My bf is always complaining that when i spend the day with him he is always trying to get me into bed and i quite often am not in the mood until about 15 mins before i have to leave. he says it really frustrates him, but i cant help it. I cant actually force myself to be in the mood because i dont enjoy it then, any ideas?
2007-01-29 11:27:48 · 19 answers · asked by Unhinged.... 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
put your clock forward an hour and youll tink its time to leave then all of a sudden when oyur frisky youl realise you have a whole other hour.
2007-01-29 11:30:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm amazed he's still with you. Getting in the mood, when it's too late to act on it, looks like a safety get-out. And would frustrate the hell out of any man. I'd go as far as saying you're frigid, and you either have to work through that, or find someone else who also doesn't really like sex, either.
2007-01-29 11:34:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Probably because he's trying to pressure you into doing it, if he showed no interest you'd be more interested. WHO really wants it on tap? As a guy I'd always say I did to that but if you don't need to do anything to get it you don't want it. If you thought you had to get his interest before you had a chance of getting it then you'd be more interested, but because your feeling it's almost expected of you then your not likely to be interested until you can't really have it any more.
2007-01-29 11:45:02 · answer #3 · answered by Bealzebub 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel. He will never get to know this until you have a SERIOUS talk with him. Trust me, if he cares for you, he will understand and try not to force you to do thing you dont want. And you, my dear, shouldnt force yourself for him. If you feel he is overstepping his boundaries, let him know and refuse to do whatever it is that you dont want to. Your a good person and sex isn't good if both partners arent enjoying it. Be safe. Be smart. God Bless...
2007-01-29 11:33:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u said u don enjoy it, but den u get in the mood until 15 min b4 u leave? so if he can do it in 15 min...its okay...
2007-01-29 11:31:53 · answer #5 · answered by sulaji84 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you not attracted to your bf?
If you allow him to play with you and he is patient enough to excite you - he would have you in the mood in no time!!!
2007-01-29 11:31:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't really change that, but you can tell him to change his attitude. He should really enjoy your company, but him, being a male, has to think of sex first. You can't help it; tell him to deal with it. Or you can stay all night for a couple times.
2007-01-29 11:30:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anodyne 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to stop being horney all the time. And you would have more fun if you were in the mood.
2007-01-29 11:33:36 · answer #8 · answered by Cindyyy<3 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could get the sex out of the way first. But I suspect you are using it as a carrot to keep him around all day.
2007-01-29 11:34:13 · answer #9 · answered by my_evil_twin_41 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u dont have 2 do any thing u dont want 2 do 4 a guy, if all he can think about is sex, then i say dump em!
2007-01-29 11:31:29 · answer #10 · answered by Boi Crazie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋