2007-01-29 10:59:09 · 14 answers · asked by _turtlelover_7494_iluvcows_7494_ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let him alone. guys are like that.
2007-01-29 11:03:37 · answer #1 · answered by Erriyberry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are sincerely remorseful about hurting him, you are going to have to demonstrate this with more than words. Now, that DOES NOT MEAN you go have sex with him, or buy him things. You are gonna have to work hard to prove to him that you are sorry. You will have to start by fully owning up to exactly what you said. Then you need to figure out, for your own personal growth, why you said what you did, and how you can avoid doing the same again in the future.
You also are going have to find a way to communicate with him if he won't talk to you. Make him a card. Buy him a flower or two (I know I said don't buy him anything, but I meant "gifts"). You may have to apologize again, but make sure you look him in the eyes and really mean what you say.
I think once you've made a reasonable effort to make things right with him, the ball is then in his court. After a while though, you may have to reevaluate things and decide how long you are going to wait around for him to forgive you, and decide how you really feel about him in the first place.
2007-01-29 19:12:23 · answer #2 · answered by Ronnieboy34 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun you can't do anything about what he believes or accepts. What is important is that you are sorry and you know it. Try to treat him better, men don't like to be talked down about anymore than we do.If this was something verbal just give it time, but if you literally hit him, you really need to stop and think about how angry you get. And if your really sorry you'll do anything in your power to take classes or what ever so it does not happen again. Neither men nor woman like being hit. Good luck, I hope you two can work it out.
2007-01-29 19:07:44 · answer #3 · answered by lost angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's your ex right? Bashing happens. He has probably bashed you as well just hasn't been caught. Not that it makes it right that you bashed him. If he doesn't accept your apology then he just needs time to cool off and eventually get over it.
2007-01-29 19:12:21 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hope that by "bashed" you mean verbally and not with some manner of blunt object. We all say and do stupid things and if he can't accept your apology, then it's best to move on with your life and learn from the mistake.
2007-01-29 19:08:29 · answer #5 · answered by Scheming Angel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm... Probably leave him alone. As this is pretty serious (domestic violence is not just illegal for women!) you should definitely think about your actions and possibly go and see a psycologist! Your anger is not something people around you should have to deal with.
Thats just what I think anyway.
2007-01-29 19:06:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you may well be sorry but maybe you have an anger issue that he cant cope with im not saying your violent but he may fell intimidated by your agressiveness. suggest that youll see somone about it to ease his mind. another top tip dont ever do it again.
2007-01-29 19:07:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
That'll teach you. Shame on you.
2007-01-29 19:05:07 · answer #8 · answered by hopflower 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him cool off and then he will come back. if thats what you want
2007-01-29 19:04:27 · answer #9 · answered by daniel a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you bashed him how could he forgive you.
2007-01-29 19:07:36 · answer #10 · answered by john 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋