Family & Relationships - 29 January 2007

if u husband has sexual intercourse with u against your wish, would be it considered a rape?

2007-01-29 11:29:02 · 13 answers · asked by beach girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if you do something like say "i've never heard of that b4" and the guy u like goes "*laugh* sry" kinda like "u should hav known that" kinda laugh does he hate u or is it kinda of flirty?

2007-01-29 11:28:35 · 17 answers · asked by Haley :] 2 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy that I've known for about three years and I don't have any classes with him now but I used to. When ever he sees me he kind of stares and takes a second look as he walks by me. Does this mean he likes me?

And three years ago in my class we were doing secret santa and at first I didn't know who he got but he was kind of looking at me. I overheard him asking his friend what he should get her and he was kind of blushing and smiling. I later found out that he picked my name. So, does this mean he probably likes me? I hope that story makes sense.

2007-01-29 11:28:25 · 16 answers · asked by Death.Note.fan 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 11:28:12 · 12 answers · asked by steph k 2 in Singles & Dating

I haven't had a boyfriend in a really long time. I'm only 13 and I need a boyfriend. I don't want to ask anybody out myself, but I really want a boyfriend. And I don'y want to wait until the next person comes around. How should I get the guys' attention.....HELP!!!

2007-01-29 11:28:02 · 12 answers · asked by Bluie, The Big Plastic Whale? 4 in Singles & Dating

My bf is always complaining that when i spend the day with him he is always trying to get me into bed and i quite often am not in the mood until about 15 mins before i have to leave. he says it really frustrates him, but i cant help it. I cant actually force myself to be in the mood because i dont enjoy it then, any ideas?

2007-01-29 11:27:48 · 19 answers · asked by Unhinged.... 5 in Singles & Dating

Or would you rather him do the little things to show you his love by helping around the house like cooking, cleaning, doing the dishes?

2007-01-29 11:26:05 · 32 answers · asked by Bryan M 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, well,
Why do guys [allways] date preppy blonde and kinda ditsy girls.
You know the ones who would [give it up] to any guy on the street?
I just want to know why and how guys can think a person like that is attractive

Because trust me, i could never be like that! :]

[thankies]

2007-01-29 11:25:28 · 16 answers · asked by [undercover dinosaur] 1 in Singles & Dating

Hey u guys and ladi's can you PLEASE tell me what duz homerun mean in Guy language??????

2007-01-29 11:24:52 · 14 answers · asked by Dolores E 1 in Singles & Dating

There are just a few girls in the group that can be really catty with the others and I really don't have any tolerance for it, but what I have been doing so far hasn't been working.

2007-01-29 11:24:51 · 6 answers · asked by K E Nodding 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-29 11:24:32 · 21 answers · asked by just hanging around 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok well I've known this guy since the beggining of the school year but we've never really talked, and then we were both at this party and we started talking alot there. Hes so nice and we have so much in common. I think there was a connection because I could always catch him looking at me and whenever the group went outside he would always come stand next to me.

I really like him and I want to go out with him but I can't ask him out because I am too nervous. He's never had a gf and I've had one bf for like 5 days.

He is in one of my classes but how can I talk to him...guys what do you like to talk about with girls?

And do you think its weird if a girl just comes up and starts talking to you. I'm just so nervous because I like him alot.

Guys what do you do when girls do that and would it be weird to just come up to you and like start a little conversation?

Please help me :)

2007-01-29 11:23:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My daughter has a friend that is being abused. The girls brother talked her into haveing sex with him when she was eleven,he was 17. After he did that he killed his self. The girls dad gets drunk and hits her in the arm and has slaped her before. The girl is 14 now. The grandma gets mad and cusses her and pulls her hair. The girl is haveing sex and trying to sell drugs. I got this info from my daughter, My daughter is the opposite of this girl, she thinks that she herself is going to save her. What can i do for this girl that wont break my daughters trust in me and that wont make her friend hate her for telling someone. Im not trying to be my daughters friend i just want her to keep confideing in me. My first instinct his to tell my daughter to stay away from her and call defacs on the girls family. But i cant do that because i will push her away and make her hang around with this girl even more.

2007-01-29 11:21:29 · 9 answers · asked by saphire732003 2 in Friends

I have always been adamant about having a Saturday night Wedding, but the place I fell inlove with is $50.00 cheaper per head to have it on Friday. What do you think, do you find it inconvenient. Any feedback would be great. Thanks

2007-01-29 11:20:38 · 25 answers · asked by TrueLibra 2 in Weddings

i used to live in germany with my mother, but then i had to get surgery on my back, so my grandmother took me and my sister to new york, to get surgery for whatever reason.She promised that we would come back after the surgery.(6 years ago).and i havent seen my mother ever since.i was and still am very close with her.the problem is that my grandmother sort of mentally abuses me and my sister.shes always talking badly about my mother, and she yells at us allthe time.shes also sometims hits my sister and i.like she hit us with a belt once, and there was marks all over us.shes always hitting my sister, and she called my sister a b****.i just want to know if i should move back to germany, (thats the only way ill be able to see my mother), or finish school here?the schools in germany are not so good, and ive nearly forgotten all the german i used to know.this means that i will be dropping out of highschool.but i cant take it anymore.i feel depressed.should i finish highschool first?or go?

2007-01-29 11:20:35 · 6 answers · asked by Sabby 2 in Family

okay me and this guy been talking for 3months now and i have to say i fell in love, when i asked "can we take our friendship to the next leve?"l, he said he is not ready for one right now. I want him soo bad he is special than any other guy i met before, so how can i make him mine and ready for a relationship?

2007-01-29 11:20:13 · 5 answers · asked by dangerouslysweet_15 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't understand "shacking up". Its a ridiculous term. Are there some people who actually think having a paper saying "WE ARE MARRIED!!!" is a bullet proof vest? I think you have just as much oportunity to be hurt in a relationship (married or not) just as you have as much oppurtunity to be happy...married or not. What is your opinion?

2007-01-29 11:19:19 · 10 answers · asked by ? 6 in Marriage & Divorce

im from the states i married someone who lives over seas so im living there till my husband comes to the states,my question is why is there so much drama on he said she said along with oh he/she said this that then lets confront him or her.i am having mad problems with my husband based on his mental psycho mom aside the point she lies to him about things i never do she picks on me according to her is trying to put me in my place.. do i have a place im from america shes from a 3rd world country should she be putting me in place but im not shallow i think every human is equal.she tries to rat on me as much as possible enough to get him so mad he stops speaking to me and tells me im no good. we have a son she told him dont have more kids meanwhile shes telling her daughters to have mad kids. the point is now i got my uncles wife who loves to gossip went at my inlaw house came back with news that my mother inlaw was gossping bout me but im sure she joined her

2007-01-29 11:18:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my friend over 250 pounds and really flubberly. will any hot girls go out with him? when i mean hot she has a big rack and big butt. he is kinda nice but only times. she has to be white and blond my friend said. no asians, no black people, no irish, you must be all american white and blond. you must have no sense of anything. you must just be illiterate and blond. people that ask what is illiiterate people say you are perfect for da job.{remember this is not me, this is buddy luke swedberg saying all this not me}

2007-01-29 11:18:03 · 15 answers · asked by Igobeg O 3 in Singles & Dating

I've been friends with the same people since high school, and have known some of them for over a decade. The problem? As the years went by, we all grew apart and now have nothing in common. It's excruciating for me to spend time with them because they always force me to do the things they're interested in while at the same time shooting down and even making fun of my own suggestions.
When we get together, nobody ever talks about anything interesting; they always get drunk and retell the same boring stories from when we were teenagers. I'm getting sick of going down "memory lane" everytime I'm with them.
I'm starting to make new friends with similar interests and maturity levels, and have no fear of leaving the old ones behind.
I've realized they aren't the greatest friends, but sometimes I still see them around town and have to make up excuses for why I never call or spend time with them anymore. How can I politely yet honestly break off ties with them?

2007-01-29 11:17:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-29 11:17:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do you make a guy like you

2007-01-29 11:17:03 · 4 answers · asked by Rdoggg 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 11:16:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a girlfriend and she is amazing but lately she has been confusing me. One day she will be very affectionet and the next day it will seem like she doesnt want to talk to me. this has happened more then once.I dont no what to do or what to think.

2007-01-29 11:15:51 · 11 answers · asked by Adjfkakdjalj 2 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy that thinks he's tough, and he is really strong, but he choked my friend once cuz he was mad at him, but nobody likes him, they call him things like "gay", "her", and they say that he is the stupidest guy in 7th grade, when he is one of the smartest, and he has no real friends to depend on for backup except for me and my bff. We are his only friends, the people in our class are soo mean to him sometimes. I feel really sorry for him but he has given up on girls and I'm afraid to ask him cuz I'm pretty sure he will say no, I need help, any extra comments are welcome.

2007-01-29 11:15:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 11:15:17 · 14 answers · asked by DaddyDevin 1 in Singles & Dating

I took away her cellphone and all h*ll broke loose? She pulled a knife out on me. What should I have done?

2007-01-29 11:15:00 · 2 answers · asked by Star Q 1 in Friends

This guy 34, I have been dealing with for going on 4 years still no commitment but says he isnt having sex with anybody else. We have gone thru definate ups and downs but still we see each other, mainly on weekends to spend "quality time" or however.Since he wouldnt commit I started getting tired of our "relationship not going anywhere" even after I expressed my feelings to him. Just when Im conditioning myself to leave 34 alone...here I meet 35; spiritual, attentive and all that I wanted out of 34. I guess 34 starts to feel me distancing myself and I guess caught wind of my venturing, he then expresses his feeling toward me, I give in but later find out he did know something about 35; so now I question how genuine his actions which I was enjoying really where. I need to figure this one out I now am hurting 35 and 34 still kinda... well Im not sure... seems selfish. Please help with my dilema, I am a 28 year old single mother of a 4 year old boy.

2007-01-29 11:14:20 · 8 answers · asked by Humn'bird420 3 in Friends

2007-01-29 11:13:57 · 11 answers · asked by sexysnicks 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 11:13:07 · 8 answers · asked by nickydig9 2 in Singles & Dating