My Girlfriend and this guy, I need imediate help please?

Question

What do you do when you have a girlfriend, and this girlfriend thinks of you as her boyfriends, and she likes to hang out with guys a lot. And it happens that she tells these guys “do not say I love you to me” because they like her, actually one especially, likes her. And what happens if this one guy that she is friends with, kisses her on her neck and on her face, (she lets him), but she says for him to not kiss her on the lips. I am the boyfriend, and I am having trouble…what should I do????? PLEASE,, anyone help!!!

PS: About 2 weeks ago, this same guy (that she thinks as a friend, but he wants more from her) kisses her on the lips, she doesn’t slap him, but tells him that that shouldn’t have happened, and tells him that she doesn’t love him, but this guy keeps saying that he loves her non-stop. And now I as her real boyfriend, what should I do???help!!what should I tell her? I do like that she tells me that he kissed her, which means she isn’t hiding it…..she is truthful…BUT what about ME???what should I do about this???!!!!!

I have told this guy that I don’t like him saying to her that “I love you” crap and he said,, that he’d stop… but now…..KISSING HER !!!!!!!!What the heck>!!!!!It’s not right…its not fair, I would do anything for her, and she lets him kiss her… :(

Answer 1

Dude. You're getting PLAYED. This girl is smooth as silk. She's a player. Faithful woman don't hang out with guys that they know want more from them when they already have a boyfriend. The reason she is telling you "everything" or being "honest" with you is possibly to alleviate the guilt that she already feels for doing something she shouldn't be doing in the first place. Another reason may be to make you jealous. There is nothing wrong with opposite sex friendships, but try to recognize that your girlfriend might be an "attention whore" that needs to be courted by more than one man in order for her to feel good about herself. If she cared about you she would not tolerate this crap form guys that "like" her. Watch yourself!

Answer 2

Yeah....you need to grow some balls and dump your girlfriend. She's telling you what to say, what not to say and she's disrespecting you BIG TIME. You're the one looking like a moron here, not her and this other kissy kissy guy. Since she wants this guy to kiss her, dump her and let her kiss whomever she chooses. She has no respect or love for you whatsoever. The longer you let her tell you how things are going to be, the longer you're going to be miserable. Call her up and tell her you're done. No crying, no trying to work it out. She's basically cheating on you right in front of your face and you're letting her. Unless you want to be miserable for the rest of your life, dump her. Dump any girl like her. That's not what a girlfriend does...EVER. Find a girl who respects you and have enough self respect to demand to be treated with more respect. Sorry to harsh here but you're crying over a chick who couldn't care less about you. Stop putting yourself thorough needless misery and let her go. She's not really yours anyway, she's proved that. Good luck!

Answer 3

Dude! You're too young to have a 'serious relationship'. Date, have girlfriends, plural, and meet and date LOTS of girls. The worst thing you could do at your age is get really really serious.
Girls need to socialize with a lot of guys too. How ELSE are you going to find the right fit, eventually, until you have experience?

I guarantee you that in a month or two or a year or two you'll be having lots of fun with other girls, and her with other guys.

NEVER say to anyone, "I give you ALL of my love; always save some for the next!"

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Answer 4

Maybe you should tell her not to let him kiss her and tell the guy to stay away from your girl.