Ok well I've known this guy since the beggining of the school year but we've never really talked, and then we were both at this party and we started talking alot there. Hes so nice and we have so much in common. I think there was a connection because I could always catch him looking at me and whenever the group went outside he would always come stand next to me.
I really like him and I want to go out with him but I can't ask him out because I am too nervous. He's never had a gf and I've had one bf for like 5 days.
He is in one of my classes but how can I talk to him...guys what do you like to talk about with girls?
And do you think its weird if a girl just comes up and starts talking to you. I'm just so nervous because I like him alot.
Guys what do you do when girls do that and would it be weird to just come up to you and like start a little conversation?
Please help me :)
2007-01-29 11:23:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no absolutly not. if he was staring at you at the party he is obviously interested. go over there and talk to him. life is too short to be worried about being nervous. just be yourself and go for it!
2007-01-29 11:32:56 · answer #1 · answered by stadnek 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definitely need to relax! Be yourself and talk to him like you would any other friend. It would be wierd if you saw him and then didn't go over and start a conversation with him, since you know him and you've talked before. Just be casual and talk about your classes or the party or just say hi, how's your day been so far? Something easy and natural. Just take a deep breath and relax. Be yourself.
2007-01-29 19:37:35 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a single and always has been single, I might be able to help. You could flirt, but dont ask him out right he'll get to jumpy and won't think about it. Also try not to use middle men (betweeners/talk to him through others) talk to him yourself don't do it when he is sourrounded by his friends, try to talk to him in the lunch line. in the middle of class is a good time to. Don't use notes those can be foraged. And if you want to talk to me for more advise drop me an e-mail at jylacy@yahoo.com.
2007-01-29 19:35:52 · answer #3 · answered by Jarvis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it. Go and talk to the person if you really like him. There is no set of rules for how to approach a guy.whatever nets you the guy will work.Imagine this maybe he might be thinking the same thing abt how to hook up with you so be BOLD
2007-01-29 19:29:32 · answer #4 · answered by wheelz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly it's real easy cuz guys want girls to talk to them so much. Just go start a conversation, if he even remotely finds you attractive he'll be into it.
2007-01-29 19:29:15 · answer #5 · answered by Zori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to him and start talking about some random thing like sports or something. He probably wont care.
truth is though, he probably likes you and doesn't have the gonads to come out and say something.
2007-01-29 19:28:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the guy u like him or have one of your friends tell him...maybe he feels the same about u
2007-01-29 19:27:58 · answer #7 · answered by starlilac4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST SAY HI, AND THE REST WILL BE EASY.....GOOD LUCK
2007-01-29 19:27:37 · answer #8 · answered by LIBERIAN MAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋