I have a girlfriend and she is amazing but lately she has been confusing me. One day she will be very affectionet and the next day it will seem like she doesnt want to talk to me. this has happened more then once.I dont no what to do or what to think.
2007-01-29 11:15:51 · 11 answers · asked by Adjfkakdjalj 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How about talking to her? Sit down when shes in a good mood and ask her why shes doing what shes doing. Maybe its nothing, but it could be something. Just be honest with her and let her know how you feel.
2007-01-29 11:19:41 · answer #1 · answered by PfcsBaby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be going through something. It may be that you did something wrong (it may not be necessarily it) like she might have wanted to say something to you but felt that you didn't really care or that you've been ignoring her a bit without meaning or realizing it.
Just be upfront and ask her when she doesn't want to talk to you what's wrong and if you did anything to offend her and if you did that you're sorry.
2007-01-29 19:23:50 · answer #2 · answered by lunar_eclipse142 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like the confusion you've obtain was the confusion she projected at you...
Try not to think too much, when she is alright, calmed, sit down and have a chat with her... there's nothing better or powerful than communication.
2007-01-29 19:21:30 · answer #3 · answered by calv83luc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds confused. Have a heart to heart talk with her. Maybe she is tiring of your relationship, or needs some space from you. Or maybe it's something else. You will never know unless you ask.
2007-01-29 19:19:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps her friends have been coaching her on the old trest him mean and keep him keen type strategy and she seems to be rotating a bit. maybe shes afraid of becoming involved in someting amazing and it scares her to be investing so much of herself so every now and again she tries to become independant of you. ask her outrite she'll be honest if shes as amazing as you believe.
2007-01-29 19:22:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her on it. Ask her what's going on and if there's something that you can do to help.
2007-01-29 19:20:13 · answer #6 · answered by penny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is ask her. It may be mood swings, or issues not related to you.
2007-01-29 19:18:30 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TALK 2 HER....SHE MAY BE GOING THROUGH SOME TOUGH TIMES.....ALSO LISTEN TO WHAT SHE HAS TO SAY
2007-01-29 19:21:35 · answer #8 · answered by LIBERIAN MAN 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe is she is skitzo sounds like it a lot.
2007-01-29 19:19:00 · answer #9 · answered by kelly ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's cheating on you. With me.
2007-01-29 19:19:47 · answer #10 · answered by ourxtrees 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋