a reason for it. If you continue letting her use your card one day you will end up like her.
2007-01-29 04:59:24 · answer #1 · answered by DECEMBER 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to the bank, change your check card number and don't ever let ANYBODY (besides your husband, when and if you get married) have your check card ever again
I don't care if they're your "best friend forever" - you'd be amazed how quicly friendships can end over money!!!
Tell her to get her own check card - or better yet, go to the store in person, and pay in regular cash money!
2007-01-29 12:55:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cancel that check card and ask the bank for a new one. DO NOT give her the new number.
2007-01-29 12:53:11 · answer #3 · answered by brown_iyed_grrl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a new card with a new number, and next time learn not to trust ANYONE!
Also, tell your friend to grow up and get her own card.
2007-01-29 12:55:13 · answer #4 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
order a new card from the bank and don't give her the new info. make her open her own account!
2007-01-29 12:54:31 · answer #5 · answered by wish I were 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cut all ties with the card and ask the card company to stop the card immediatly and get a new card at the same company or a new company.
2007-01-29 12:55:49 · answer #6 · answered by drunken_monkey1988 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
GO TO YOUR BANK-CALL THEM- WHATEVER HAVE THEM SHUT THAT CARD OFF AND ISSUE A NEW ONE IF SHE HAS ALL OF YOUR INFO CHANGE ACCOUNTS AND EVERYTHING NO MATTER HOW GOOD OF A FRIEND SHE IS THERE IS A REASON SHE DOESN'T HAVE HER OWN BANK CARD. DO IT NOW!! BEFORE YOU REGRET NOT DOING ANYTHING. SERIOUSLY.
2007-01-29 12:58:37 · answer #7 · answered by SWEET SARAH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should call your bank and tell them that you lost your card. they'll cancel your card asap and send you a new one with a new card number. you should do this asap to teach your friend a lesson.
2007-01-29 12:56:29 · answer #8 · answered by Virginia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new card, and problem is solved!! Why can't she open her own account?
2007-01-29 12:54:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
cancel your card thru the bank, and tell her to open up her own checkings acct
2007-01-29 12:54:00 · answer #10 · answered by shannon 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋