Is this normal ?

Question

Ok, so I'm 15 and I've never had a boyfriend. I don't even know how you're supposed to go about getting one. Is this normal?

Answer 1

YES sweety!
Don't worry.
Every person has the right timing to do something
I was at the same situation when i was 15 and now(20) i have a perfect relationship about 15 months

Answer 2

It is normal sweetie. There is a strong push from society that tells you you "should" have a boyfriend by this point or that something's wrong with you if you don't or you don't know how to get one. I never had my first real boyfriend until I was almost 17, but once I got started it was easier to meet other guys until I found the right one. There's no real way to go about getting a boyfriend. Just talk to guys and be yourself. Don't worry about trying too hard to "get" a boy, just try being friends with a whole bunch of them and being flirty and having fun. Before you know it the boys will be lining up because you'll see that once you do start dating, they'll all notice you. You are perfectly normal, just enjoy growing up and let nature take it's course. Good luck!! :)

Answer 3

Yes it's normal...My daughter is going to be 15 and has never had a boyfriend....And guess what? She gets all A's and B's...So I wouldn't rush it, you will have plenty of time for that...( the point of the grades are-she has no distractions right now with a boyfriend)

Answer 4

You are fifteen! IT is OK not to know! By the way, the most wonderful thing about being a girl is that we don't have to "go about" finding a boyfriend. We can just sit back and wait for the guys to come to us (and they will). Just be patient and enjoy your childhood.

P.S. You may want to print out your question and save it to reflect on later in life. It will give you a good laugh!! Stay sweet! Focus on you, and make sure any man in your life will too!!!

Answer 5

You're still a baby! You have plenty of time to have a boyfriend. There's no reason to have a steady boyfriend when you're 15. When the time is right, it will happen for you.

Answer 6

your a girl so it really doesn't matter, for guys it's kind of a big deal. The only problem is if you want one and you can't get one. Until then, do what you want and have fun with your friends. If you're happy and you don't have a boyfriend that's probably the best thing.

Answer 7

I didn't even think of boys until I was 15 or 16. I think it's normal. Please don't go out on a mission trying to find one. Just talk to boys that you like or that you are friends with. Soon one will ask you to a movie or something. Don't sweat it, you have plenty of time. Good Luck!

Answer 8

If love grew on trees everyone would have some eh?

Its perfectly normal not to be dating at 15. Until I met my first boyfriend I had no interest in men. It was his personality that made me want to be with him, not some silly social pressure to have one.

When you meet the right boy things will come together on their own. Please dont go out just searching for a boy to call your own. If you do the chances are that he won't be right for you.

Answer 9

very normal. i didn't have a boyfriend until i was almost 18. 3 months before my birth day. it is easy to get one but i perfered not to because school is more important. i do not trust easially. instead of dating i got married at 21. to me i just felt that is the religious and morally correct way to go about life. good luck

Answer 10

Totally normal. It would be abnormal to push yourself to do something that you're not into yet.
It will all fall into place when you're ready. Until then, don't worry about it and focus on having fun with your mates.