We juist made up, and I still really feel for her, and I want to tell her, but factors keep me from doing it:
1. I'm downright scared
2. She knows a lot of better looking guys, and I'm a scrawy thing. Why should she like me?
3. I'm not sure of her feelings
4. She turned me down before. I asked her to my homecoming and she said "i'm sorry"
5. I have a little speech written to say to her, but someone else wrote it. I'm afraid if it does work, she'll be loving him, not me, becuase he worte the words. I really feel this way, but I can't put it into words, so is it alright to go with a subsititute?
6. It might be to forward. As I said, we just made up after a fight, and she's more cautious than other girls
I really love her, and I want to be with her, friend or boyfriend. How do I solve my problems, and have her share my feelings?
2007-01-29 11:38:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think youre worrying too much about this. just relax. youll know when you want to tell her. and if she feels the same way, great. if not, then its time for you to move on. Tell her at a time when its just the two of you and youre comfortable; not at a movie. and dont blurt it out. i dont suggest saying the other guys speech. just tell her in your own words. maybe something like "im glad that we made up...i care for you so much. and i dont know how to show you how much i care." like that...just dont stress.
2007-01-29 11:46:39 · answer #1 · answered by honeybear238 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A true girl is wouldn't care about how you looked. But they do care a little bit, but once girls find out about personality they would love you. So make sure you know that Looks aren't everything in the world. You should one day talk to each other privately, saying like, "Look, I have to talk to you privately, and I hope these words will never be forgotten" or somewhere around those lines. Also be like, "I know we just broke up.. but I still have feelings for you, I never really got to see your point of view but here's my point of view..." blah blah. Oh and a girl doesn't really like note passing, Be brave as you can possibly be. Girls love guys who will say the true feelings right infront of their face, make sure when you say the words, to actually be said like you meant it! Just be yourself, don't try to act like someone else your not, because if you do, Girls will totally be mad and who knows what would happen next. Try sending her a love poem on a note. But that's the only thing I would do on a NOTE. Tell her, You don't have to be my boyfriend, but I really want to be friends with you.. if you aren't ready I can wait.. Remember what I said, and you will be a best friend/best boyfriend. :)
2007-01-29 11:51:51 · answer #2 · answered by Dreamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Paint your fingers and toenails, dye your hair, put on some make up, yata yaty yata...I think you get my drift, right? Anyway, what I'm trying to say is that I don't think you are ready for girls and relationships yet...and apparently this girl is not in your league or doesn't like you the way you like her. Either wait till you find the right girl for you or just until you have the skills to get the girl you want. Don't mess it up for all guys by being a sappy wienie.
2007-01-29 11:48:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being so shy. If you know shes not going to like you dont waist your time. But sometimes its not only about looks. Maybe you should try talking to her a little bit more and get t know eachother if you feel its right to say what ever you need to say then do it.
2007-01-29 11:45:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coming from a girl, it's always best to go with the truth...telling her you feel strongly for her and want your friendship to last, even if it is only a friendship for a while. Be sincere, tell her what's in your heart...if she doesn't feel the same, give her some space. You want her to trust you, and you've got to build that trust back up.
2007-01-29 11:48:22 · answer #5 · answered by NG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st u need a boost of confidence, cuz jus cuz u donlook good in her oppinion(im pretty sure its urs but) dusin meen she dusn like u. Be nice if ur nice, if ur a bad boi and she enjois dat stay dat way, if ur a funni dude stai dat way, GET DA DRIFT?
B URSELF K!!!
2007-01-29 11:47:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im a guy wait a LITTLE longer
2007-01-29 11:46:26 · answer #7 · answered by Da Cool Dude 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you'll never know if you don't make a move and if you don't make a move then u might regret it becuz she might find some1 else
2007-01-29 11:45:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋