Family & Relationships - 28 January 2007

My boyfriend has two kids from his first marriage--a 3 and 6 year old who live with their mother. They have shared custody, but he sees them every other weekend. The 6 year old has started to do things like wake up at 4am and want to go back home to his mom's. He also says things to his dad like, "You don't love me anymore," and "We don't do anything when I'm here." 1) Why do they say those things? 2) Is there anything that can be done to change the boy's statements? 3) What can my boyfriend do to help him deal with this? (books, activities, etc?) From a non-mom-caring-girlfriend, thanks for your help!

2007-01-28 02:27:59 · 14 answers · asked by j24633 1 in Marriage & Divorce

anyone else having a boring sunday?

2007-01-28 02:27:50 · 27 answers · asked by tigress 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a boyfriend of two years. But ive been getting very close with another boy (I'm 16, the new boy is 18) my boyfriend it my age.
I talk to him every day. we tell eachother we like eachother. And i feel SO bad for that. i know i sound like a horrible person. And all the responces to this will say "you cant love him that much"
or "you shouldnt be tied down at 16". But im so happy with him. (My boyfriend) i do truly love him with all of my heart. And there is no way in the world i would even 'go out' with the other boy. i just like him an awful lot. he gives me a buzz which ive never experienced before.

Is anyonelse going through the same thing??

please help me

2007-01-28 02:27:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want everything to be perfect. I have picked out several dresses to try on and picked bridemaid dresses and the tuxs... my color is going to be perwinkle and______? I need to know what color will go with these. I need Ideas for decorations and what to have for the main course. Just ideas in everything...This will be my second marriage but first church wedding. Don't want to do the court thing again... Need help too my dad is no longer here with me who should I have escort me down the ille?

2007-01-28 02:27:14 · 12 answers · asked by emt_girl_50 2 in Weddings

I am a new kid in a school. My family moved. I had a choice in gym to do dance or ice hockey, because all the girls picked dance, I chose it too. I am pretty shy, and the thing is that the teacher said we might do the tango in class with a partner. I am nervous because I hate being embarassed. And the thing is that there are some boys in dance too so some of the girls will partner with boys. I dont think we can change to the diffrent sport.What can I do to stop being so cautious about it?

2007-01-28 02:26:42 · 22 answers · asked by berry u 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a boyfriend and he told me about his exgirlfriend and how they broke up and that the way she hurt him he will never go back to her but the thing is he always tell me how beautiful and stylish the girl is and i always ask him to stop talking about her when i am with him. He is even jealous that he doesn't want the girl to have a relationship,he is saying that the girl uses her beauty to sleep with men and i asked him;why are you concerned a lot about her?and he said:just. Does my boyfriend still have feelings for his ex girlfriend?

2007-01-28 02:26:36 · 16 answers · asked by peedee 2 in Singles & Dating

I hesitated to ask, but I get the courage.I am not experomental in bed. But I was quite at a loss when my new gf. proposed a*n*al sex. girls can really enjoy that kind of sex?

2007-01-28 02:25:40 · 13 answers · asked by earthlove 2 in Singles & Dating

she spends the time she is awake on this pc, i leave for work at 5.30am and return at 7pm, i then have to start the dinner, bathe our 2yr old daughter, tidy up as best i can, she says she is depressed, if so why does she spend all her time online? i feel i cant take much more, i want out of this mind numbing depressing relationship, but, i love her, i want to help her, just dont want to be her mug.

2007-01-28 02:25:10 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He is very shy but is also very lazy and can not be bothered to make an effect to make freinds....he is picked on alot at school too....so maybe this is why???I have tried everything I am a very out going always on the go person he is so not like me????any ideas I am all out.

2007-01-28 02:25:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My ex keeps putting my children through hell just to try to hurt me. HE asked for the divorce and now that he sees that he is not being taken care of like before, he wants back in. Sorry! But he uses our children as weapons, not bringing them back home on time until I give in to something, trying to force them into changing residential parent to him just to receive child support, etc. It never ends. My poor children are being mentally tortured! We are in counseling for his behavior but how do I get him to STOP ABUSING his own flesh and blood?? He is too selfish to see past his own face!

2007-01-28 02:23:46 · 11 answers · asked by NYEVE43 2 in Marriage & Divorce

a man to anther man

2007-01-28 02:23:32 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex and I broke up almost 3 months ago and she's been with someone else since then, So I didn't like the fact of how she shifted so easily, so I made no contact at all with her. I love her so much and it still kills me to know that she's with someone else. And, lately she's been writing these notes to me saying how she doesn't like how we don't talk at all anymore and how much she misses me. She even said how much she would hate to see someone else take my heart and it had me thinking. So, I showed one or two people the note and her boyfriend found out about the letter and broke up with her. She asked me did I show anyone and I said know, Should I just tell her the truth, that I DID show people? I'm just affraid that she'll never be open to me anymore, and she'll get confused and not show her true feelings to me again

2007-01-28 02:21:57 · 10 answers · asked by Kenneth W 1 in Singles & Dating

My Fiance and I have been together for 2 years and we are really starting to fight and argue constently. We are both really stuborn people so that makes it worse. We have tried many times to make things work by ourselves, but we are now at wits end and need someone else. We have four beautiful kids not only do we want to make it work for them, but for ourselves.We love each other more then words could explain, and we want to make it work, but does counseling really help? Is it worth it? Will it help? PLEASE HELP!!!!!

2007-01-28 02:21:28 · 11 answers · asked by Nicole T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm tired of it.
He never calls me anymore. We haven't gone on a date since july.
He plays 264 hours a month on his video game. What am I doing wrong? I've tried to tell him but hey, he makes me feel guilty. He told me he doesn't consider me a best friend anymore. I'm just a girl that calls and he choses if he wants to answer or not.
Should I end the relationship?

2007-01-28 02:21:24 · 10 answers · asked by small one 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm approaching my 3 year anniversary wit my girlfriend. i need some ideas bout wat to get her. care to share your ideas or experiences?? thanks alot.

2007-01-28 02:20:50 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-28 02:20:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-28 02:20:17 · 29 answers · asked by Tyesha B 1 in Family

I am an India an i am 19 and I have an american boy friend and he is 19 too. we plan to get married..Cud u plz give me some mexican recepies n other american ones... and could you tell me more about Americans...he's from washinton state

2007-01-28 02:20:15 · 4 answers · asked by Sunshine 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-28 02:18:30 · 18 answers · asked by Jovian L 2 in Singles & Dating

This guy I like for the past few weeks has been really sweet to me, and flirts with me all the time. He plays with my hair, he tickles me, he calls me cutie, we sit really close, he even made me a mix CD of music that we both like.... only thing is he has a reputation for using girls.... so does he like me?? or is he just trying to use me??

And yes I've asked this question before but i never got to see the answers because I cant log into my old account

2007-01-28 02:12:19 · 16 answers · asked by Chrissy 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my ex were together just under 2 years we done everything together.he lived with me he works with my dad and we went on holiday together twice.i done everything for him i was the only one he could talk to.he says there wont be an us again but im sure he hasnt got a clue what he want,im worried that he wouldnt get back with me becuase of his work situation.i feel as if he is trying to aviod me and not speak to me beacuse he is confused.we alwAYS talked about kids getting married and we planed to get our own place.i no he is only young but i no that i want him back and i will do anything to get him back...you carnt just stop loving someone like that can you!there must be something ican do!do he need his own space.?please help

2007-01-28 02:12:19 · 23 answers · asked by princess 1 in Singles & Dating

He doesn't have a speech or hearing problem.

Am I right after asking nicely twice to tell him to either stop mumbling or shut the f$^% up.

Because frankly I am getting a little sick of it.

2007-01-28 02:11:10 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We were talking on aim for about 5 hrs last night, and he said,"I'm not going to lie I think I still like you." We broke up in November cuz he said he just wastnt ready to be in a relationship. We werent talking until last night, and we want a 2nd chance with eachother... but someone already asked me out Thursday and I dont think me and this new guy will even be together that long. So who do I chose from? I really like my ex more.

2007-01-28 02:10:54 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am having an intense relationship with a man old enough to be my father. how do both of us sort out this consenting affair?

2007-01-28 02:08:40 · 8 answers · asked by hoodwink 2 in Family

Hi! theres a friend of mine, she and her bf juz broke up,and suddenly she asked me wat is love, i was shocked, nt bcoz i she asked me so suddenly, its bcoz when i come to think of it, i cant exactly noe or explain wat is love, so can any1 tell me?

2007-01-28 02:08:24 · 9 answers · asked by Max S 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-28 02:07:50 · 37 answers · asked by peedee 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-28 02:06:37 · 20 answers · asked by gone 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My Boyfriend's Mother Bought Him A Pair Of Jeans For Xmas And I Told Him I Liked Them Then He Said They Were Gay But He Got Up Today And Put Them On. Why Would He Wear Them If He Doesn't Like Them?

2007-01-28 02:05:33 · 22 answers · asked by Back*To*Me 4 in Singles & Dating

My sister was grounded for the past two weeks for cussing at mom. She's 11.
All week long she was kissing up to mom to get out of her last day of grounding but mom wouldn't give in.

So my sister snuck out of her window and went to a basketball game, my little brother ratted her out to mom just to get her in trouble. Which she did.

I'm still in shock that mom actually put her across her knee
and spanked her, my mom never spanked any of us, she
popped us on the butt but nothing like what my sister got.
Besides the spanking mom grounded Heather for 1 month!

I know what my sister did was wrong, but if mom would of
let her go to the game she would of never sneaked out.
All this could of been avoided.

Don't you think thats too much punishment for my sister?
Should I speak to mom and try to get the grounding down to
2 weeks?

I'm mad at my brother to for ratting her out.

2007-01-28 02:05:25 · 16 answers · asked by hugz 1 in Family

So, I was shopping in Goodwill, and I begged my little brother to come along and he did. So as I'm browsing and looking around for clothes for my little brother, my little brother starts hiding behind me. I had no idea that it was because his classmate was there and he didn't want him to find out, so I said really loud,
"Wilbur! Look it's your friend from school!"
Now my little brother is mad at me, what do I do?
Shouldn't people be embarssed about being on drugs, and other bad things instead of going to Goodwill. He says I ruined his reputation, and now he doesn't even talk to me.

2007-01-28 02:05:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce