Family & Relationships - 29 January 2007

2007-01-29 11:42:52 · 11 answers · asked by Kevin Yang 1 in Family

So basically I am in a situation where I was sexually assaulted by my boyfriend (I am in Junior High he was a freshman) and I was out of school for 4 months because my "friends" were there and betrayed me. I was cutting and hurting myself.
I used to be the center of attention.
Now I am back in school, I have some really great friends but I have to go to court with this kid.
i am really scared.
he apologized to me and I really liked him.
I am tired of this all. But I am underage and so I don't know what to do.
I don't want to be enemies with anyone and now I feel like its not a good idea to follow through with charging him!
I often get upset because he ruined my reputation and I was @ one point with no friends except for my true ones.
I really just don't know how to regain my population, get on with life, (should I try to be friends with the guy? i am not allowed to talk to him BUT I REALLY WANT TO!!!!) and where should i go from here?!
i was a straight a student.grades bad now

2007-01-29 11:42:10 · 10 answers · asked by Vannah-Loo! 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was asking a serious question, and someone that answered was very rude. It made me sick to my stomach. I really truely care about my kids and love them more than any thing in the world. Yeas I have asked some weird questions in the past, but what mother hasn't had a 16 year old daughter drive her crazy! And it's not fault my brother thinks he is in love with my step daughter.Give me a break will you!

2007-01-29 11:42:06 · 4 answers · asked by deedee6335@sbcglobal.net 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

your ex-hubby or your boyfriend???
Question Details: if you were given a chance to choose...which one do you think is the best for you and for your child??? your ex-hubby who's irresponsible and he will only remeber you if he needs something?..or your boyfriend who's very supportive to you and to your son and he accepts for who and what you are???

2007-01-29 11:41:34 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

BOO-HOO! this is a tough question i can never figure out.What do you think. 10 points for the best advice!

2007-01-29 11:41:17 · 4 answers · asked by Ms.J 2 in Singles & Dating

... or stay here on my own, but I know a few other friends will be up here and it would allow a break from my disabled housemate if I stayed here... don't get me wrong I love her to bits I'm just tiered and going home might be stressful. I just don't know what to do

2007-01-29 11:40:53 · 4 answers · asked by K F 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ever since my best friend started going out with this guy, she has not been answering my calls and ignoring me. A few Saturdays ago she invited me to go skating only to not be there at the last minute.
Her boyfriend abuses his sister and blames everyone around him for not having a job. My friend spends all of her money on him and constantly cancels plans she had with me.
I've been trying to ignore her and it's not gotten any better. Will this last forever or should I still have some hope? I've known her for 15 years. Thank you.

2007-01-29 11:39:42 · 6 answers · asked by MCRloveralltheWay 4 in Friends

2007-01-29 11:39:27 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We juist made up, and I still really feel for her, and I want to tell her, but factors keep me from doing it:
1. I'm downright scared
2. She knows a lot of better looking guys, and I'm a scrawy thing. Why should she like me?
3. I'm not sure of her feelings
4. She turned me down before. I asked her to my homecoming and she said "i'm sorry"
5. I have a little speech written to say to her, but someone else wrote it. I'm afraid if it does work, she'll be loving him, not me, becuase he worte the words. I really feel this way, but I can't put it into words, so is it alright to go with a subsititute?
6. It might be to forward. As I said, we just made up after a fight, and she's more cautious than other girls
I really love her, and I want to be with her, friend or boyfriend. How do I solve my problems, and have her share my feelings?

2007-01-29 11:38:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok here it goes...i have lot's of pro so many i can't even count them

me and my mom fight a lot what can do make it stop

no one likes me at school

ppl say i am ugly and my friends tell i am pretty are just trying to be nice or what

2007-01-29 11:38:25 · 3 answers · asked by hot_noe_1235 2 in Singles & Dating

if you were given a chance to choose...which one do you think is the best for you and for your child??? your ex-hubby who's irresponsible and he will only remeber you if he needs something?..or your boyfriend who's very supportive to you and to your son and he accepts for who and what you are???

2007-01-29 11:38:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my exwife have been divorced we now thinking about living together as roommates ,but allowing each other to have their own life . we both have other people we are seeing who seem very upset that we are thinking of doing this .we have a son together who loves us both. we are good friends . any advice

2007-01-29 11:37:31 · 18 answers · asked by confused 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend is on my crew team and she was going to help out at our auction fundraiser. she didn't come because she was angry at her father for something he said (he was at the auction also) he came to me and asked me to call her to persuade her to come because he didn't think that she should miss out just because he made her angry.

so i called and said she didn't want to come because people didn't want her there and if they had, they would've called. now she's threatening to quit crew and now hates everyone there.

I think thats absolutely ridiculous and it seems she is just manipulating others to make herself feel good and she thinks she should be compensated to help out.

But the real question is, should people have called to ask her to come? When she's in a bad mood she is NOT fun to be around at all and that would've made the hectic evening even more stressful.

So I just want to know your opinions.

2007-01-29 11:36:40 · 15 answers · asked by Maureen 2 in Friends

2007-01-29 11:36:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Long story but I will sum it up I have two girls (11,8) with this guy. We have not been together for six years, but he sees them when convenient for him. He introduces my girls to whatever girl he is dating at the time. I have said something to him previously and just this weekend had to say something again. He brings these females into their lives then they leave and the girls are left wondering what happened because they do not see them anymore. I asked him how many women does he plan on bringing around my girls and he says I am jealous ( I am not) and I am lonely and making an a$$ of myself. But I really do not care what he says. He normally calls the girls once a week except when he starts dating the women then he calls more often and wants to see them more often, after a month he goes back to calling them once a month. So my question is is it wrong for me to tell him that he is wrong for doing this to them?

2007-01-29 11:35:32 · 9 answers · asked by cdewitt061108@sbcglobal.net 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-29 11:35:20 · 13 answers · asked by lstbob51 2 in Singles & Dating

If one of your children is in private school and you don't send your other children to private school is it fare to them?

2007-01-29 11:35:17 · 7 answers · asked by raleigh1341 1 in Family

Im 12 I REALY REALY REALY like this girl but if i tell her she will laugh & she's H-O-T HOT

PLEZ ANSWER

2007-01-29 11:35:06 · 14 answers · asked by Da Cool Dude 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, so what if the boy i've liked 4 almost two years alwayz lookz at me (theres never really a time where we dont look at eachother) we dont hav classes 2 gether, but we do see eachother in the hall wayz at skool... and sometimes he does like double takes or w/ev like he'll look, and then look at his friend and then look at me agian! lol does he like me?

2007-01-29 11:34:48 · 2 answers · asked by Haley :] 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, my bf wants to go all the way with me and i want to but latley he's been getting really wierd. Like he's been getting all possesive and he wont let me talk to any other guy than him. I know he still wants to...you know bcuz he brought it up jus recently but with the way he is acting i dunno what to do so hellp plz! Do i screw him or not?

2007-01-29 11:34:00 · 18 answers · asked by ndndramaqueencutie 2 in Singles & Dating

teir is a guy at scool da keeps asking me out how do i make him stop.......pluz his not the only one their is a hole bunch of other ones,.......

2007-01-29 11:33:58 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-01-29 11:33:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 11:33:33 · 1 answers · asked by Jerry 6 in Friends

This is for job applications. My son wants to apply for a job at the place where this guy works and they ask if he is related to anyone that works there.

2007-01-29 11:33:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

is there anyone that has a girlfriend can give me any tips on how to tell this one girl at my school that i love her

2007-01-29 11:33:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

O.K. There's a boy I liked at the beginning of school, but I started telling all my friends that I don't anymore, when secretly I do. Now he is starting to notice me more and look at me. He sooooo cute!
I don't know if he likes me or if he just doing this for no reason.Please, someone help!

2007-01-29 11:33:04 · 14 answers · asked by Sha-Sha 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so this guy at work has been always helping me and talking with me everyday. Now, I think he goes out of his way to avoid me. Is he scared that he may let on that he likes me or something? Do guys do this at all? What's the deal?

2007-01-29 11:32:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Damm, Damm, i love some girl on this site....

2007-01-29 11:32:03 · 10 answers · asked by qwerty 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Hello Ladies!

Let say if you've been dating a guy who's perfect in every way from personality, characteristic, and social status. Both of you really love each other and emotionally are connected to each other. He's handsome & good looking & all that. However, he is a VERY BIG GUY, he stands 8 feet 11 1/10 inches (same height as Robert Wadlow) and he's muscularly built (Dave Bastista, WWE wrestler). Of course, "all body parts" (12" or more) have to grow in proportion.

Would you ladies be intimidated by his "SIZE" when it's going to be your first time with him?

And pain "you know what" might occur.

2007-01-29 11:30:50 · 15 answers · asked by Infinite 4 in Singles & Dating

which is an old friend and has trubble with her boyfriend,saying : I love you you hot godess" should I be concerned?He also once told me that he likes her ,she`s cool to hang around with,but she has a boyfriend and she loves him,but he never tells her,that he loves her

2007-01-29 11:29:14 · 4 answers · asked by kiki 1 in Singles & Dating