How do you prove to a man you have true to him?

Question

I love this man with all my heart, I do not want to throw away five years. He has this paranoid delusion that I have not been true to him, I have told him nothing but the truth. I don't believe in cheating, that's a very hurtful thing to do. But it hurts so much knowing he doesn't trust me and I have done nothing to break this trust. Help! I love this man sooo much. He inflicts emotional pain every time he accuses me. I know I have done nothing, how do I prove this too him? I'm at my wits end.

I don't want to throw away 5 years, he was never like this before. This just started 7 months ago.

Answer 1

Listen to lovestoda, she said it very well.
You do not need to prove to him, he should already respect you and cherish you and your words to him. I wonder what has happened in the last 7 months. Could he be accusing you of something he is doing to rid of his own guilt.. Check him out.. I would.. Good Luck

Answer 2

I told someone else this same thing...RUN! He is immature and controlling....NOTHING you ever do or say can appease someone like him...You should not have to "prove" you are faithful...trust and honesty should be a starting point in EVERY relationship....I've told my husband I will trust him until he gives me "reason" not to...this should be you as well.....you will spend the rest of your life trying to prove you're innocent..is this how you want to live? You may "love" him, but he obviously does not love you in the way you want, need and deserve to be...go find someone you can be truly happy with...it is the ONLY way to go!