There's this guy that thinks he's tough, and he is really strong, but he choked my friend once cuz he was mad at him, but nobody likes him, they call him things like "gay", "her", and they say that he is the stupidest guy in 7th grade, when he is one of the smartest, and he has no real friends to depend on for backup except for me and my bff. We are his only friends, the people in our class are soo mean to him sometimes. I feel really sorry for him but he has given up on girls and I'm afraid to ask him cuz I'm pretty sure he will say no, I need help, any extra comments are welcome.
2007-01-29 11:15:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's really nice and funny to me and my bff only
2007-01-29 11:27:11 · update #1
I would never date anyone who choked someone else. That person has violent tendencies. Watch out!
2007-01-29 11:17:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to him, u never know whree life leads you, it might be a good reselotion or maybe bad, but i am sure if you ask he'll problely say yes or maybe no and if he does say no, then say i was just kidding anyway and feel sad when you walk away, cuz it be kinda embrassing for someone to say no to ya! You never know, another guy might pass by some day! :D
But i suggest you stay away from him too, cuz if you get him mad someday he might even choke u too!
2007-01-29 19:21:41 · answer #2 · answered by lol! It's moi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you're kinda young to be going out with him but, you can still be his friend. Who cares what people say? The people calling him gay right now will probably be working for him when you guys are grown. Just continue to be his friend and don't worry about what others say. Hang out with him and sort of approach the subject of the two of you going out casually. Don't corner him or anything. Just let him know you're there for him and you don't care what others say.
This guy probably isn't tough. Sounds like he's getting tired of being picked on and that's natural. If he flies off the handle for no reason, then you need to reconsider being his friend.
2007-01-29 19:20:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful. You say he choked your friend once, & that is a very dangerous signal. It would be better to take it slow & be a friend to him. Show him there are people who care about him & that he is worthwhile.
2007-01-29 19:20:43 · answer #4 · answered by akov 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to your parents to see what the smart thing would be to do. Sometimes their judgement is what you need.
My answer, of course, for you would be to stay the hell away from someone who chokes ppl. This is abuse.
2007-01-29 19:18:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He choked your friend because he was mad and you're considering going out with him? Ponder what you're saying.
2007-01-29 19:19:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is to stay away from him and leave him to sort himself out first. When he and you get older you would see if he has changed or has gotton worse.
2007-01-29 19:19:13 · answer #7 · answered by Jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jessica, if you want to go out with this guy, then go out with him. Remember, it's HIM you're going out with, not the jerks that seem to just be looking for someone to pick on at the time.
2007-01-29 19:19:11 · answer #8 · answered by Jade 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell him that you believe in him and always have, and that you know how great he is, and that you like him and would like to go on a date with him.
2007-01-29 19:18:07 · answer #9 · answered by Mimi149 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask him out. The worst he could say is no, that isnt too bad. good luck
2007-01-29 19:19:22 · answer #10 · answered by thelocalgirl22 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋