how would you tell him?

Question

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I met this guy buy accedentaly texting him . And for the past 4 months we have been texting each other we go to the same school and same grade . WE are going to meet each other at this club this weekend . How should i tell him its me . text go up to him and say hi or something else

Answer 1

I am sure no one has to tell you how to be safe meeting a stranger? I know you say he is in your school, and even in your class, but have you taken the right precautions?

Are you going to be going to a club with a bunch of friends? Do. It is not a good idea to meet someone for the first time (blind date--ish, isn't it?) under unsafe circumstances.

Now- if he IS in your year at school, does HE know YOU? Do you know what he looks like? I assume you both know each other by sight?

In which case you are asking how to go from having "chatted" for months by text to actually talking to each other for real.

Well- the answer is simple. Whatever you two talk about via text is what will form the basis of your conversation when you meet.

And while it is easier to text someone (my daughter likes this guy and he likes her but that is all they do- text!) it is cheaper to talk face to face!

Perhaps you can break the ice by texting him something while standing in front of him/near him and start your conversation off like that? Remember- he will feel just as awkward at first! And once you two begin to talk you will feel like you know each other for "4 months" because you DO. ;-)

Have fun and be safe.

Answer 2

Well, luckily you say you know who this guy is because if you didn't I would say back back off...way too dangerous. Other than that, make sure it is in a crowded place and with him knowing what time you will be there (do not go with him) just go up, say hi, and both get a kick how you accidently texted to meet. It will be a good ice breaker. Remember, if it doesn't work out...break it off and leave like a lady. Good luck to you.

Answer 3

Say "hey" through a text or send a photo of yourself. You can also ask where in the club he is. Definitely go up to him in the club if you know what he looks like.

Answer 4

Not Too Many Ways Other Than Introduce Yourself

Answer 5

Do you know what he looks like? If you do try to scope him out first, text him and say he looks really good in that blue shirt or what ever he is wearing. Let him text you back and then you can let it transpire from there.

Answer 6

No no no. Thats a very bad decision. you should get to know him first at school and actually see and learn something about him before. Txting him and going to a club is not a bright decision to make.

Answer 7

just be youreslf dont try to be too cute infront of him just go up to him and like read out a certain text that u wrote him or he wrote you and see if he realizes its you first if not then just say hi my name is ............i've been the one you be text back and forth for the last 4 months

Answer 8

text him and tell him how your close look like or meet him in front of the club

Answer 9

Approach him, but don't say anything. Send a text, and wait to see his response when he is near you, and reads it. Say something like, "Does your head hurt"? Then walk up to him, and say, "When you fell out of Heaven"? That's a great ice breaker.

Answer 10

yeah just stand next to him talkin to him makin small talk and send a text sayin its you

or just text him sayin "im over by the big tree!"

if you goto the same school just talk there though