Family & Relationships - 29 January 2007

any tips or advice for someone inexperienced? what can she do so that he doesnt feel he's doing all the work

2007-01-29 11:03:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 23 yrs, my wife has not had sex with me for almost 9 months. We used to do it 5-6 times a week. I have never had sex with anyone but her our entire relationship. Last week a girl approached me and we talked. I gave her my # and she called me. She finds me attractive as I do her and she suggested we meet for a rondevue, I don't know the spelling but she meant meet to have sex. I have fantasized about her for these past days and I am needing some sexual healing if you know what I mean. I have tried to get with my wife but to no avail. I am 45 years old and need some loving woman touch. I am not overweight, don't go out to bars or anything like that. It seems my wife just turned off like a switch. Should I see this girl or what are my choices. I am not a bumb, I make a good living that supports my family, I'm just not getting any satisfaction. Is it wrong to search elsewhere?

2007-01-29 11:02:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What do you do when you have a girlfriend, and this girlfriend thinks of you as her boyfriends, and she likes to hang out with guys a lot. And it happens that she tells these guys “do not say I love you to me” because they like her, actually one especially, likes her. And what happens if this one guy that she is friends with, kisses her on her neck and on her face, (she lets him), but she says for him to not kiss her on the lips. I am the boyfriend, and I am having trouble…what should I do????? PLEASE,, anyone help!!!

2007-01-29 11:01:17 · 4 answers · asked by nick p 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 10:59:09 · 14 answers · asked by _turtlelover_7494_iluvcows_7494_ 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 10:59:02 · 6 answers · asked by _turtlelover_7494_iluvcows_7494_ 1 in Singles & Dating

i didn't really grow up with my mom so its kinda weird to go up to someone who you just know (as your mother) and say i have a boyfriend or im having sex you know..so its kinda hard for me to tell her that i have a boyfriend even thoough she said i couldn't but im 17yrs old

2007-01-29 10:59:01 · 26 answers · asked by sexyislandgyal 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

we've been on and off for a year and kept things open but we haven't spoken in a month. When we weren't talking and it was my birthday he sent me an email.Should I acknowledge his and if so how?

2007-01-29 10:58:47 · 12 answers · asked by citygirl 1 in Friends

I am not really interested in dating right now,but i am interested in browising through dating sites and seeing what types of men are out thier and who can really match up to my expectations and common intersts etc.. But i just wnat to know what Online dating sites do work and i wanna know if their are free ones..if so.. please let me know..and does Match .com really work..i hear e harmoney does not work.. well id appreciate the help.

2007-01-29 10:58:27 · 8 answers · asked by Andrea 3 in Singles & Dating

I want to treat my husband to a little romance @ home tonight anyone have any ideas

2007-01-29 10:57:41 · 6 answers · asked by Short and Thick 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This guy asked me if i wanted to go to his b-day, his parents will only let him invite 2-3 ppl and he asked me and his best friend, i havent asked my parents yet, which i will soon. he asked what where the odds of me coming and i said it depended on some things, which i listed. i dont know if he is justing asking me as a friend or as a date. at his party i will meet his parents and sister, also. (yikes) and i think i would be a little out of place, because i dont know anyone but him at his party. is this a date, and should i bring a friend (which he said i could if i wanted to)

2007-01-29 10:57:28 · 2 answers · asked by Candy!!!!!!!!! 4 in Singles & Dating

If your husband told another woman he'd leave you for her before you were married, and he still talks to her via the Internet ... is this wrong? Especially, when he promised you he'd never talk to her again ... he can't seem to keep a promise to stop talking to his old girlfriends, but he thinks there's nothing wrong with it, and he doesn't understand why you're upset.

I'm just curious if you think it's wrong to be hurt, feel betrayed and untrusting. How would you handle this?

2007-01-29 10:56:47 · 22 answers · asked by Lady J 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Well I'm 19 years old and a student at a college that has a student body of 13,000+ and I'm single. I haven't been on a date in more than two years and my ex dumped me about a year and a half ago. I'm really shy. I'm very fit. I workout 4 days a week. Most friends that are girls think I'm good looking. I have a problem approaching girls. My problem is I've never had to approach a girl. My ex asked me out. Lame I know but I was content in high school, or so I thought. Getting dumped was rough but I finally got over it about two months ago. Now I'm single with no real 'skills' for a lack of a better expression. I've only dated three girls and my last was the only serious one. So my Dilemma is that I've never had to 'compete' for a girl or even start a conversation. I've never just walked up to a girl and tried to talk to her. I have very little confidence in myself about this. It's weird cause in high school I was in all kinds of sports. Female input would be great!

2007-01-29 10:56:25 · 12 answers · asked by steelhead3686 3 in Singles & Dating

im going out with this kid, danny, adn this other kid i like, eddy, asked me out.what on earth should i do?

2007-01-29 10:56:16 · 15 answers · asked by Allie m 2 in Singles & Dating

Mother: Struggled all her life, got GED and 70 hours of college. Had emotional issues, gained weight that was unable to lose, but did the best she could all the way around.

Daughter: Went to school, straight As, excelled in everything, graduated from high school as valedictorian, graduated university with honors, and graduated from medical school, now in residency. Dated the richest boy in town during high school years, (whose uncle happened to be a congressman representing their area), and married the son of a prominent cardiologist.

Looks down on mother and entire family, acts all the time like she's ashamed of her background, mother is hurt, they have had many fall outs because of daughter's attitude of superiority. Mother ready to disown daughter, because she's "too elitist". Mother's voice gets on her nerves. Always correcting, always expessing disagreement usually at mom's expense. Mom can't take it anymore.

Who is right? Who is wrong?

2007-01-29 10:55:42 · 14 answers · asked by llexpat 2 in Family

Ok there is this girl i like, but she has a boyfriend. I think she might like me cuz it kinda seems like it. When she is around her boyfriend it doesnt really seem like she likes him like that, but i am not positive. What should i do?

2007-01-29 10:55:30 · 5 answers · asked by Full of Questions 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 10:55:17 · 12 answers · asked by Secret W 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my friend both liked this guy at the beginning of this year.
But i told my friend that i didnt like him when our school dance came around. But it turns out he doesnt like my friend at all.
My friend knows but she still likes him ..... and 4 other guys.
The guy likes me and i still like him. I really dont want 2 hurt my friend. And valentines Day is right around the corner. What do i do

2007-01-29 10:54:49 · 1 answers · asked by brunette babe 2 in Singles & Dating

Im 25 and just graduated with my masters...im pretty and obviously well educated...im having trouble finding a job...there are too many professors already in this town...this weekend i went to a strip club with a shy male friend...i actually had a blast...see i used to be very religious and modest...i got married young...he left me...im in a good relationship now...or at least better than before...i got up on stage and danced (with clothes on of course after paying a dancer)...i personally love to dance and have been considering going to their amateur night that is tomorrow...have i lost my mind? Please either try to talk me out of this or be supportive...and please dont be smart im not an airhead...im thinking about money and dancing and just trying to sort this out and figure out why im suddenly fascinated with that world...

2007-01-29 10:54:22 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend, who lives on the East Coast met a guy in Vegas last March. Things moved pretty fast and within 6 months they were engaged, then eloped a few months after.She still lives on the east coast because of work, but she has made every effort to see him every chance she got. He flew out once to meet her family.This man has a son and has been married twice and engaged a few months to someone else before he met my best friend. Now mind you, I had just went through a serious break up w/ my ex, he cheated on me, and she advised me if anyhting ever happened like that, she would be done with him. Well, she found out two weeks ago that her "husband" has been cheating on her w/ another girl, and even told this girl that he loved her and that my best friend is an ex wife that lives in NY and is dieng of cancer!! She flipped out of course, but now he is telling her how sorry he is and doesn't know why he did it. Now, she is beginning to seem like she will give him another chance!

2007-01-29 10:53:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok well there is this boy and i kind of like him. btu my best friends totally hates him. we all used to be like heck of tight. well anyways, i got really mad at him because i heard that all he wanted me for.. was to you know "do stuff". well then i confronted him about it adn he got all mad at me saying itwasnt true and how could i believe such a lie. altohugh i did hear it from like 20 ppl. yeah and today he was all like im sorry and i should of understood why you asked me all of those things. during that period of time. he got a girlfriend. they have been going out for a year now... she goes to adiiferent school. and he says he wants me back but doesnt wanna break up with his gf.. and im like umm no. and now we are just kind of like ignoring eactother. and i dont know what to do about him because i rly like him but we r fighting and my best friends hates him. help!

2007-01-29 10:53:45 · 5 answers · asked by Marissa 2 in Singles & Dating

we're 13..so something i can afford hahaha.

2007-01-29 10:53:07 · 22 answers · asked by Brianna T 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 10:53:01 · 25 answers · asked by Secret W 1 in Singles & Dating

Hello;) I've been living in England for about 3 years now, and i noticed that many couples live together, for many years and don't get married...!!! why?? what's the problem with marriege? if you share a life together is almost the same thing.. why not sign a damn paper?

2007-01-29 10:52:24 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I work with this guy and he's really nice, but he likes me a lot. I think he's great as a friend, so I don't want to hurt him but I really need him to stop liking me!! Is there anything I can do to let him down gently?

2007-01-29 10:49:47 · 19 answers · asked by she_smiles123 1 in Singles & Dating

I just located his mother and she confirmed that in fact, I was his father. I am very excited about meeting him. Please only respond positive suggestions. No need for anything negative towards me or the mother. Thanks!

2007-01-29 10:49:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anxious father 1 in Family

What do you do when you have a girlfriend, and this girlfriend thinks of you as her boyfriends, and she likes to hang out with guys a lot. And it happens that she tells these guys “do not say I love you to me” because they like her, actually one especially, likes her. And what happens if this one guy that she is friends with, kisses her on her neck and on her face, (she lets him), but she says for him to not kiss her on the lips. I am the boyfriend, and I am having trouble…what should I do????? PLEASE,, anyone help!!!

2007-01-29 10:49:19 · 4 answers · asked by nick p 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 10:48:14 · 3 answers · asked by Conor M 1 in Family

Recently had my wife leave. We had been together for 6 years and she decided she wasn't in love with me anymore. We have spokend really for a two months. I thought everything was fine. Has anyone known a wife to leave then decide she made mistake after 5 or 6 months and return and appologize? From my point of view...I would call this a done deal.

2007-01-29 10:46:10 · 6 answers · asked by fedup 1 in Marriage & Divorce

OK .
I met this guy buy accedentaly texting him . And for the past 4 months we have been texting each other we go to the same school and same grade . WE are going to meet each other at this club this weekend . How should i tell him its me . text go up to him and say hi or something else

2007-01-29 10:45:43 · 33 answers · asked by vollleystar13 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 15 and I really need to know

2007-01-29 10:45:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating