Do you think about other men?
2007-01-29 05:29:46 · 33 answers · asked by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
...sexually.... (just THINK)
2007-01-29 05:30:03 · update #1
yes all the time does that make me a bad person? I try really hard not to act on it but sometimes it's almost impossible.
2007-01-29 05:39:46 · answer #1 · answered by Libra1 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Of course. I can certainly prevent any of my thoughts from materializing; however, turning off my imagination and an occasional fantasy is impossible. I doubt I am the only married woman who still notices other men and thinks about them.
2007-01-29 05:36:21 · answer #2 · answered by michelle 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, of course. It's entirely natural and nothing to feel guilty about. However, if you start becoming obsessed with it or especially one person, esp. if the person is someone close to you, i.e. co-worker, then you need to redirect yourself because it could lead to trouble. Fantasizing about faceless men and just sexy "scenarios" is something I do all the time. Sometimes when I'm with my boyfriend I imagine being with someone else briefly. It's only human.
2007-01-29 05:56:46 · answer #3 · answered by dancergalny 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
All women do and if they say they don't they are lying. It is just human nature. When you get to the point oyu want to do more than think you need to ask yourself, "Do I need to leave, do I love my husband?" Answer those questions and it will save you pain later.
2007-01-29 06:03:57 · answer #4 · answered by browneyedgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not really. If anything, I may think of past b/f but in a general manner; like what would it be like had I stayed with them. Or sometimes I may think of what it would be like if I weren't married, what would dating be like after children and after 30. But I don't look at a man and wonder what it would be like to be with him sexually!
2007-01-29 05:36:32 · answer #5 · answered by surelycoolgirl 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋
everyone thinks of the opposite sex, sexually. the not doing it is the important part.
2007-01-29 05:33:42 · answer #6 · answered by Richard Bricker 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol for me its funny... ill try to have some crazy fantasies, and no matter what i do, i cant give them a face, or they end up just turning into my husband! but yes i do, just for fantasy creativness... some people do, some people dont.
2007-01-29 06:06:51 · answer #7 · answered by *never give up* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its normal. YOu can go window shopping you just cant try on the "clothes" and you definetly cannot buy them.
2007-01-29 05:40:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course I do. Life would be boring if you didn't. I could think about guys as long as I don't touch.
2007-01-29 06:01:19 · answer #9 · answered by Chloe 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
not constantly like guys do girls...but yes... women think naughty thoughts of other guys...it's the resistance that keeps us faithful...usually it is only thinking!!!!
2007-01-29 05:36:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋