Okay, my bf wants to go all the way with me and i want to but latley he's been getting really wierd. Like he's been getting all possesive and he wont let me talk to any other guy than him. I know he still wants to...you know bcuz he brought it up jus recently but with the way he is acting i dunno what to do so hellp plz! Do i screw him or not?
2007-01-29 11:34:00 · 18 answers · asked by ndndramaqueencutie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you wanted to before. but not if you didn't. saying no will only make him madder, but saying yes when you aren't ok with it will mess w/ your mind
2007-01-29 11:38:10 · answer #1 · answered by Spearfish 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first be sure if u do ur doiung it for ur reasons and not his. also if hes acting possesive dont let him take advantage of u. trust me it will only get worse and maybe if hes acting so weird maybe u should wait it out on having sex and see where ur relationship is going. u also need to think about how much sex can change a relationship and if u are ready for all that. Good luck and if u do decide to have sex be safe..
2007-01-29 11:40:46 · answer #2 · answered by Megan 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you're right, this guy is sounding a little creepy. the fact that you're having doubts is a good thing, it means you may not be ready, which is perfectly okay. it sounds to me like your boyfriend is very insecure about your relationship and wants to sleep with you maybe so he can feel justified in this relationship. does that make sense? if it were me, i'd put it off and have a chat with this guy. just because you both want to do it doesn't mean it's right
2007-01-29 11:40:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No way! If he's being possesive now it will be even worse after you do it. However if it's what you want and wish to be with him forever then you have to make the choice.
2007-01-29 11:39:32 · answer #4 · answered by weldingmaniak 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think basically the decision is up to you, really, but you should really do it if you're comfortable with the situation. He's acting strange, and that's something that is specially altering your senses.
Think deeply and ask yourself if it's the right time to do so, and if the situation you're both in right now really deserves for you to give yourself to him completely.
2007-01-29 11:40:09 · answer #5 · answered by cucajoe 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't- if you feel doubtful about it then don't do it. Only because he has no right to treat you that way and he should learn to trust you before you guys go all the way. Trust is key. Good luck XD
2007-01-29 11:37:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
my suggestion.. dont do it. It sounds like you could be heading for a split in the near future and thats not something you want to give to him if thats the way its gunna go. Wait. If he doesn't like it then you know hes very controlling and really doesnt care about you're feelings.
remember whats best for yourself and your feelings.
2007-01-29 11:39:05 · answer #7 · answered by sourcherry119 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
find out whats going on...with suddenly becoming possesive....it might be showing you how he will be after you "screw him" talk first and then make your decision off that...make sure its for the right reasons cause sex always changes relationships always sometimes good sometimes bad
2007-01-29 11:38:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he is getting possesive of you then dump him. no guy has a right to be that controling of a girl and if he is getting jealous then he really is a waste of time.
plus he probably only likes you for your body
2007-01-29 11:38:34 · answer #9 · answered by Chris's Baby Girl '07 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thats entirely up to you. No nes opinion can you help. Just be strong anddo what you think is best.
2007-01-29 11:38:10 · answer #10 · answered by caring black guy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋